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Open Question: I want to start learning hip hop, but no experience in dancing!?
I'm only 13, living in the bay area. I'm really inspired to dance, but I just don't know where. I heard that a lot of people use videos online to help them dance. Does anyone have any recommendations? And I would love to find a place that teaches hip hop dancing too. Thanks! Send me links, please! moreOpen Question: Why is everyone so easily offended?
I just don't get it. I mean, I understand that lots of people are very firm on the opinions that they have about things but I've seen some people go a bit overboard with hating something that someone else it's doing. It's as if the person is killing them by doing it or something. One of my best mates hates eating meat and hates people that aren't very into Chinese things because she love love loves that culture to death. If someone eats meat or isn't interested in her Chinese obsession she gets so pissed off. It's a bit much to me. If I want to eat meat then I can eat meat and if I'm not obsessed with China then I'm not. Why must she make such a big deal about that? I know she feels strongly about her interests and the fact that she finds eating meat disgusting but it's not as if I've murdered one of her family members and eaten them with a side of corn. moreOpen Question: Is there something wrong with me?
I'm 13 when I was ten my cat I had for 10 years died and after that 5 more of my animals died and 7 months ago my dog had to be put down because of cancer.I had to move 10 times so far and i'm starting to act kinda different i'm stating to randomly laugh at nothing and I can't stop I am laughing at stuff that is really sad but its not sad to me I find it funny.I have a sudden urge to strangle my dog and kill my ''parents'' and step-mom but I don't feel guilty at all.I made a list of people I want to kill and how to do it like how to get there what would be the best way to kill them.I start to get kinda twitchy.I hear people call my name when nobody is around.I don't talk to people I get nervous around them so I talk to myself instead.I cover the mirrors in the bathroom because there are cameras in them and I took down the mirrors in my room.I always feel like there is someone watching me.And I am pretty sure my ''parents'' aren't really my ''parents'' like they are copies and I think my cat also.There is a bit more but I can't say it.This is not a joke and don't make fun of me please.And I can't tell my ''parents'' because they will tell the other people. moreOpen Question: i was a sheltered child and now i cant handle knowing all the bad things in this world. help?
for some reason since i can remember my mom awlays thought someone was going to take me, touch me inapropriatley or something. she kept me AND HER very sheltered. my dad was always at work and my older brother was rarely ever home. (he got married at 16) i couldnt listen to music unless my parents listened to it first and i had to explain sentence for sentence the song and explain what it was saying. i only watch disney cartoons, or happily ever afters (my mom even fast fowarded the part when bambis mom died) i didnt actually see that part til i showed the movie to my son. i didnt even know that part was in there! i stayed the night at only three friends houses a couple times each my whole childhood. i did go to regular school but my mom was always calling to see if i was there and then met me after school even in high school. i couldnt wear shorts, low cut tops etc. i though it was becuase i was ugly or something. (yes i am finding out that i have major problems now that i am adult) anyway up until a couple months ago i thought i was normal. i thought all families functioned like mine did. the way i was raised was normal to me. i really thought the world was all rainbows and unicorns and everything was happily ever after. my mom gave me so much love that i didnt know anything else could exist. i had everything i wanted. (i wasnt spoiled but i suppose i could have been if i had a mentallity like that) i worried about nothing and everthing was taken care of for me. i lived in a perfect world. or so it seemed. now that i am older and im going to college. i am learning that the world is in fact the opposite. people are not nice! horrific things happen in our world everyday and i cant handle knowing it. it literally drives me crazy. i am going to school to be a parole officer and we have been studying about child molesters and rapist, animal cruelty, animal sex offenders etc. its all awful and i seriously cant handle know thins information. i read true stories about child molesters and the pictures and stories just replay in my head all day and night. i cant handle knowing this stuff. everyone else in my class can see this kind of stuff and they appear to be fine. since ive been an adult on my own im learning the world for what i actually really is and i cant process it normally.everyone thinks im wierd for the way i act. im finding out that i am not normal and that i have all these things wrong with me. what do i do? moreOpen Question: How Can I Increase My Bandwidth So That My PS3 And Laptops Are Faster And Do Not Lagg?
Hey, I do not have very much internet bandwidth and it is causing me problems. Say Brother is watching a video on something like youtube my playstation will lagg and he says his video stops and starts and i also find this happens on my laptop. i want to know how to increase my bandwidth so videos do not stop and start and so that i can play my ps3 (cod6) without people seeing me 5 secs before i see them and also so it wont keep lagging me out if you have any advice, please let me know, if something else is the problem, like internet provider then please let me know. btw i am with BT and i have unlimited amount of Gb to use and i have a bt home hub. moreOpen Question: What do you think of this story plot and characters?
I'm currently trying to write a story which is a re-imagining of the robin hood legend. This time it features a young woman taking up the place of Robin hood, called Samantha Hoode who forsakes her title to become an outlaw. As of yet, unsure if I'm going to set it in a dystopic near-future or back then with scholars assuming that Robin Hood is a man. See what you think I'm going to develop the characters further but as of yet havent had the inclination. Samantha “Robin” Fernsdale: Samantha is the daughter of a wealthy Landowner in England, but her own mother owns much land in Wales, and therefore Sam lives in Wales to keep an eye on her estate, although lives a few villages away from her mother’s old homestead due to her studying ladyship lessons. On return to her village she finds her father has been forced into his other estate, while her own land is forfeited to the crown, due to her absence and her younger brother being accused of being a wolfs head, Sam rescues her brother and assumes the name of Robin and binds her breasts while escaping to the mountain and forest regions of Wales. Abigail “Friar” Tuck: Abigail is the daughter of the lady-in-waiting and a young huntsman. Abigail accidentally murders a man in self defence when he attempts to rape her, she escapes to where she believes her old friend Samantha is, although quickly finds that her position is threatened. She is known for her ability to heal people and animals alike. She escapes Wales, her identity acts as a dual as a man, when she wants to go into a town unnoticed she dresses as a friar by the surname of Tuck. Branwen “Sion” Bach: The oldest of the group, but the smallest, Branwen is the most experienced of the groups in the way of highway robbery, acting the part of her brother – by which she goes by the name of Twm Sion Cati, although her career is constantly under threat by the Sheriff of Brecon – but when she collides with Sam, the two become best friends and Branwen her loyal follower. She continues her career as Twm Sion, just to keep things ‘interesting’ although while part of Sam’s brigade she becomes known as Little John. Michaela A’Dale: A wandering minstrel, who goes by the name of Andrew as a merry person. She is considered to be the most poetic of the group. The winsome elf is in love with a young Lord called Sir Richard. whilst as a robbing man of Samantha’s brood, she goes by the name of Scarlet, whom is a flirtatious man. moreOpen Question: I'm scared about going to university?
I am not living in hall and scared that it will be much harder living out. I'm really scared that because i'm not in halls i won't meet people properly. I found a house to live in online and the people i'll be living with (i think) will be going out every night and i'm okay with a few times but not a lot. I prefer just hanging out and i think that's easier when you're living in halls. Also i'm scared about moving away. I changed universities this year (last year i was really really homesick and just wanted to go home practically all the time) and am starting again but i really and considering taking a year out but i don't want to be too old when I go. (i'll be 21 is i take a year out) moreOpen Question: Why is it that I only attract black women? I find some black women v hot but I'm mostly into white girls but..?
...they're never interested. Therefore I have to date black girls cos otherwise I'd have no-one to date. I'm not at all racist and I certainly don't find black women to be particularly unattractive...it's just that on the whole most don't drive me crazy with desire the way that most white girls do. However, 99% of white girls want nothing to do with me. Whereas I find that black girls are far nicer and for example on dating sites they will sometimes even take the initiative to message me whereas with a white girl I'd have to message her and then she still wouldn't respond. What could be the explanation for this? I hope I don't sound racist - I mean I would have thought that most people would usually be most attracted to people within their own ethnic group.Oh and I'm white btw. moreOpen Question: were worried about our 20 week anomly scan!?!?
HI, myself and my partner are worried about the 20 week anomaly scan that is happening tomorrow. We are worried as most people would be at this stage as they check for birth defects and any problems that the baby may have ( touchwood ). What makes it more concerning is that my partner has been finding it hard to eat ,much food, toast here toast ther, maybe chips and curry sauce if were lucky. We are worried that because she has not been eating enuf and that the baby has not been getting enuf nutrients etc in order to form healthily. I feel bad because all i have been thinking about is what sex the baby is, obv i have wanted it to be healthy all the way thru but it is really starting to kick in tonight. Is there mothers out there that didnt have the best of diets? was your baby ok?is there anything that we can do to help her eat better? and also my partner did not take Folic acid as we didnt find out she was pregnant till after the time that she could have taken it,..IS this going to cause problems as i have herd that it helps prevent spinabifida etc. Please if u have any advice or help in order to give us a better chance of a healthy pregnancy or some info that can put our minds at rest, even if you could just explain what they will be doing at tommorows scan..Many thanks Ps, anybody that has an interest and feel as though they could help my partner throughout the prgnancy.(as we have no1) please get in touch it would be greatly appriciated, il update this page to let anybody that is interested how the scan went, or upload the pic etc. many many thanks and apologies for going on and on and on etc moreOpen Question: where can i find good singles holidays for young people?
I am late 20s and single and looking for a holiday with other young people. Every singles holidays seems to be an activity or adventure holiday and I really want somewhere hot, with some nightlife but most importantly to relax. moreOpen Question: I Hate Work Experience! Not sure how to get on...?
I am seriously not sure about continuing at this place anymore. I am seriously not sure about continuing at this place anymore. Starting with a little bit about myself, I've just left sixth form and have taken out a gap year to work in industry and help build up my CV for future employment prospects (I want to be able to leave University with a good chance of finding employment!) I want to enter into Agriculture (specialising in crop production) and so have been accepted into a nice University for that degree. Meanwhile, I have started working on a farm which I initially believed to be pretty good and professional but feel a little deceived. I'm a little shy and I think being a girl here adds a great disadvantage to myself. The farm labourers are quite happy to leave me waiting for a job to do for hours on end. I understand they're busy, but when I get there for six in the morning and I don't see anyone until half seven, I really don't understand why they can't ask me to come in later. It happens similarly when I come back from lunch, waiting sometimes for two hours. The guys that work there are pretty awkward to work for. They have you stand around for ages feeling like a liability constantly, while at other times wolf whistling when I come back. The guy who owns the place and supervises me, who I was warned about by one of the team, keeps trying it on with me rather than teaching me what exactly goes on. Apparently, he has a reputation for trying to have 'intimate moments' with students coming to work for him, to an extreme that some have left. I wasn't really expecting him to be like that considering the fact that he's married with a young son. The farm prides itself on being free range and humane (which is why I preferred it to some cruel, intensive farm) but in the short time I've seen people kicking and punching the livestock in anger which upsets me greatly. For example, they play 'chicken rugby' or tie rope around crows legs and kick it, justifying it because they eat the eyes out of the dead pigs. They're pretty disrespectful to the carcasses as well i.e. "f***ing dying c**t". I hide my feelings so as to try and get along with people but I sometimes feel like giving their details to the ALF for being so vindictive and damn cruel. There isn't anybody I can relate to, and on top of that, I work for long hours (six to six) and putting up with their petty games is taking its toll. I feel like dropping out, which seems to make sense as I'm not being paid. At the same time, I can't find any paying work available. Equally, I won't be shown the crop side to the job which would be most relevant to me and only the animal side, the part I have quite a strong animosity towards. Can you offer some advice? Thanks for reading moreOpen Question: Breast Reduction Questions?
I am asking women that have had a breast reduction. I am a 21 year old female. I stand at just over 5'3 and I have 36H breasts. For some time now I have been considering having a reduction as not only do men constantly stare at my breasts, I find it very hard to find clothes that fit me properly. I have to buy size 18 clothes when I'm a size 14 and it's so hard to find nice bras at a reasonable price. I have considered having a reduction but then I think about all the women that have paid to have big boobs. The downside is that it's hard for me to do things that most people do. I have trouble doing sports and even had to give up a job doing what I enjoyed because it was causing me back pain. I just wanted to see what people thought about my situation and if you are someone who has had a reduction, I would like to know about your experience and how you feel now. moreResolved Question: How to lessen a leeds accent?
I don't mean i want to change to a different accent, but sort of alter it slightly so that more people can understand it. I want to travel, i don't want people finding it hard to understand me. I also want to make youtube videos to help people learn languages. I think the yorkshire accent sounds a bit stupid or lazy etc. No offence to people with the same accent as me, it's just how i hear it. How can i learn to lessen it? I pronounce THE properly now haha. What else? moreOpen Question: Are the Christians who are going to burn Qur'ans, intentionally provoking violence?
Not to mention hypocrites... There is no more violence in the Qur'an, than in the Bible. I am an Atheist, so don't care for either of these religions, but this sort of idiotic behaviour cause people to follow their stupid example, and find yet more reasons to want to murder each other... ..and the well being of all people (regardless of their beliefs) is something I care a great deal about.@Old School - Where did I lump Christians together in my question? It was very specific. moreOpen Question: People say you should never kill yourself over a guy, but what if there really was no alternative?
There are so many sad stories of both men and women taking their own lives because the person they fell for doesnt feel the same/doesnt want to be with them/has found someone else. There was even a case in 2005 where a beautician in the London Harvey Nichols store was shot dead because of her former lover. From having read the story, he couldnt bare the thought of not having her, so he shot her dead and then shot himself in the store. Maybe that is a real extreme case, but what about the people who cant cope? That that person means everything to them, and that person in return is an ungrateful piece of shit, still chasing after their ugly trollop of an ex wife. Yes, I am one of those sad individuals who is thinking of doing that. But I am asking you as the answerers, why you shouldnt. There is no alternative. I dont want anyone else, ever. The pain is so unbearable, it's like a knife stabbing me every second. For anyone who mentions family, for starters I have no kids. Secondly, my parents dont love me, and I cant say fairer than that. My Dad doesnt talk to me (he and my Mum separated a few years ago) and he is too smitten with his Geordie gold digger (she really is one, I have met her, and she is only after my Dad's money). My Mum doesnt trust or love me. Friends? I dont really have any. Again, I cant say fairer. I dont believe in God and quite frankly if there is a Heaven and Hell, dont care if I burn in Hell. I am considering plans of going down to Eastbourne in England, getting a taxi to Beachy Head cliff and jumping. This guy knows and has said I should do it. He doesnt care, and I dont care about any other stupid men. I just want him.No one gets this. I want him!!! Oh yes, and I am old enough to realise "alternatives" or whatever. I am also old enough to pay tax, get a mortgage or whatever. I am sick of those idiots out there smirking and rubbing it in my face that they are happy. Do I really care that you are fucking engaged?! No, so get lost and stop trying to make it worse. moreOpen Question: does my partner dislike/hate me?
me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years and we've got a one half year old son and one on the way anyway my partner is not very affectionate i've walked the street with him he's seen other girls he knows he gives them a kiss and hug and will engage in conversation while im left standing there waiting for him he doesn't hug or kiss me the only time he shows interest is when were having sex he does'nt make me feel good about myself he says i should feel lucky that he comes home to me he claims he is not cheating yet he carries his fone with him every where even to the toillete we both found out last year he has a fourteen year old son with a girl he slept with years ago when he was seventeen and ive been very supportive to him he went all the way to this girls house he slept there twice in an arguement with her last week he past the fone to me to talk to her she claims he had sex with her the nite he went there but he had told me she tried on with him and he knocked her back the first time i fell pregnant he made me abort the baby now my family members visit me maybe once every six months because they do not like him because he hit me before i have no friends and i only have him to talk to but he is always talking about otha things and otha people he always goes out he doesn't help me pay my bills i'm not concerned about that all i ever wanted from him was just to care for me to be supportive and affectionate but every time i look at him im stuck wondering why he's with me im confused and paranoid and it's making me sick with stress it was my birthday yesterday and i was just stuck trying to find reasons to be happy i feel the life has been sucked out of me i never used to be like this no one told me loving someone could really hurt this much please give your honest opinion this is my last resort after this i just give upfor those who say im playing a victim this man made out like he was honest straight foward and realistic i have no problem with a man havin his privacy if that was always the way he was i would never want to stop someone from bein themselves i have stayed with ihm this long for the sake of the son we have together now im dead inside so those who want to criticise me dont write anything ive spent my life goin through abuse i just didnt expect as a 21 year old comin out of care cause my mum chose her pedophile husband over me i just didnt think my life could be like this so dont make me feel any worse about myself by making this is my fault i always always accept responsibility for everything thats happened to me all asked for was opinions to help me be able to deal with this situation because my partner doesnt see how unhapy i am moreOpen Question: when did you start potty training and how long did it take?
my daughter is 20 months now and i did try training a couple of months ago as she told me when she needed to wee and would sit on the potty, but it didnt get anywhere. she stopped wanting to sit on it and if she did shed get up straight away and hold it in until i put a nappy back on as she was scared to wet herself (didnt like the feeling), so i packed it in because i didnt want to push her and part of me wasnt ready either and she still felt too young although everyone was telling me she should have been trained long before. everyone keeps pushing me to train her and that she should have been dry months ago but i still think shes very young and i feel really pressured. i was trained at 1 1/2 but i cant imagine how people can do that at a child who is too young to understand things like that, or is it just because im a first time mum? i want my daughter to do it when shes ready and for it to happen quickly because she is ready, not to take months because shes still unsure. she will sit on it for 5-10 minutes now if we read a book together but she still refuses to wee on the potty and will hold it in until she wets herself i cant get her to the potty quick enough as she freezes and goes stiff so i cant lift her. i feel bad and would wait longer but we are trying for baby number 2 and ideally i want her trained properly before the baby is born to save money on nappies as i can still give her my full attention at the moment. how do i go about doing this? id prefer not to take advice from family members because i dont agree with the ways they trained their children. how often through the day should i sit her on the potty and how long for? if she refuses to wee on the potty should i let her decide that, but how can i prevent her wetting herself without having to put a nappy on her if she continues to hold it in? i read a lot of mums know their children wee regularly and use that time to sit them on the potty, but my daughter drinks all different amounts throughout the day so her wee happens at any time, how can i use this to help? is it best to keep a nappy on her when we go out and at bedtime until she is weeing confidently? as i read the potty training in one week book and it says to get rid of nappies from day one but i can just imagine a disaster in public if i done that. would it be easier to let her run around naked or should i get her used to knickers straight away? once she is weeing on the potty through the day how long should i wait before taking the nappy away at night and when we go out? ive never done this before as shes my first and im finding it harder than i thought as her attention doesnt last long on one thing. any advice or tips would be appreciated or your potty training story for your children. sorry its long thanks x moreOpen Question: Am i going Mad? Or could stress be causing this?
My partner lost his job some weeks ago now and a result of this we lost our house. Me, my partner and 19 Month old daughter have since been staying at my mothers house; whom i must add is very interfering and controlling. I am finding my day to day life such a struggle, my little girl screaming in one ear, my mum putting me down in the other and as a result of the situation making me feel so irritable, frequent fall outs with my partner. On top of everything i am also suffering from severe agoraphobia, social and health anxiety and some degree of post natal depression. My concern is that lately i do not feel with it at all, very forgetful, poor memory, can't think straight, clumsy, which causes my partner get annoyed with me, in my own world a lot, doing things and being in my own world unaware of the present, obsessive intrusive thoughts, not being able to find words and using words in the wrong context because i cannot always think clearly. I do not want to drown on about what is wrong with me, i know there are people far worse off; but i would just appreciate outside opinions on if i could be going mad because i feel like i am. Many thanks. moreOpen Question: I've told a very bad lie... Please help?
Long story, sorry. I got pregnant by a guy I was dating for a couple of weeks (not clever, I know). We finished because he told me he had a gf, so I dumped him, then found out. He has continued to cheat on his gf - I know this because I see her FB page, and also that he is back on the dating site we met on. He made it clear for about 4.5 months that he wanted me to abort, that I was ruining his life and that he wanted nothing to do with the baby now or ever, financially or emotionally. I then told him that I could take him to court, but if he could help me out a little bit financially then I wouldn't - I just needed a bit of extra help because bringing up a baby on my wage would be difficult. He agreed. Then all of a sudden mailed me to tell me he'd told his family and as he was paying for the child he thought he should be entitled to see it - something I had offered to him from the beginning but he had always maintained he did not want the baby. I was scared as h£ll because he is moving away from my city - 3.5 hours drive away. I don't know him at all, and what I do know of him is mean, lying, cheating and verbally abusive. He is also in the army so cannot offer any kind of stability to my child. He told me he had finished with his gf and was sorry things hadn't worked out with me, but her FB still shows them together, so I felt he was STILL lying to me, and I can't trust him one bit. He said his main motivation for seeing the child was money, but that he could disappear if I wanted. He said that he didn't feel he'd done any wrong by me whatsoever and couldn't understand why I was angry with him because when he'd told me to abort it wasn't a 'real baby' - he was still trying to put pressure on me at 14 weeks and never bothered to come to the scan. So I made out that I had miscarried. I didn't say the words, but I text him making it pretty clear that's what I meant. Since then he has text me 4-5 times asking if I'm OK (the most he has approached me in 5 months!), he sent me a bunch of lillies to my home address. I felt bad, but thought I had done the best by everyone. This way, he gets to get on with his life, and I can bring up my son in peace and not have to worry about an absent father letting him down, taking him away for weekends to a strange place with strange people, hundreds of miles away from me in an emergency. Last night he text me again saying "Hi, I know you don't want to hear from me, and I won't bother you again, but can you tell me what happened and if you're OK". I think he has a cheek to be worried about my feelings NOW after all he has put me through. I'm nearly 6 months pregnant, have had to do all of this on my own, hospital appointments, scans, facing work, my family, my friends, receiving horrible mails from him telling me to get rid of it, that I was ruining his life etc. But I don't know what to do now. Do I change my number and hope that he goes away? Do I phone him up and tell him in the exact words that I lost the baby? Or do I tell him the truth and take a massive gamble on a man I don't know, don't trust and don't respect? I feel like he made it this way. He threw it all in my face, has continued to lie, and then made it clear that he was just going to see his baby because he was paying for it - and didn't even offer to pay the full amount, so I felt like he was making my child a bargain-basement pay-per-view child. And he's loaded, I'm not, so that makes it even worse. If I lie then it gives us all a chance to move on with our lives. moreOpen Question: i dont think i do enough with my child am i bad mum?
Dhe is not far off 2 years old, shes quite an independent toddler shell play by herself happily for a while or watch a film so i can get on with cleaning and washing, then when im done im so tired i just want to relax for a bit watch tv or something, when i know reallly i should be spending time with my daughter instead and i feel bad for wanting to be alone and relaxing for a while in peace. I was brought up not spending any time with my parents whatsoever so it made me really independent that if someone relies on me or needs me I find it hard, i know its rediculous as i am a mum now and she needs me and this should have been dealt with straight away, but i still find it hard to adapt to everything and not doing things alone. i dont put myself first at all, i always make sure she is fed, clothed and clean before anything else, but i generally just leave her to do what she wants and i know its wrong of me. i play with her or read a book with her every day, just not all day, im not sure what other mums do or if this is bad of me and i should be spending all day doing stuff with her. her speech is good although lots of people brag their children can say more than her, and shes not potty trained yet because shes not ready ive tried and she dosnt want to so im not going to push her, despite being told im lazy because i should have trained her by now. I think everyone puts me down and makes me feel bad like i'm not doing enough,so i dont feel worthy and just don't bother. i know its wrong and i know things need to change i just dont know how or what i should be doing. I dont know if its because im young, but there is no excuse i know that. What should i be doing with her and how often through the day? she has such a short attention span that we both get fed up after a while of what were doing, if we read a book after the first page she walks off, if we play a game no doubt shell throw a tantrum in between and not want me. I dont blame her at all shes a lovely child and i love her so much i feel terrible that i could do more but i dont, i try and find things all the time to do with her but nothing interests her only when we visit relatives and they take over she seems happier and it hurts me. So be truthful, am i a bad mum? please could someone give me advice on what i should be doing or how to improve both our short attention spans and how to make things fun for her all day rather than expecting her to do things alone because i know thats not fair. it seems i just tell her off all the time for doing something she shouldnt be because she has nothing else to do and that makes me feel bad too. her dad does the same so neither of us help the situation because he doesnt do anythig with her and stays on the computer so its down to me really, and i also have a house to clean etc so i cant split my body. thanks for reading if you got this far, i just want to be a good mum for her sake so she can look back and be proud of how i raised her, rather than hating me the way i do my own mother for doing the same with me, its like an ongoing cycle i want to end so i can do a better job with my daughter. please help, id appreciate encouragement advice but if you feel the need to insult me go ahead. moreOpen Question: My cousin and most of my friends like my crush?
Warning: This is going to be very very long, so please, if you dont want to answer just leave thanks. [This is about my cousin] Me and my cousin go to the same school. (she came in this year, i was in this school last year). She came from this really really rich private school. I trusted her in everything, i told her everything too. But then whatever i do at school, she tells her mom (her mom and dad divorced), her mom tells my grandma and then my grandma tells my dad. she tells stuff like: I dont eat my lunch(cause i dont have the time to, but then i do when i get home) I buy other people lunch (They pay me back) I got told off at school (cause of her not doing her work and im the group leader) I really hate it cause everyone calls us 'the twins' (we look nothing alike).She always sticks with me and she keeps calling me fat, ugly, dandruff girl (she has wayyy more than me lmao) and other names. I sit next to my crush(my left) and she sits on my right. Everytime he talks to me she always goes like "Oh christina stop flirting...." or "ooooooooo Christina and -------" My cousin is better at everything compared to me, everyone compares us including our teacher. I think she's trying to get my jealous cause she always says stuff like "------ keeps staring at me, i feel so awkward" and "He talk to me!! OMFG OMFG OMFG" (btw my other friend says that my crush really hates her.... So what should i do with her? [This is about my FRIENDS] Yeah i know, my crush is very popular between asian girls in my class. 3 of my other friends like my crush. One keeps smiling and flirting with him by touching his hair, poking him, slapping him ont he back and laughing at EVERYTHING he says. One keeps looking at him no matter what he does and everytime she mentions his name...lol but i find it funny how we sit in a straight row. Its like this. Crush>me>cousin>friend A>Friend B. What should i do with my friends? Oh someone please help me...10 points :) moreOpen Question: Can a landlord make you live alone in a two bedroom apartment?
I used to have my brother(who is deceased) and son living with me(he was making a lot of noise with the surround sound so he went with his girlfriend.) ,and when my other son and his friend came from California to find a job (they couldn't find one on the west coast, but a week in one of them now is employed) I was going to wait two weeks and tell the landlord they where going to be staying with me until they where on their feet again, and have them on the lease until they do.(and it shouldn't be more then a month or two). but the big problem is I got a warning for when my son that has moved out was keeping the neighbors up with a late night movie.. the landlord came by the house warned me saw my other son and his friend working on my car and told me she wasn't running a homeless shelter i told her it would be fixed she left. Thought i had done everything to fix it(i still believe I have.) Then two days before my rent was due i recieved a court summons for eviction, And it say i moved too many occupants in but i have the same as when i originally moved in.(just different people) i gave her the rent and a note stating I would like them(the two i just moved in) on the lease and my previous roommates are not here any longer(so they are removed..(she wasn't home so I put it in her rent box) and i have not received it back(so if she cashed the money order her claim is invalid since she accepted the rent"hoping for this") but I want to know Can a landlord make you live alone in a two bedroom apartment? i'll let her have their info for a background check if i get through court. moreOpen Question: umm....please help me ive recently started cutting myself...?
well the last few weeks ive been quiet depressed and ive been getting random notes in my locker from people (i don't know who) but the notes are saying that life would be better without me and that i should attempt suicide and since the notes started ive been cutting and now im REALLY bad depressed and i want to cut but then again i know that if i do i WILL probably kill myself without even trying PLEASE help me find away to feel better :o moreOpen Question: Can someone help me expand on this poem i wrote?
Basically im doing Performing Arts (Acting) Course at college and i had to write a poem/monologue of my choice for it and i have come up with this but i need help to make it abit longer The poem is about acting i found a skill that made people smile it made me smile too, it made me want to stand up and show the world what i can really do, my emotions can change this world and i say, with my help, will you? so come with me and ill show you all... we can see this through, and as my mind fills up with words... i stand on stage, no emotions, exept my actions are my own. this is the stuff you never read on the page, because now i realise that when your on the stage, Your the one who turns a new page.thank you soo much, your like the only one that helped me on this. i think i might actually pass this assignment :D:D:D moreOpen Question: I want one of these pets but I just cant find one anywhere?
Yeh, if you have seen descent, then you will know what I mean. Its like a grey white skined person which is blind and eats people alive. I really want one but I just dont know where to acquire one form. Is anyone here a breeder, Would I need a licence to keep one and how much would it cost me?? Thanks. Any help appreciated. moreOpen Question: This guy is really p*ssing me off?
I like this guy (Jo) and it's really complicated we're not together but we've hooked up a couple of times. Anyway the problem is his best friend! He keeps flirting with me but not just like innocent flirting he's always talking about sex and jerking off and going down on me etc and I just find it kind of inappropriate. I'm pretty sure he knows I like Jo and this was going on before he really knew that but now he must know, at first he was going on about the "bro code" and now he's saying he doesn't care about that anymore. I just feel really awkward I don't know what to say to him and I don't really want to talk aboutJo to him because I've never admitted it, it's just kind of like people know. Now I'm worried that Jo really isn't interested and that's why his friend is being like this. Although he was sexting me (not Jo, his best friend) even though he had a gf. I'm so confused and irritated!! moreOpen Question: How do i make new friends at college?
I’m a shy person and in high school i found it very hard to make friends but after five years i finally made at least 4 due to my friends (i had 3 friends from primary with me in high school) knowing them. I just joined a college and i know I’m going to find it quite hard to make friends with anyone, luckily i have one of my best friends from high school with me to keep me confident (which could change as they are splitting the class up) , I’m only in one class as I’m doing a animal care course for two years. I have tried quite hard to talk to people but they don’t seem to be interested, i just get a yes or no answer (sometimes they dont even answer) and then they turn away to talk to other people even though i tried making conversation,I’m a nice person and could be a good friend but no one seems to want to know. Could this be to how i look? Any good advise? Please no bad comments. moreResolved Question: a strange question i know?
basically theres guy who i could possibly get involved with, he said in the past about a year ago that he wanted to settle down blah blah blah, but now ive just found out hes on shagbook. this site is basically a place where you can meet people for sex, this is disgusting and hes only just signed up a couple of days ago. do you think he still wants to settle or just wants fun/ is he lonely? hes 30 by the way, and yes as sad and pathetic he is, i just want to get inside his mind.we've got history, he wanted to have kids with me last year, i dont get whats changed. maybe hes just desperate? should i get in there first before he meets up with anyone? moreResolved Question: Very scared dealing with bullies?
I worik in an all male office of 5 people. There is a climate of bullying in the office. I'm the only female and i'm always told when the milk runs out in the canteen, when coffee needs to be made for a meeting and when to tidy up the dirty cups from the meeting room. This is just a small example. I'm a very hard worker and i feel have been doing a decent job this past 2.5yrs. I've also been given surveying duties and i've taken them on. However, at interview i said that i presumed someone else would be checking off this work, and at that point i stated that i had no formal experience or training in this work. I was told it was fine and not to worry about it. However, now over 2yrns later a mistake was found in my work and they were meeting the client. It could have been a seroius mistake but it wasnt. My manager approached me at my desk and said that it wasnt good enough and that i was making far too many mistakes. Then the director echoed the same sentiments in the corridor. Next day i approached my manager and i said i was there to 'clear the air' and to ask what the director meant by the 'other mistakes'. I owned up to the mistakes (mistakes that had already been owned up to by me and which were not a big deal). He said that my work was full of mistakes and that they hadnt encountered this in 10 yrs. He also said the director wanted to give me a written warning but was just letting it slide. He was clearly furious. This was the first time i heard this was a huge issue or that my work was considered 'so bad'. I was very upset, left the office saying i 'felt unwell'. I got a doctors certificate stating 'stress' and I rang HR. HR are telling me (verbally) that the director is a known bully and that what i am experiencing is 'bullying and harassment'. I never said those words,they mentioned them. They are verbally offering me a redundancy package, but i'm just worried where this is going. I dont want a load of money, i just want out of this company with my reputation in tact. What should I do? I do not want to face these bullies. I feel sick and want to vomit at thoughts of it. moreResolved Question: Do You Love Or Hate Chris Martin?
Everytime someone talks about Coldplay/Chris Martin, some people hate them, some people love them. I personally love Coldplay's music, and I wanted to find out if more people love or hate Coldplay. moreResolved Question: Hello!Who want to help me?
Hi to everybody...I'm Italian...My English teacher told me to make summary of the book "Tristan and Isolde" for the summer holidays.Well,I did it but can anyone read it and tell me if there are any mistakes?Thank for you help! :) One day King Mark of Lyonesse asked his cousin,King Rivalin,to help him in a battle.They fought together and won the war.So King Rivalin could marry King Mark's sister and they had a son.But the mother died during the childbirth and the father was killed in battle.When the son,called Tristan,became a man,went to King Mark's court for live there.All the knights were very happy to know him,but jealous because Tristan was King Mark's favourite Knight.One day Sir Morholt from Ireland came to Tintangel Castle,King Mark's court,and ask him a tribute by King Gurman of Ireland.He had to send In Ireland Thirty noble boys like servants.Sir Tristan was very,very angry and decided to fight against Sir Morholt.He didn't look like afraid and so they fought for many hours and finally Sir Tristan killed Sir Morholt but he was wounded.The only one who could help him was the Queen of Ireland but she was very sad and angry for his brother's death.So he decided to go there dressed like a minstrel.The Queen was very happy to help him and Tristan met Isolde,her daughter.They immediately fell in love but he returned to Cornwall because he didn't want she discovered his secret.King Mark was happy to see his nephew healthy and said he wanted to marry Isolde because,in this way,he could bring peace between two countries.Sir Tristan promised him to bring there Isolde.At the same time a terrible dragon was killing a lot of people.The King,desperate,asked for help,and promised in marriage his daughter to the man who would kill it.Tristan understood it was a good opportunity and so,went to the dragon,fought with it and killed it.Unfortunately he was poisoned and fell to the ground without forces.Seneschal,a irish knight who was there,thought that could be a great opportunity to marry Isolde and so,cut off the dragon's head and brought it to the king.The king was surprised of Seneschal and organised a banquet.At the same time Tristan was found by the Queen and Isolde who helped him.At the castle Tristan discovered the cheat of Seneschal and revealed it to everybody.So they fought and,obviously,Tristan won.But the Queen understood who Tristan was and,after listening the good reason for the which he was there,decided to forgive him.Sir Tristan was happy and left with Isolde and Lady Bragnae.Before the Queen made a love-potion for King Mark and her daughter and gave it to Lady Bragnae.The King and Isolde had to drink it both after the marriage to fall in love.Unfortunately Tristan discovered the potion and drank it like wine with Isolde.They immediately fell in love.When the arrived to Cornwall,Isolde married anyway King Mark and became the Queen of Cornwall.But the love for Tristan was still alive and they met each other secretly.When King Mark discovered that,he was infuriated and cried Tristan was a traitor.Sir Tristan got away from Cornwall.He was sorry because he can't see Isolde.Much later met another Isolde,called Isolde of the white hands,and married her.But he was always thinking about his Isolde.the Queen of Cornwall.One day Tristan was wounded in a battle and the only one who could help him Isolde from Cornwall with her special herbs.She ran for help him but,Isolde of the with hands,cause her jealousy,said Tristan she would never came.So Tristan died for the grudge and Isolde from Cornwall,just arrived,died for the displeasure.And this is the end of the great love story between Tristan and Isolde. moreOpen Question: my boyfriend claims i am flirty ? how can i stop.?
well i will try to keep this as short as possible. we are both 17 and have been really close friends for 2.5 years and dating 7 months. I am a very friendly person and many say i'm quite a bubbly person (whatever that means) Since we have been dating he says i have been flirty with his friends. He only told me after a month of sitting in silence and getting really p*ssed off, but he finally told me when he burst and said at one point he was so close to dumping me because of it, which shocked me so i had no contact with his mates for a few months. I don't see how i am flirty myself, my boyfriend says its not what i say its the way i say it. Apart from this i am a pretty good girlfriend, i like to cook for him so usually he comes round mine and i will cook and look after him because i enjoy it i have a high sex drive (he has a slightly lower one) so when ever he wants sex i am happy to oblige i like giving oral and hand jobs, i don't know why but i'm more of a giver than a receiver, i also like to swallow (which my boyfriend loves) he has quite a few family problems (mainly with his younger sister who is a bit of a b*tch) so when he is angry i let him take it out on me and i don't take it to heart and after he has cooled down i am always here to make sure he is ok. I am a caring person in general so i always take care of my boyfriend (sometimes a bit too motherly) And apparently this flirty thing is my only fault (in my boyfriends opinion). I know there isn't a perfect girlfriend but i hate the fact that something i do without knowing it is causing him so much upset and in the start of our relationship he was really close to dumping me he had even made the break up speech. i just want to know if other people get accused of the same thing or how i can sort it out. also since finding this out i had cut all contact with any of his mates but then after a while when i didn't speak to them and if i did i was quite snappy because i was trying to hard to not be friendly, so then my boyfriend got annoyed that i was being mean to his friends. I CAN'T WIN :( thank you. moreOpen Question: really need some advice from people who don't know me so well?
I had a traumatic brain injury and now almost 3 years ago but now i am finally looking for work. I was in a centre which was supposed to help me but after over 6 months nothing was happening and I just left and decided to do it myself. Was I crazy. I found a job last week and gave it to the job consultant and then today Asked if she had called them and asked if it could be something for me and she said no that is up to you to do. I thought the whole point of the place was for them to help me but they don't seem to be. I live in Denmark and i have a good life here and don't want to go home but I'm so nervous now as no on seems to want to help me. I'm on my own but really going home is not an option and the authorities are not doing much either moreOpen Question: Do you think i could get a refund on Metroid other M?
I bought metroid other m at a GAME store last saturday, i tryed it in my wii but it didn't load i looked around the internet and apparently it is a dual layer disc and found the reason why it didn't load was due to a "dirty lens" or "old wiis" i got mine at the xmas launch, the thing is i got super smash bros brawl (the 1st dual layer disc game ever for wii well i think lol) when it was released and people who got wiis the same time as me had problems loading but SSBB worked perfectly on my wii until a couple of months ago. All my other games work perfectly, so i dont want to fork out any money for repairs or even a lens cleaner because if the lens cleaner doesn't work i will have wasted more money, so technically since the game doesn't work on my wii will i get a refund?....thanks for the help guys :) i think i will take it back tomorrow and if they won't take it back then ill try and get a proper wii lens cleaneroh i forgot to mention....i went back on monday and got a new disc and that didnt work either which is the one i hav now and how effective is the wii lens cleaner? moreResolved Question: I just found out I'm pregnant, HELP!!!!?
I found out last week that I'm pregnant, not sure how far gone as I'm waiting for a scan, the Dr thinks I could be anything between 10 & 14 wks going by the date of my last period. I really don't know what to do and neither does my partner. Part of us is saying that we want it but the other part is saying its not the right time for us and we should get an abortion. Can anybody give us any advice as to how to decide what to do, please we are so confused! Can i just add that im not a child i am in fact 28, my partner already has 2 children by his ex wife and we were infact using birth control and that is why it was unplanned. thank you to the people who havent judged me on this topicThere is also no way i could give the baby up for adoption once I had seen it. I only have 2 choices. moreOpen Question: best holiday companies?
hey guys looking to find out the best way to book a holiday abroad next year, prob sometime between August-October for 7-10 days. a few people have suggested cyprus and turkey so far we are looking for somewhere cheap for food/drink etc but also somewhere beautiful, we dont want to be stuck on the resort the whole time with nothing to do or look at! i have been abroad before but it has always been booked for me so i really dont know where to start! should i go to a travel agents in town?? shop on the net?? book flights seperately?? get a holiday package?? i really dont know where to start so it would be great if somebody could help me! thanks in advance! moreOpen Question: Why Do Some Americans Think They Are The Only Nation That Matters And Everyone Else Is Wrong?
Some Americans Think There Doing The Best For The World Yet Most Of The World Hates Them, Finds Them Rude And Arrogant And Wonders How They Can Be So Arrogant With So Many Military, Social And Economic Failings (Vietnam, Bay Of Pigs, Not Being Able To Insult There self In A Joke Or Conversation, The Great Depression) I AM COMPLETELY NEUTRAL I JUST WANT TO SEE OTHER PEOPLES OPINIONS. moreResolved Question: My boyfriend's family want me to give my dog away?
They claim that it's too hard with the dog, that they had their dog first (wait, I don't live with them, what is the issue here?) that their dog is scared of mine... OK, my puppy (5 months) already weighs 16kg. She is going to be a big-ish dog. My MIL has a toy poodle. My puppy wants to play with the poodle and she scares her. It's NORMAL. It's puppy behaviour. I am in the process of training puppy but she is still very young. Thing is, I found her abandoned in a rubbish bin when she was 40 days old. She is a large mongrel, and looks a lot like a wolf. If I DID give her back to the shelter, she would end up staying there (I am in Italy and most people don't adopt big dogs). I would NEVER give her up, she is very attached to me, and I love her to peices. Is she a pain in the ass? At times. Do I sometimes have to give up on social engagements? Yes. Does she cost me a lot of money? Yes. Sleepless nights? Yes. Stress? Yes. But the love and companionship she gives are worth all of this a million times over. I am the one who looks after the dog, pays for food, vet treatment and boarding when I will be away. I am the one who takes her walks. Sccops the poop. Runs home to take her to the vet. Doesn't go out for dinner because the dog needs company and has been alone all day. Misses out on the beach because she can't come with me. I have asked then to do NOTHING to help, I even pay for a dog walker through the day rather than ask my boyfriend to let her out. So why are they complaining? I'm so angry right now, do they have the righ according to you guys?My puppy has met their dog a total of three times, once was just on the street. I keep telling them that we can meet more often all together when my puppy is fully trained to sit stilll when told. She's just not at that stage yet, and to be honest at 5 months I don't expect her to be!She does sit, flat, stay, leave it, roll over, drop it etc. I just don't think its fair to expect her to hold sit or flat for hours at this age when there is a new dog to play with. Sorry, I also want my dog to be allowed to be a dog.Lol the "older dog" is a 9 mont old puppy, and has less training than mine. It just doesn't bother people cos she's so small moreOpen Question: Please help, am I suffering from depression.?
I know the only person who can diagnose me properly is my doctor I'm just looking for some advice from people who have suffered/suffering/know sufferers. For almost 2 years now I feel like I have lost all sense of myself, my happy bubbly personality is pretty much gone, I find it impossible to keep contact with all my friends, my self esteem has taken a nose dive even though I put up a pretence that I'm still pretty confident I'm filled with anxiety and worry about the silliest things like walking down the street or going to work, simply because there's people around. I hate the person that I've become and although I don't think I have the guts to I've contemplated if it would be easier to just end it. I know I could never go through with it. My memory is awful, I find it really difficult to remember things, even important events I actually feel like there is a haze in my head. I'm exhausted with no motivation 90% of the time and I just want to be back to my normal self. The idea of being on any form of medication, anti depressants or whatever, fills me with fear. I feel like they would be ''correcting'' my brain & the idea of needing something to make me normal again terrifies me. I'm just looking for some advice from people who feel the same and have approached their doctor. I'm at a loss, I don't know what to do. Many thanks moreOpen Question: What would you do in this situation random yahoo members?
Basically i suffer from BPD , borderline personality disorder , i find it hard interacting with others outside , i rarely go out unless its vital for me to do so , i get very nervous in public places and find it extremely hard being outside in general , im always on alert wondering if im going to be hustled or attacked. And i asked my sister if she fancied coming out with me , but my mum has turnt around and said no , because shes busy helping her with something , now im caught between a rock and a hard place , i really want and need to go out , but i cant bring myself to do it. My sister is my wings , she helped me get back to reality. I know a lot of you are wondering , whys he asking this here , why not ask this in a place where more people will understand , well i like yahoo , and more often than not , i get good advice , intact ive had some life changing advice from here before. And i do not have anyone else to go out with. =( Please don't flame me , im asking nicely , this is the most up right genuine post.Medication isnt recommended for this anyhow. And i suppose i could just see what happens if i go out. moreResolved Question: Please help. Work situation and I vomit at the thought of it,Very Very scared?
I worik in an all male office of 5 people. There is a climate of bullying in the office. I'm the only female and i'm always told when the milk runs out in the canteen, when coffee needs to be made for a meeting and when to tidy up the dirty cups from the meeting room. This is just a small example. I'm a very hard worker and i feel have been doing a decent job this past 2.5yrs. I've also been given surveying duties and i've taken them on. However, at interview i said that i presumed someone else would be checking off this work, and at that point i stated that i had no formal experience or training in this work. I was told it was fine and not to worry about it. However, now over 2yrns later a mistake was found in my work and they were meeting the client. It could have been a seroius mistake but it wasnt. My manager approached me at my desk and said that it wasnt good enough and that i was making far too many mistakes. Then the director echoed the same sentiments in the corridor. Next day i approached my manager and i said i was there to 'clear the air' and to ask what the director meant by the 'other mistakes'. I owned up to the mistakes (mistakes that had already been owned up to by me and which were not a big deal). He said that my work was full of mistakes and that they hadnt encountered this in 10 yrs. He also said the director wanted to give me a written warning but was just letting it slide. He was clearly furious. This was the first time i heard this was a huge issue or that my work was considered 'so bad'. I was very upset, left the office saying i 'felt unwell'. I got a doctors certificate stating 'stress' and I rang HR. HR are telling me (verbally) that the director is a known bully and that what i am experiencing is 'bullying and harassment'. I never said those words,they mentioned them. They are verbally offering me a redundancy package, but i'm just worried where this is going. I dont want a load of money, i just want out of this company with my reputation in tact. What should I do? I do not want to face these bullies. I feel sick and want to vomit at thoughts of it. moreOpen Question: Anyone know of any good teen chat sites?
I am 16 and from the U.S...I really want to talk to people from different countries. Everytime I try to find a site its always confusing and nothing what im looking for. Any good recommendations? I think it would also be nice if i can find penpals. Help!!!!:( moreOpen Question: Are there any pro-incest movies?
I'm interested in finding a movie that portrays incest as a good thing, or at the very least not a bad thing. Oldboy is good example. Preferably, I want to see a film where a brother and sister fall in love and kill all the people who discriminate against them. Also, they should have a kid who's physically healthy, and all the people who aren't related have kids with down syndrome. moreOpen Question: Are there people who will proffesionally(Legally) make Vodka for me?
Hi, I have an idea for a Vodka drink which I think is unique in both taste and image. I'm not sure about launching it as a commercial brand but I want to get a few bottles of my own brand vodka made, just for fun, and see what feedback I get. Are there people who professionally make, 'bespoke' I guess, Vodka and create it to the flavour and tastes I want? I understand this could be expensive but I need it to be affordable so not approaching huge companies as this would just be a hobby project for me. I know that you can hire people to make you your own brand wines and also people who will create you a unique cocktail for your bar or club but i cannot seem to find vodka scientists or whatever they're called. can anyone help me??? thank you in advance!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! regards moreOpen Question: Ive been lied to and ripped off by an online shop what do i do? please help?
bought what i thought was a bargain liverpool shirt for my boyfriend from a online shop called devils sportswear but after purchasing the shirt i later found a website full of people who said the shirts are fake and fall to bits!!! im so upset. I cant cancel my order because its already been processed, I just want my money back.I feel so stupid. what do i do? moreOpen Question: What would be the best type of dog for me? First time owner.?
We have never had a dog before. Of course I will definitely do the research on the dog once I find out which would be best! *We live in a relatively small house, medium backyard. *We have a cat. *There are no young children... my sister and I are 16 and 18. *Has to be short haired, not need much grooming. *Be easily trained. *I don't mind having to walk a dog everyday, but I don't think I could have a dog that needs TONS of exercise. *I guess size doesn't matter that much, because I know there are some bigger dogs that don't need much room. It comes down to: can this type of dog live in small living conditions? Of course it would get out of the house, though. *Can't be that expensive to take care of. We are definitely not rich. *We live in an area with hot summers and cold winters. *Nothing that gets too hyperactive... I know this can be corrected with training, but I know there are dogs who are just extremely playful. *I don't want anything extremely needy. More something gentle and loving and affectionate, just likes to be with his/her people, but not crazy. I was thinking something along the lines of a beagle? I did some research on them, but I'm not sure. moreResolved Question: Please help. Vomiting from Worry over Work Situation?
I worik in an all male office of 5 people. There is a climate of bullying in the office. I'm the only female and i'm always told when the milk runs out in the canteen, when coffee needs to be made for a meeting and when to tidy up the dirty cups from the meeting room. This is just a small example. I'm a very hard worker and i feel have been doing a decent job this past 2.5yrs. I've also been given surveying duties and i've taken them on. However, at interview i said that i presumed someone else would be checking off this work, and at that point i stated that i had no formal experience or training in this work. I was told it was fine and not to worry about it. However, now over 2yrns later a mistake was found in my work and they were meeting the client. It could have been a seroius mistake but it wasnt. My manager approached me at my desk and said that it wasnt good enough and that i was making far too many mistakes. Then the director echoed the same sentiments in the corridor. Next day i approached my manager and i said i was there to 'clear the air' and to ask what the director meant by the 'other mistakes'. I owned up to the mistakes (mistakes that had already been owned up to by me and which were not a big deal). He said that my work was full of mistakes and that they hadnt encountered this in 10 yrs. He also said the director wanted to give me a written warning but was just letting it slide. He was clearly furious. This was the first time i heard this was a huge issue or that my work was considered 'so bad'. I was very upset, left the office saying i 'felt unwell'. I got a doctors certificate stating 'stress' and I rang HR. HR are telling me (verbally) that the director is a known bully and that what i am experiencing is 'bullying and harassment'. I never said those words,they mentioned them. They are verbally offering me a redundancy package, but i'm just worried where this is going. I dont want a load of money, i just want out of this company with my reputation in tact. What should I do? I do not want to face these bullies. I feel sick and want to vomit at thoughts of it. moreOpen Question: (EDL) English Defense League Good or bad?
Right i just want to really find out what people think off the EDL, in my sense i think there good but am i right can people give me some feedback please :) as i think people may have been mis-lead into thinking they are bad? or maybe i have been mis-lead into thinking they are good feedback please (:by looking at the answers i think everyone really has got the EDL wrong unless i do?, the EDL is a multi nation group meaning anyone can join no matter what religion/skin color i think that maybe you should read into it more before you everyone just assumes things, i am also going to look into it further. :) moreResolved Question: Please help. Reported bad situation at work, now i'm very worried. please help?
I worik in an all male office of 5 people. There is a climate of bullying in the office. I'm the only female and i'm always told when the milk runs out in the canteen, when coffee needs to be made for a meeting and when to tidy up the dirty cups from the meeting room. This is just a small example. I'm a very hard worker and i feel have been doing a decent job this past 2.5yrs. I've also been given surveying duties and i've taken them on. However, at interview i said that i presumed someone else would be checking off this work, and at that point i stated that i had no formal experience or training in this work. I was told it was fine and not to worry about it. However, now over 2yrns later a mistake was found in my work and they were meeting the client. It could have been a seroius mistake but it wasnt. My manager approached me at my desk and said that it wasnt good enough and that i was making far too many mistakes. Then the director echoed the same sentiments in the corridor. Next day i approached my manager and i said i was there to 'clear the air' and to ask what the director meant by the 'other mistakes'. I owned up to the mistakes (mistakes that had already been owned up to by me and which were not a big deal). He said that my work was full of mistakes and that they hadnt encountered this in 10 yrs. He also said the director wanted to give me a written warning but was just letting it slide. He was clearly furious. This was the first time i heard this was a huge issue or that my work was considered 'so bad'. I was very upset, left the office saying i 'felt unwell'. I got a doctors certificate stating 'stress' and I rang HR. HR are telling me (verbally) that the director is a known bully and that what i am experiencing is 'bullying and harassment'. I never said those words,they mentioned them. They are verbally offering me a redundancy package, but i'm just worried where this is going. I dont want a load of money, i just want out of this company with my reputation in tact. What should I do? I do not want to face these bullies. moreOpen Question: What to do if you're shy?
I'm a guy and really shy (more than a guy should be) and I really try not to be but I find it so hard. So i'm not asking "how do i stop being shy?" but i'm really asking how do i cope with my shyness and my lack of confidence. I don't know why i'm not confident, i'm in good shape and i'm smart and nice/kind (i think) but I'm just a bit insecure, shy, nervous and not confident...what's the best way to get by like this and still make friends etc? People often mistake my shyness for rudeness (girls especially) and i don't want that, i wish girls in particular (and everybody else) would like me more but i'm a bit socially awkard and have never been good with girls anyway... moreWelcome to I Want To Find People News
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