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Glenn Jacobi: Almost time to bring out my motorcycle » - New York Daily News

... chaos in Manhattan, where my wife still plans on living. I heard on the radio today about how the high taxes in Westchester are driving away many young people. Really? They're driving old people like me away, too. Maybe if they do find a ...

Share this on Twitter - Sunday Puzzle: how to start ... - DAILY KOS

2) Give people an hour to try to guess the answers ... And now for something new: my first effort at an interactive acrostic. The title of this puzzle is, " I wonder if this will work... " You'll find the grid and clues for this acrostic at the same ...

NCAA Tournament 2010: The Washington Huskies March on ... - Bleacherreport.com

... two months ago on January 23rd, many people ... doubt in my mind. But, Romar and company know that they can not be satisfied with a two—and—out performance. This team won't go down without a fight and if anything, they'll probably find ...

How To Turn 10 Members Into 1000 In One Year - Get More ... - PRLog (free press release)

... you initially start out it is full of anticipation and you really believe that all you have to do is tell people the truth about the Word and they will just come, right? Well you will quickly find out ... things and even had my family out there ...

In Egypt, the Jewish people were hanging on by a tiny ... - Aish

One day I lost my iPod cable. I had left it on a hotel nightstand, curled next to the phone. But when I called the hotel, they said that they couldn't find it. And then I began to panic. I couldn't find a store in Israel that carried the missing ...

Voice of the People letter: Two City Council members ... - MLive.com

I am currently working with my neighbors in the 6th Ward to find a way to commemorate Officer Bonneau. This is a sad chapter in the city's history. With that said, I agree with Ms. Heins: Let us not forget Officer Bonneau.

How To Find The Right People To Follow On Twitter - Searchengineland.com

Here are some of our favorite ways to find the right people to follow on Twitter. Lists are my preferred way to find people to follow. If someone I follow is on a list called, say, “Google Employees,” I can browse the other Twitter users on that ...

Comment on: - CBS News

I have called my congressman ... worldwide and find out why. I realize they have different forms of governments and different tax models (they have higher tax rates and a probably a less critical public). However they also ration care and people also ...

Move to Guild keeps focus on fashion - Sacramento Bee

I think it's hard for people to appreciate us (designers) at 11 at night with a drink in their hand ... I always try to find local designers to bring into my store. There is a market for them." Bobby Trendy of Los Angeles, known more for interior ...

Area Township Split On Whether To Allow Wind Farm - WCCO

Or a blight on the landscape that kills birds, makes people sick and lowers property values ... I guess I want clean air and clean water for my kids and grandkids," said Mike Kueschle, a Luxemburg Township dairy farmer. "This is one way of doing that ...

Open Question: I need some advice on what to do in this situation?

Okay, I'm gay, and I used to go out with this girl, (now my ex), not too long ago. it ended because she freaked out about so many people finding out she was gay, and she couldn't handle the pressure because she's so self conscious. 2 months on, I still like her, and she still likes me, and we keep getting closer, and it's getting really difficult for us, but she still doesn't know what to do, in case she freaked out again. people in her family, (who she is very close to... like certain aunties and cousins) are a bit iffy on the whole gay thing, and she doesn't want to lose them. It means a lot to her... but yesterday, she was holding my hand, and saying she's finding it really difficult and she really wanted to be with me, and wished she could feel normal about the whole situation. So what am I supposed to suggest? what can I say? if it was to be something more casual, how would that work out? I don't know what to do.please don't reply with stupid answers. more

Open Question: HOW can Republican healthcare reform work?

As of this morning, Sunday March 21, 2010, the Democratic Party is working, passionately, to pass National Healthcare Reform, to provide coverage to un-insured, and un-employed, Americans. To my understanding, this would occur by having insurance companies being "mandated" / "ordered" to cover anyone who applies, and to cover all persons, at rates the person could afford, not at the current skyrocketting rates, which people are seeing, now. Why is this "wrong" for America? By direct contrast, the Republican Party continues its very long-standing motto, of "Tax Cuts are the answer to EVERYTHING. Give the public tax rebates, on things, like healthcare coverage, and the public will love this. What I have NOT heard the Republicans answer to is how the un-employed, this is, people who no-longer have jobs, and have NO income, are supposed to "find" the money, for policies. As I understand it, in order for a person to reeive "tax-relief", they must, FIRST, go out, and pay FULL price, for a product. They, then, take the receipt, and file it with their tax return. The government then reduces the persons tax liability, by how much they PAID OUT, for their policy. This sounds great, for those who have jobs, and whose jobs pay high enough wages, for the person to afford to pay full price, then apply for tax relief. But what about the UN-employed? What about the "working poor". What about the people who, in order to have shelter, they must live in low-income housing? What about the people who rely on FoodStamps, Link, STEM, or whatever your states title, for food assistance programs is? How does tax relief help the un-employed / under-employed? How can a person be expected to go out, and pay full price, for health insurance, when they cannot afford to pay full price, for housing, food, or transportation? As for Medicaid, atleast in Illinois, I wonder if readers know that the states public aid director works as hard as possible, everyday, to force more and more people OFF of Medicaid? I wonder if readers know how many sick people that programs, like Illinois', just smiles at as the public aid agency says "You CANNOT have this desease since you dont "fit" into our definition. Your medical history cannot matter. All that can matter, is our guidelines". When these people cannot find work, because employers do not want to be legally liable, for covering people with diagnosed diseases, How are these people supposed to find the money, to pay full price, under the Republicans, for health insurance? Is the Democratic plan "perfect"? No But, what is the alternative? How do we tell un-employed people: "You have a choice to make: You can either FIND the money, "someplace", to pay full price, for coverage, or stop griping, about being in poor health" How would this help people, like myself, who lost careers, after being diagnosed with diseases, which will, never, go away? Thats right! **I** am one of those who lost a job, and income, due to disease, AND the fact that my medications usage now list me as a drug user. I will never be drug free, again, and employers will not hire, unless a person is drug free. Anyone visiting Springfield Illinois can see the signs, in business windows: "If you use drugs, for ANY reason, dont bother applying here". How can Republican healthcare reform work for me, when I have NO income, to pay full price, for coverage, then use the receipt to get a tax reduction? If I am not working, what tax debt is there, to reduce? How can the Republican plan help me? If my state refuses me access to medications, how can I become a member of the work-force, so that I can have a paycheck, to pay for insurance with? I hope that all answers will be framed based upon the substance of HOW the un-employed are to be expected to pay for coverage, if a Republican system is adopted. Remember that several states do NOT offer Medicaid, to working-class people, simply because the person is un-employed. more

Open Question: Stoichiometry is kicking my but around.?

I understand that I have to know the mole ratio but I really don't understand. I don't want people to think I am having them to do my home work but I just don't understand this as much as I would like. I need help. If you shall, will you please teach me without just doing it? Here is my dilemma. In a combustion reaction, 30.0g of butane is burned in pure oxygen. The products are carbon dioxide and water vapor. a. Show the word equation for the reaction. ( I can do this) Butane + Oxygen --> Carbon Dioxide + Water Vapor. b. Write correct formulas and balance. ( I can do this) 2C_4H_10 + 13O_2 --> 8CO_2 + 10H_2O c.Find the formula masses for each. ( I can do this) 1molC_4H_10 C= 4x 12.01g=48.04g H= 10x 1.01g=10.1g =58.14g 1molO_2 O=2x16.00g=32.00g 1molCO_2 C=1x12.01g=12.01g O=2x16.00g=32.00g I think I write my units wrong here some how. I think I am suppose to usw amu instead of g. please correct me if it is. D. How many moles of Oxygen are used in the reaction? ( I don't know. I went to slove this one and somehow I solved for the next one, E.) E. Fine the number of moles of butane consumed. ( I can do this one.) 30.0gC_4H_10x 1molC_4H_10/58.14gC_4H_10= 0.5160molC_4H_10 F. What is the mass of Oxygen? ( No clue) G.Find the amount of moles of water vapor produced.(no clue) H. How many grams of water vapor are produced? (no clue) I. How many moles of carbon dioxide are produced? ( No Clue) J. Determine the mass of carbon dioxide in grams. ( Once again, I have no clue how to do this. ) K Show the conversation of mass. ( I kind of understand this one. I just need to do the other ones in order to attain this information yet, I am still a little fuzzy on the concept. more

Open Question: Should I marry a good man that I have no chemistry for?

Hello, So I'm 30 years old, due to my cultures, I'm under pressure to get married by society and family, also my friends advice me to get married and start a family. I can handle myself and keep dealing with the pressure, ooor I can just get married because "it's the right thing to do". There are many guys that approach me and want to get married to me. This one guy I know is very well educated, has a very good job, he's a good man with nice manners. he's smart, thoughtful and he has been waiting for answer from me for two years. He told me that he will try everything to make "our future family" exiting, happy and what anyone would wish for. The problem is, I don't have feelings for the guy, actually, I have no chemistry towards him at all. I've dated him few times, I've talked to him over the phone for hours and hours. He tries very hard to care about my life and he's trying to win my heart. I still never miss him if he leaves for a long time, I keep looking for mistakes in him... and I just don't have any feelings towards him what so ever! I also don't find him physically attractive. Everyone arounds me speaks of how good this guy is and how he's the dream of every girl and that he will make a great familyman... but I'm just scared that I'll marry him than make his life difficult and never love him and end up cheating on him. divorced or end up hating my life with him. What should I do? I need an unbiased advice from people. Real people. Regards, more

Open Question: A Question About Making Friends...?

Heya, I suppose that the title of this question is a little innacurate. What I was going to ask is, how you guys would go about expanding your friendship groups? My best friend and I have found that we have been somewhat excluded from our friendship group, and a while before this happened, we decided that we should try to find some more friends, in case such a thing happened. Unfortunatley, we failed at this, and now we are sort of left on our own. We find it relativley easy to make friends, but our problem is that many of the people in our high school have already found their friendship groups - everyone is very grouped, and so it would be difficult to just join a group. We are both friends with many people on their own, but we find that we don't really fit with the people's groups. Since being kinda forced out of our old group, we have become close to many people, but only the people on their own - not their other friends. None of the friendship groups at our school are really what we feel we would fit with. There is a group of very nice, fairly quiet girls we are good friends with, but compared to our last group - which could be described as somewhat audacious, and an exciting group - this new group seems a bit...too sensible and quiet? They have their crazy moments...but being with them just feels like we are missing out on something? It's fun as a two, but both of us are used to bigger groups, and I worry that being alone will cause some problems between us. What do you guys suggest we do? Thank you, Shelby x more

Open Question: How to get an epilepsy assistance dog?

I have epilepsy and medication only lessens my seizures; I still have one every month to every two months. Obviously, this could be a danger to me since I'm in college, and I have a single dorm so I live alone, and I'm often on my own. I don't want to lose this independence. My parents think I should try to take someone with me wherever I go- but that's so debilitating. I refuse to spend the rest of my life depending on other people. So we're considering getting a seizure assistance dog, who can makes sure that, when I do have a seizure, I won't hurt myself, and may even warn me before I have a seizure. Where would I go about getting one? How expensive are they- will insurance or some disability thing cover the cost? Where can I get my questions answered? I haven't found any really good websites on it. more

Open Question: How should I end My Story?!?

I stood there, in the rain, starring through the rusted gate, at what was now mine. My father died and I promised myself I would never set foot in his house again. Our hatred towards each other was a like a battle, he won, in leaving me his home. This place was hell, and now I was left to deal with it. I left it there to be abandoned. My mother died as well, she 'tried to kill my father one very dark night, and ended up falling down the stairs.' She in the most brutal condition when she was found, hair was ripped out, her face was so beaten that you couldn't even tell it was her, her neck was snapped and her body seemed like it had been ripped from the inside out. I never believed what my father said was the cause of her death. I 'know' she was murdered and I know 'he' did it. As I drove home to my wife and daughter, I couldn't stop my mind from picturing his face, cold and peaceful. It disgusted me, knowing that he got away with it, robbing my mother of her life, and making my life miserable. The look on his face when I saw him in the coffin, was a look that will haunt me forever, for the first time ever, he looked happy. dad doesn't approve of daughters love sneaks off the grandpas creeper ass house. sees shadows and such boyfriend gets pissed, she's not paying attention to him shadow takes over her body, kills boyfriend leaves him in same condition as grandma. wakes up in the hospital, tells father everything she saw and what happened. Father realizes that this shadowy thinger was the same thing that happened to his mom, but it did not succeed in killing the father because he managed to kill her before she killed him. Daughters pissed, believes that it's his fault because he wouldn't let her have the boyfriend, and if she didn't have to sneak around this would have never happened.... HOW DO I END THIS THOUGH!? HELP PLEASE :) !? Any suggestions would be lovely, i just want an ending thats leaves people with goosebumps.. more

Open Question: Islamic Marriage (Nikaah)?

02. IMPORTANCE OF MARRIAGE IN ISLAM: Holy Quran says: And marry those among you who are single and those who are fit among your male slaves and your female slaves; if they are needy, Allah will make them free from want out of His grace; and Allah is Ample-giving, Knowing. (Surah Nur 24:32) The above ayat begins with the words Wa Ankehoo (And marry ...) The imperative form of the word 'nikah' implies that either it is obligatory or highly recommended. According to scholars, though marriage is a highly recommended act, it becomes obligatory when there is a chance of falling into sin. Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) says, "No house has been built in Islam more beloved in the sight of Allah than through marriage." On another occasion Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) said: "The best people of my nation (Ummat) are those who get married and have chosen their wives, and the worst people of my nation are those who have kept away from marriage and are passing their lives as bachelors." Imam Ali (a.s.) exhorts, "Marry, because marriage is the tradition of Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.)." Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) also said, "Whosoever likes to follow my tradition, then he should know that marriage is from my tradition." A. Importance of sex in marriage. In Islam, marriage is not restricted to a platonic relationship between husband and wife, nor is it solely for procreation. The Islamic term for marriage, "Nikah" literally means sexual intercourse. So why has Islam provided extensive rules and regulation regarding sex? This was because Islam has fully understood that sexual instincts cannot and must not be repressed. They can only be regulated for the well being of human beings in this life and for their success in the hereafter. Sex in married life has been openly recommended in Holy Qur'an, "When they [i.e., the wives] have cleansed themselves [after menstruation], you go into them as Allah has commanded." (Surah Baqarah 2:222) B. Fulfillment of Sexual Urge. Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) and the Holy Imams (a.s.) also encouraged their followers to marry and to fulfill their sexual urges in lawful ways as can be seen. Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) said, "O you young men! I recommend marriage to you." Imam Reza (a.s.) said, "Three things are from the traditions of the messengers of God: using perfume, removing the [excessive] hair and visiting one's wife." C. Celibacy and Monasticism is Forbidden. Islam is totally opposed to monasticism and celibacy. Uthman bin Maz'un was a close companion of Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.). One day his wife came to Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) and complained, "O Messenger of God! Uthman fasts during the day and stands for prayers during the night." In other words, she meant to say that her husband was avoiding sexual relations during the night as well as the day. Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) was angered. He did not even wait to put on his slippers. He went to Uthman's house and found him praying. When Uthman finished his prayers and turned towards Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.), he said, "O Uthman! Allah did not send me for monasticism, rather He sent me with a simple and straight [Shariah]. I fast, pray and also have intimate relations with my wife. So whosoever likes my tradition, then he should follow it; and marriage is one of my traditions." D. Beneficial Effects of a Married Life. Various studies prove that married people remain healthier, physically and mentally. Islam has always maintained that marriage is beneficial for us in many ways. Islam also regards marriage as a way to acquire spiritual perfection. Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) said, "One who marries, has already guarded half of his religion, therefore he should fear Allah for the other half." How true! A person who fulfills his sexual urges lawfully would rarely be distracted in spiritual pursuits. E. Marriage (Nikaah) enhances the value of prayers. Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) said, "Two rak 'ats (cycles) prayed by a married person are better than the night-vigil and the fast of a single person." A woman came to Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) and said that she had tried everything to attract her husband but in vain; he does not leave his meditation to pay any attention to her. Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) told her to inform her husband about the reward of sexual intercourse, which he described as follows: "When a man approaches his wife, he is guarded by two angels and [at that moment in Allah's views] he is like a warrior fighting for the cause of Allah. When he has intercourse with her, his sins fall like the leaves of the tree [in fall season]. When he performs the major ablution, he is cleansed from sins." F. Marriage (Nikah) increases Sustenance. Holy Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) remarked, "Give spouses to your single ones, because Allah (SWT) makes their morality better (improves it) (under the shadow of marriage) and expands their sustenance and increaBy Hassan For More www.allahu-akbar.8m.com more

Open Question: How frustrating is that... false streaming?

How frustrating is that when you ask here on yahoo answer where to find a movie online streaming, a hundred people answer you giving you false links, the one that usually try to steal your money? As if I were dumb, giving them my phone number or whatever... I really don't understand the aim.... Is there someone paying them to post those links everywhere? more

Open Question: A week of misery because of cheating boyfriend - how do I deal with this?

We were going out for almost a year - and have known each other for 3 years. He was my pillar of strength. On Monday I found out he is dating a girl from college for MORE than a year. (I found out by logging into his facebook - guessed the password and WOW I was correct.) I read his inbox and there was a lot of flirty, naughty messages in there - even about things they've been up to together. I was devastated and confronted him on Monday night. He didn't deny anything and admitted what he did was wrong. On Tuesday when we spoke he said that the reason he didn't tell me about this girl is because he really loves me and he didn't want to ruin OUR relationship. He keeps reminding me that most of his time was spent with me and that whenever he was with his "other" girlfriend, people were always around so they didn't actually do anything. Although he also told me I was forward to read his messages. I told him that if I hadn't done that I would never have known what's been going on and to what extent. On Wednesday he said I caused my own pain by not trusting him and that he hid all this from me because he didn't want to lose me and so forth . . At that point I was so drawn into his words that when he asked me: After all that you've seen, why are we still speaking? ... I said because I am not willing to throw 3 years away, you mean too much to me ... He said he feels the same and once again reminded me that most of his time was spent with me. We told each we still love each other and said good night. On Thursday I tried to speak to him, the conversation lasted 2 minutes because he said he's too tired and wanted to sleep. Friday was confusing, I spoke to him in the afternoon and he said he was busy and would call me later when he was free, I didn't hear from him after that -- He sent me a text on Saturday at 10 pm only! I wasn't at home and only saw the message when I got back at a little past 12. (Went out to see a movie with my sister.) I figured it was too late to text him back and so I sent him a message this morning at 8 am apologizing for last night. It's now past 3 pm and I've received no reply. Out of curiosity, I logged into his facebook and an hour ago he was flirting with his "other" girlfriend! I'm so lost right now! I don't know what to do! I guess I'll have to call him if I want to speak to him but what the hell do I say to him????? How do I deal with this????? :( more

Open Question: Is the Spider still there?

I found a black house spider in my room on the floor thursday night relatively close to a window.I tried to kill it and missed. It is now Sunday morning and I have not seen it since. About 8 people I have told this story to tell me the spider is gone and has moved on. Are they right? Is the spider gone? Also, what are some ways that I can assure myself of this without looking? Is the spider most likely gone? How can I mentally help myself beleive everyone that has told me this? more

Open Question: Could she be bi-curious?

Ive always thought of myself as straight but for the past few years ive had mixed feelings about girls... crushes, attraction and curiousity. I'm confused but i haven't really told many people about it and don't really want to. Im religious but i have nothing against gay/les/bi...There's this girl i met at school last year and we kind of really hit it off. Ive never bin in a relationship, and though im attracted to guys its different when im with her. We've gotten close and i told her how she makes me confused and she was completely cool, chuffed and we laughed the akwardness off. I told her because she is also religious so i knew she would understand and she could mayb help me work it out. Not the point though. Every since i told her she does things which make it worser and the way she acts sometimes makes me feel that maybe she does feel the same but she its like she is holding back . For example... when we go out she is always fussing over me like if i have a coat, she wants to pay, always caring ...which she doesn't do to our other friends. Everyone knows her as the fun crazy friend that has a hard exterior but i feel like with me she lets her guard down which scares me because sometimes i feel i might loose control. Sometimes we hit that tension where we look into eachothers eyes or touching and can't seem to stop. I find it hard to be alone with her. Sometimes she tries to hold my hand or put her arm round my waist when we r hanging out which makes me think its just because we r gd friends but sometimes it feels like she is teasing me. She always lingers or holds on to me so we have those moments. I'm worried that others may pick up that i act really different around her, like a love struck clumsy mess. She is stubborn and drives me crazy. She tells me which guys she thinks are fit all the time but always subtle adds in girls she thinks are hot too. she doesn't tell her other friends. I told her i liked some other girl as a joke but she won't let it go. She has never told me she doesn't feel the same evn though i once tried, she twisted it in a way that i had to leave it so that it didn't mke things akward. *Yesterday we went cinema, just the two of us... i didn't want none of our usual group to go, i wanted it to be just us two but i didn't want to mention it so i left it to her... but she didn't bring up the fact that no1 else was going so i just went wiv it. Wen we are together we find it hard to make up our minds and we go into our own lil world. I said ill pay half so that we were evn bt she didn't want me to... she starts making a jokey scene in the queue that if i reli loved her that i would let her pay... but she got so confused and toungue twisted or something that what she said didn't make any sense. I tried giving her money, she threw it at me lol, so while she was carrying stuf i unzippd her chest pocket n put sum in her coat while she was trying to push me off. She is just as clumsy as i am, we hav the same humour and film taste so we get on so well and the chemistry is amazing, which ive never had wiv any1 else including guys... i did tried leaning in but she did the same so we were touchin, plus bcoz we didn't invite our friends we wnt in secret n it woz fun...She is a reli gd friend, understanding and caring and i don't wanna just come out and ask her... more

Open Question: My high school does not offer the foreign language I wish to study...?

I am currently a sophomore in high school, and enrolled in French 1: I'm not enjoying it, to be honest. My school only offers the basic Spanish and French, but I would love to take an actual German course at a neighboring high school for this next school school (as it states in my school's handbook, if they don't offer a particular course and a neighboring high school does, a student may be allowed to take it at the neighboring high school). During this past year on the website livemocha.com and from other various resources, I have been studying German and honestly, I can say I feel way more comfortable and actually know more German than I do French, and I find it to be way easier to learn and understand. Anyways, I spoke with my school's guidance councelor one day a while ago in regards to taking German and another local high school for next year... what she said to me was that this was a "complicated" process to get involved into and that she has no idea how the whole "taking a course at another highschool works". So. No help in the least bit... This summer I am traveling to Germany with my grandpa for approximately a month, so I'll be exposed to the culture and people who speak German, which I am certain will improve my knowledge. With the situation I'm in with my school not letting me learn a foreign language I have a great wish to continue studying, does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do? Or is there any legit online distance learning programs where I can study German and receive school credit? ...by the way, I want to say that my main motivation for learning German is not at all from bands whom sing in German such as Tokio Hotel and Rammstein... when I try and look up other people who are wanting to learn German, I've noticed that these are from illiterate fangirls, who should more so take the time to practice their English first. =) more

Open Question: How do I say this in French?

"I became homeless when I was 18 years old." "Last weekend I slept on the floor. It was very cold and lonely." "I stayed there for three days because it started to smell bad." "I am homeless because I lost my job during the recession. Nobody wants to hire me now because I am dirty and I smell." "Normally I wake up at 7am and then go out begging for the whole day. I go to sleep at 8pm, but sometimes I will wake up during the night because it is noisy here." "I get my money from stealing from people, and begging on the streets. But people ignore me because they don't like me." "I suffer from a terrible cold, all the time. It makes my life hard." "My biggest problem is finding food. If I do not eat, then I will starve to death. This worries me." "I am very unhappy with my life at the moment. People give me weird looks, and people laugh at me behind my back I know. I want to go home." "Sometimes I get caught for stealing, but I like it when I go to prison because I have a roof over my head and food." "The principle problem that homeless people face is drug addictions and alcohol addictions. I know this because I have those problems too." "In five years I hope to have a job and beginning to make my life better, but I doubt it will happen." more

Open Question: How do i grow 2-3 inches taller....i?

i am almost 18 years old [a male], and currently 6 foot. I really want to grow taller, for both confidence and self-fulfillment. Please don't waste your time with "be happy with what you are" because i am determined to achieve this and won't be swayed. I need to know if there are any genuine methods available, i have found many growth products on the internet and have either found flaws in them or refused to belief that what they say actually happens. If there is a supplement that you can properly justify works, i will take it so long as my health isn't at risk. Another method i am considering is asking my doctor for HGH stimulator or any equivilent that is prescribed to people who want to grow more. I need to know what to say or ask for in order to get the doctor to provide me with something, or if it is complusory for him to supply it to me or if he can refuse. So basically if you have any methods that work or can advise me on how to approach my doctor or any other alternative please help me- there must be at least one solution in this world [besides the bone-breaking procedure, which i won't do] to solve my problem. Thank you for your time. more

Open Question: Do you like the start of a story by an 11 year old girl?

I have a huge cheesy grin on my face. How did this happen? I – Isabell Megan Wilson is stood in front of a stage with over a thousand people watching me about to make a speech about my model career! If you want to know how I became a nation wide superstar… you better keep reading - It all started on a hot summers day! I live in New York in America and we just LOVE fashion! In summer we get blistering heat that means we can experiment with all sorts of wild colours, skirts and dresses! But don’t be fooled, in winter everyone is covered up in thick mittens and goes round in dull greys, maroons and blacks. Anyway one hot summer’s day I had planned to meet up with my best friends, Nicole, Rose and Jessica. We were desperate for a new outfit as there was a movie premiere coming up that were going to (It was only ‘The Last Rose Petal’ featuring Alexander Inyart)! We met up near $tyle And $hop. Nicole was wearing her favourite violet vest top, a mini rara skirt and a pair of pink ballet pumps (it was sooooo unfair, Nicole gets to dress up casual but look cool at the same time) her hair tied up into a messy bun and had obviously sprayed on some Marc Jacobs perfume! Rose had left her long, glossy hair down and was wearing a (new!) turquoise colour, short dress with black leggings and black sandals with tiny bows on them. Jessica was wearing a pink t-shirt, pink mini skirt and pink high heels and obviously a set of freshly pink painted nails, and she had straightened her stylish bob. I had on my favourite designer t-shirt on with a cropped cardigan to go over the top. Also I had on my mini denim shorts (with a belt I made myself) and some silver dinky pumps! I had left my long golden locks down and had applied a neat layer of mascara. “Jessica!” We sighed, because she was all in pink! (AGAIN) But we all new, pink was her favourite colour. Then we decided to hit the shops, trying on endless outfits! Finally Jessica picked a pink dress (which was absolutely gorgeous) some red, shiny, strappy high heels and a pink pearl necklace. But there were still three of us left to pick an outfit. Fortunately Rose and I found an outfit! I found a short pink and purple dress and Rose found a lovely button up blouse with some leather look leggings. But because Nicole is used to dressing up casual she couldn’t find anything casual but classy enough for a movie premiere! Then I spotted a FABULOUS outfit - black jeggings with a red and black long stripy top. Nicole was so pleased that she had finally found an outfit, she invited us round to her house for pizza. And obviously to check out our outfits and take pictures to put on our Face Book’s! There was only 6 days left till the Movie Premiere and we hadn’t decided what to do with our hair and makeup…aggghhh! more

Open Question: Livejournal Question?

I feel stupid asking this, but I'm not sure how else to find out. So I wanted to post something on LiveJournal but I don't want it to be on my actual profile page. I wanted it to be on a separate page, like when people post an article or something it's on its own separate thread and not on their main account page with all of their other entries... how do you do that? I've seen a ton of people do it, but I can't figure out how to make a separate post for the life of me... and I'm not talking about posting to a community, because I know how to do that. more

Open Question: What to do about my husband. 10 points?

My husband is 26 years old we have been together for almost 7 years married for 1year. We both went back to school and last year he stopped going to school said it wasn't the program he thought it would be but he kept telling me the whole time how great he was doing. I found out the hard way that he dropped the classes. So I forgave him (i mean he is only human) and asked him to please just do not fib to me again that relationships are built on trust, And than I just found out last week he did it again. This time he didn't have the same excuses. I know that his issue really is the game world of war-craft. over the past few years he has become more and more addicted to it. HE wont have dinner with us (me and our son) he will take it to the computer with him. Our sex life is well nothing by the time he is done with the game and goes to sleep I have been sleeping for hours. So this time I told him the next time i see him on that game I will leave him. So far it has been a week and he still sits at his computer day and night. The only time he gets off is to go to work or go to sleep. At this point I have fallen out of love with him because he is not who he was. I know people change but this is a little beyond change. Meanwhile I have become really close to a male friend who has told me he likes me and that is as far as that has gone. I would never cheat on my husband even if he is ignoring me I feel that if I did anything it would be just to see if i could get his attention and that would just be mean to my friend. But the thing is I think I could see myself with this friend of mine if I weren't married. I am also unsure If I secretly have feelings for him only because I am so lonely. I do not know what to do anymore. I feel alone all the time and unhappy. I have tried everything from getting dolled up to getting a babysitter to go out and i feel rejected. Physically I am the same as I was when we met so I know its not that. I have also tried talking to him about it but he wont even acknowledge there is an issue in our relationship and just brushes it off as his sex drive is just lower now. I have offered to take him to the doctor and he refuses. What more can I do. Is this normal is this what marriage is because if it is I don't think I want to be married. more

Open Question: What do you do when you begin to see your ex's name everywhere?

A little more than four years ago, I broke up with my fiance. His behaviour at the time was bad, but so was mine and I am not proud of the way I handled it. Although we still have a few mutual friends, we never speak to one another. (Yes, the split was that bad.) Anyway, I moved on with my life, found a new career, met new people etc. I've had one relationship since then, with someone who remains a close friend. I thought that I had put the whole thing behind me. However, recently, my ex has been in the news quite a bit - good news stories. He has a very successful career. He also has been dating the same girl for a long time now, and he seems happier with her than what he ever could have been with me. I want to be happy for him. But the truth is, every time I see his picture or hear his name, I feel angry for the way he treated me. And at the same time, I feel guilty for the way I treated him. If it wasn't for my stubbornness at the time, I feel that we could have worked things out, or at least remained friends. And now it is too late. He's moved on and I don't have the right to intrude in his life. So what do I do? How do I cope with these feelings and move on? more

Open Question: How to be happy being single or alone or whatever?

I am a single 18 year old guy and have just graduated from high school last summer and simply just trying to find a job to save up some money for college. After graduating from high school, I find myself, lonelier than I thought I would be. My friends have moved on to Universities or some special college, but even then, they have enough or even go out of their way just to make some time for their other friends. And they all make time for each other, except for me. I guess in my own special ways, I find myself "comfortable" being alone. So I only talk with a few good friends every now and then, and spend most of my time playing Call of Duty: Modern Warfare 2 with my, "internet friends", online for like 6 hours a day because I have nothing to do since I have no job. I would even go as far as to say, that I know them better than my real life friends, and we call each other our real life names instead of our user names like, "Detective Socks". And when I go out, I get glances from the occasional girl at the street or mall and make eye contact too. If my friends have told me that I'm funny, intelligent, and cute looking, then why am I still single still? Or why my friends have more time for others but not me? I know dating isn't everything but... I hate this feeling of being alone and that there's nothing great going on for me at all. And everyday I stay up till 4AM on the internet or playing video games and have found myself looking at a lot of porn, not the really obscene ones. I've always hated when people tell me how great of a person I am or some cliche like I should live my life as if I would die tomorrow. If I am so great, why is it that I have so little to show? I know what some of you are thinking, "Why don't you go back to school and get a student loan?". Well, to make things a lot shorter, my older brother would beat the snot out of me and mock me and made me feel inept in everything I did and therefore I became easily flustered to the point that I believed I was conditioned to be socially inept and felt that I was incapable of living ever since, why?, because I didn't get very good marks ever since I was in Grade 1 and then when I told this to my Mom 11 years later who lives in California she flipped bananas and wanted to take me away with her and that started a bloody storm of family fights but in the end my older brother was sorry to me even though I don't feel a shred of mercy for him but did treat me a lot better afterwards and my mother left me because I didn't want to go to school for a year so I can make money for next year at school and at my birthday she sent me a birthday card with many motivational platitudes she could ever think of to win me back so I can be her, "Son", again. So did you think I could concentrate at school? Oh yeah, I forgot to mention I failed at high school because my Grade 6 teacher once told me that average was only good enough for me when I asked her if the provincial test was hard. And now, after looking for 7 months for a bloody job and have gone no where in my life except reading philosophy of mainly Existentialism and watching Diehard in 4 in the morning. In short, my life sucks and have never been close to anybody in my life, even my family and friends. How do I live at least more comfortable being single or alone or whatever? more

Open Question: How long is it normal to continue to breastfeed?

My son is just coming up to his first birthday. When I started breastfeeding him I was hoping to make it to six months and then start weening him off as per my health visitors minimum recommendation. I was delighted to have made it beyond. Now he is almost one, everyone seems to be incredulous that I am still nursing. I feel like i am being made to feel guilty about it all the time. By my mother in law, husband, my other kids. All my friends ask me if he's still on the boob as if it now a long standing joke. My question is how long is it normal to breastfeed for? I know people do breastfeed way past a year but previously I'd always thought of those women as a little bit nutty. Now though I want the very best for my baby and love the fact that I can comfort him in an instant, and that he pushes everyone away to get to me, it makes me feel special and needed and it's lovely and i'm feeling quite sad about stopping on his 1st birthday... like i've promised everyone. Has anyone gone down the extended breastfeeding route? How did you find other peoples perceptions of it? more

Open Question: whos in the wrong me or him?

my bf has been hanging out with this girl hes recently become friends with. i dont like how he changes around her and drops everything to get her odd things done :O( she has a best mate that he used to fancy like a years ago. now we been together 10 years. the other day i went through his phone and emails, to put my mind at rest as i knew theres nothing going on but wanted prove myself wrong. in that email i saw that he wanted to give her £150 towards a new car shes buying (which hes helping her find) hes like that hell give out money if he can, even thou me and him are struggling upto our eye balls and beyond. so that upset me big time, like y that much to a mate neways?? despite us not having it to give! then in his tx to that girl hes saying. how he finds her mate sexy. :O( when i confronted him about both he said 1. i always want to help people when i can (this is true but not when i cant stand the girl and we got no money) and the sexy things a joke they will always have going on about that girls mate. and how he actually will be spending more time with them seen as there more free in the next months. :O( what do i do with them two problems? and to top it off he is super angry dnt wanna talk about them things to me. as he cant get over how i went through his stuff. so now im stuck :O( he dnt wanna talk to me as hes hurt but i feel like i should be more hurt, dont you? or what i did was worse? sorry for the lots of questions x im just so confused as i feel os bad for what i did but at the same time so angry for what he done/things he wants to do wit the girl i dont like and a girl he fancied ... is it ok fr 1 guy to take 2 girls out clubbing when he has a gf? i dont no :O( :O(thank you all for your support and replies. its so hard right now for me. as one thing i didnt say was that i am meant to be leaving my family to be with him :O( and they just found out too. so its not only us problems but family ones too :O( and he kissed another girl last year so since then i not been able to the same. i no its coming to an end but not only with him but my family too :O( i wish i was able to be one of them girls that wudnt kick up a fuss as there his only 2 mates in life but how come he dont c what its doing to me? :( thanks guys neways x more

Open Question: What happened to petville?

Ok, I'm confused. According to Zynga's forums, specified to PetVille, it's still working. According to Farmville, and the new puppies coming out..and them talking about finding clues in Petville.........it still works. HOWEVER, I can't access it. I've been wanting to try to play it but, no matter what link I click on..non of them work. Here is what I keep getting. The page you requested was not found. You may have clicked an expired link or mistyped the address. Some web addresses are case sensitive. I get that everytime. I went to my applications stuff and made sure it wasn't blocked. I went to the Petville Zynga forums and tried to post about it, I can't even do that there. It says I have restricted access. Not sure how that can be when I've never been there before. I would like REAL help on this issue, not some spotty answers just so you get a point for answering. PLEASE, DO NOT post me links to the PetVille application. None. I can't access it, period... I know other people have been having this issue. People that say they actually -play- have commented that they have not been able to access petville since after Valentine's day. I tried to search for this answer here at Yahoo before, but..the question asked was deleted. I've tried searching for answers on the net itself, googling the problem..but getting nowhere. Can someone who knows what's going on, please give me an answer? more

Open Question: presentation : love. Need your help Plz?

On Wed , i have presentation about Student Love . But my english is not good Would you repair it for me ? Thank you a lot " How to have true love ? First , you need to understand your lover . You can only really true happiness when in love , the other person is able to understand yourself , understand the difficulties and the suffering of our faith . Please ask yourself : “ People love to be able to understand the difficulties , the pain of our faith dry of not ? They love to be able to see the desire , the ambition of our deep or not ? People we love are intrersted in the safety of our fun daily or not ? They can love the way you support our life – long career is not over ? “ Please answer the question be honest . If the answer is no , then you soon find out how to remove debug their status , as soon as possible . And you should ask yourself : “ You are able to understand the difficulties , the pain of dry belife that love is not ? Example , the ability to see the desire and ambition of our deep love not ? Example , the interest in the daily happily or not ? “ If the answer is no , then you ‘re not really love that person . You just running by the outside of the glamor only . Then , you should learn how to listen ... The speaker does not always need to answer , sometimes they just need a place to earth road , a listen . Listen will help you build the trust or close relationship of two people . Anyone want to have a listen to their talk when needed . Listening is an action to show emotions . Listen to all your love for that person . Listen only , without do anything . Sometimes , that enough ! Most important is always put yourself in the position of others , if you are damaged , it will hurt others . A speech is an unintended conflict danger –a verbal anger can damage an entire life , a speech at the right time can reduce stress , also loves words can heal wounds and bring peace . Love begins with a true love of their people , not love as they love you draw a picture , otherwise you just love the reflection of your own where they . And remember : Never say goodbye when you still want to try . Do not remove the feeling when you can still be achieved . Do not say : “ i don’t love anymore “ when you can’t stay away from them . Unconditional love if the final destination. “ Thanks for reading and correct me if i’m wrong . Please ! " How to have true love ? : First , you need to understand your lover . You just really happy when you have a person who accept you be yourself , accept all of mistake more

Open Question: My Fiancee needs a good conduct certificate, from Dubai?

Any how she is having problems obtaining one, and she needs it to migrate to Australia. I have asked this question before and people say no certificate of good conduct, no visa. Is there any one who has found away around this problem. If so could you please give some advice on what to do. more

Open Question: GIRLS! I'm so confused?! HELP?

When I was 12 , there was this guy (Joe), who was a friend of the family. I spent alot of time with Joe while I was little, and his mom was one of the few adults who thought alot of me, and she always had this hope that one day Joe and I would end up together. Joe..on the other hand, liked me, and didnt really know how to cope. So he tortured me. And I he made me nervous too, so I tortured him. Until his mom died of cancer and his dad moved the family out of the country. YEARS LATER...I developed a crush on a guy (Chris) from church when I was 16.He was completely uninterested, but I never gave up. Now I’ve finally given up, but he has this place in my heart I cant quite explain. Last spring, I ran into Joe... They had just moved back. And I also noticed that he still made my heart speed up. And he also remembered, after all these years, who I was. And I got him to blush. Last labor day, during the county fair, my BFF and I ran into Joe again (I commented to my friend how cute he was). That same night…we ran into another guy (David) I;ve known vaguely for years thru 4-H. Well, David and I hit it off that weekend and although he lives 2hrs away, we started a long distance relationship. That was 6 months ago. Everything with David seemed great. He was moving down here for college in the fall. He didn’t put much effort into the relationship, but he was my first kiss. He told me he loved me for the first time 3 weeks ago..and last week,out of the blue,he dumped me. Im getting that gut feeling it was another girl. I helped him build confidence and then he found someone closer to home. I feel that part of me (and david said this too) always compared David to Chris. And that part of why I was so flattered by david was to prove to myself after Chris didn’t want me that I was, indeed, worth it.I miss David, but part of me knows he will be back once I move on, and I almost cringe. For months, Joe has kept popping up in my mind. Im not sure why. Ive run into him again months ago, and this week, sent him a friend request on FB. He not only accepted…he wrote me a message (something NO ONE has done when accepting my requests), asking how I was, if I was at the university he’s at, and a great comeback on my last name (I have a fake last name on FB--most people look at me weird or laugh,…he actually had a comeback that made ME laugh).Anyways, Im not sure why this makes me so happy. Am I on the rebound? Does Joe even seem interested? Our paths don’t cross super often naturally, but that would be very simple to change. Or did I like Joe before David even entered the picture? CAN ANYONE EXPLAIN THIS TO ME? IM 18 more

Open Question: Am I turning gay or am I just really bitter?

I'm 20 years old and all my life I've fantasized about dating and marrying a girl and I enjoyed looking at girls in swimsuit magazines when I was in early puberty. I didn't dream about girls on a normal basis but I didn't dream about guys either. Maybe I didn't dream about girls beacuse I got it out of me by looking at magazines and masturbating. But lately I'm realizing how superficial, cold and egotistical they can be. I don't think I'm gay because when I think about having sex with a guy, my stomach feels nauseous like I'm gonna throw up. I think I'm just getting so desperate that my minds playing games on me. But I've heard stories about people who feel like they're straight most of their lives and then their sexuality just changes. I wish porn still had a strong effect on me like it did in my teens then I wouldn't have to put myself out there and find someone.I've had a lot of bad experiences with girls in the past. They're just too fickle and hard to deal with.It just seems like there's a lot of ugly people where I live too. more

Open Question: Could you give me advice to make the decision for our relationship?

Hi, I'm Japanese female and have a French boyfriend who has an American nationality. I live in Japan and we've been dating for 2 years and it is a long distance relationship. The reason why I'm writing this is I don’t know what I can do for him, so I’d like to have advice from many people through this website. All of my Japanese friends say he is not Japanese, so our way of thinking is totally different that’s why we can't give you good advice. So, I want to have advice from not Japanese. He always tells me how much he loves me and wanna be with me forever. He says to me he can't find like me anymore and wanna marry in the future. I always was going to France every 3 or 4 months to meet him and spent time together in his house with his mother and we were talking about marry in front of his mother. One day, he said, " I want to go to Japan to live with you. I've decided to go to Japan where you live. So, wanna go to a language school in Japan to find a job and live with you forever! ” So, I tried to go to the language school and get some information for him. I really didn’t doubt of his words at all. One day, it was just few weeks ago, he sent me an email to say “I can’t go to you city! I need to go to Tokyo campus. The language school changed my application form without asking me. Actually The French man who is working at the embassy of Japan tried to call the school to ask where I go from this spring. And I knew it was school’s mistake” I was surprised so much and called the school but they said “He told us wanna go to Tokyo campus and didn’t get a call from the embassy.” The embassy of Japan also said, “We never call to school or something like this for one person and French men don't work here. He must haven’t came here or he told you a lie” I asked him what’s going on but he suddenly cried and said, “You don’t love me that’s why you don’t believe in me!!” Anyway, after that, he told me he had told me lies. He said “I really love you. This is true but I was scare to think of meeting your parents, marry and kids. I’m still young. I wanted to stay in Tokyo for 6 months alone and wanted to go to your city after 6 months. But I didn't wanna tell you about this because I didn't wanna hurt you because of my words. I wanna be serious our relationship, so I made this lie for you to protect from my weakness. If you didn't find these were lies, you could be blind forever and can live happy together without any doubt.” He also said, “I sacrificed my friends and 2 years for you. But I did it because I love you.” I just wanted to be with him happy and didn’t let him sacrifice or something because of me. I was deeply sad because I wanted to make him happy and wanted to support him to make his happy life. But I actually ruined his life in my hand? I didn’t notice what he wanted to and hid feeling. I’ve just given him bad influence for 2 years…? He said, I don't wanna break up and I’ll never tell you lie from now on. But if you wanna break up, can’t be helped. Here these are my questions Should I break up? If I'll be with him, he will sacrifice something important things because of me even I said please live your life. I don't wanna see him he'll regret his life because of me. I really love him from the bottom of my heart, so if I'm an obstructive person for him, i think i should leave. What do you think? Or he just told me this lie to hurt me to death or break up? I’m sorry not for writing perfect English and too long to read…TT TT more

Open Question: I'm dating an Indian girl (from Mumbai) and she wants to break up with me after dating me for 2.5 years.?

I'm dating an Indian girl (from Mumbai) and she wants to break up with me after dating me for 2.5 years. I am from an East Asian country myself. I proposed to her in Mexico just a few months ago and she said "Yes". She is keeping our relationship a secret to her family. Dating is simply not allowed in her culture, according to her. I respect that! However, after she said "Yes" in Mexico, she still would not introduce me to her family! Two months ago I caught her talking to a potential "suitor" on the phone that her parents found online. When I asked, she finally told me that her parents had been looking for her future husband online for over a year! When I asked how many times she had met these people in person, she did not answer. She simply refuses to answer! How stupid am I... it's been over a month now since she first told me our relationship was over. We study in the same department in the same school and it is difficult to avoid her. I have honestly been trying to avoid her. She calls me everyday. She emails me everyday. She calls me and cries. She says she must get married but she does not feel anything towards these people her parents find online. She tells me she needs me right now. She asked me if I could stay with her until she leaves for India for marriage. It breaks my heart to see her go through this, yet, I am feeling very much betrayed and hurt. She does not have any close friends to talk to here. I find it difficult to leave her, turn away from her. What should I do... more

Open Question: I resigned from my job and now?

my boss is now slating me to other companies. I resigned a few months ago but promised to stay with them until the project I work on is finished - which will be in August. I quit because there was no support for my job which is challenging, and no chance of moving up in my career as other have been there longer and will get promotion first. I also have a colleague who does nothing, is rude, and made a comment that finally pushed me into wanting to leave. I have now found out that my boss was out on a course for two this week and it has got back to me that she was saying how fantastic things are going at her company, but that she has had a member of the team resigned. When she was asked why I had resigned she made it sound like I have been made to leave due to me being unable to do the job and not my own choice. The following day she named me, one of the people she told knows me and told me what she had said and how she had said it. I am looking for a job, but if she is going round saying that I wont be able to find a new one, what do I do? I wont be able to find a new job if she is making me sound like I can not do my job. more

Open Question: i broke my bf's trust by........?

hes hanging out alot with this girl hes recently become friends with. i dont like how he changes around her and drops everything to get her odd things done :O( she has a best mate that he used to fancy like a years ago. now we been together 10 years. the other day i went through his phone and emails, to put my mind at rest as i knew theres nothing going on but wanted prove myself wrong. in that email i saw that he wanted to give her £150 towards a new car shes buying (which hes helping her find) hes like that hell give out money if he can, even thou me and him are struggling upto our eye balls and beyond. so that upset me big time, like y that much to a mate neways?? despite us not having it to give! then in his tx to that girl hes saying. how he finds her mate sexy. :O( when i confronted him about both he said 1. i always want to help people when i can (this is true but not when i cant stand the girl and we got no money) and the sexy things a joke they will always have going on about that girls mate. and how he actually will be spending more time with them seen as there more free in the next months. :O( what do i do with them two problems? and to top it off he is super angry dnt wanna talk about them things to me. as he cant get over how i went through his stuff. so now im stuck :O( he dnt wanna talk to me as hes hurt but i feel like i should be more hurt, dont you? or what i did was worse? sorry for the lots of questions x more

Open Question: Im really confused?! GIRLS! HELP! PLEASE?

Okay... When I was 12 , there was this guy (Joe), who was a friend of the family. I spent alot of time with Joe while I was little, and his mom was one of the few adults who thought alot of me, and she always had this hope that one day Joe and I would end up together. Joe..on the other hand, liked me, and didnt really know how to cope. So he tortured me. And I he made me nervous too, so I tortured him. Until his mom died of cancer and his dad moved the family out of the country. YEARS LATER...I developed a crush on a guy (Chris) I know from church when I was 16.He was completely uninterested, but I never gave up. FOR YEARS. Now I have finally given up, but he has this place in my heart I cant quite explain. Last spring, I ran into Joe... I was shocked, They had just moved back. And I also noticed that he still made me nervous and my heart speed up. And he also remembered, after all these years, who I was. And I got him to blush. Last labor day, during the county fair, my best friend and I ran into Joe again (I even commented to my friend how cute he was). Also that same night…we ran into another guy (David) I;ve known very vaguely for years from 4-H. Well, David and I hit it off that weekenD and although he lives 2hrs away, we started a long distance relationship. That was 6 months ago. Everything with David seemed great. He was moving down here for college in the fall. He didn’t put a lot of effort into the relationship, but he was my first kiss. He told me he loved me for the first time 3 weeks ago..and last week…out of the blue..he dumped me. Im getting that gut feeling it was another girl. And he didn’t need me anymore. I helped him build confidence and then he found someone closer to home. Im reflecting on my feelings..and I feel that part of me (and david said this too) always compared David to Chris. And that part of why I was so flattered by david last fall was to prove to myself after chris didn’t want me that I was, indeed, likeable.I miss David, but part of me knows he will be back once I move on, and I almost cringe at that. Anyways…For about the last 4 months, Joe has kept popping up in my mind. Im not sure why. Ive run into him again months ago, and this week, sent him a friend request on FB. He not only accepted…he wrote me a message (something NO ONE has has ever done when accepting my requests), asking how I was, if I was at the university he’s at, and a great comeback on my last name (I have a fake last name on there--most people look at me weird or laugh,…he actually had a comeback that made ME laugh).Anywayys, Im not sure why this makes me so happy. Am I on the rebound? I seriously doubt Joe would even be interested. Not to mention our paths don’t cross super often. Or did I like Joe before David even entered the picture? CAN ANYONE EXPLAIN THIS TO ME? IM 18 more

Open Question: Why does she have to be such a vile slut?...?

i had a boyfriend, Andrew, and together we lasted 16 months, then it came to a bitter end.. i deeply cared for him, and he'd often get people flirting with him, especially Gemma. As soon as me and Andrew finished she'd gone through around 6-7 boys whilst we were together, and she began to make moves on him, i saw the emails and the way she acted in school, the rumours, everything. it took a long long while to get over Andrew, because i loved him so much and the reason we broke up was because he didn't feel the same about me. It hurt everytime i saw it happen infront of me, so i decided to block her from everything on the internet, and at school i'd blank her. she'd add me back repeatedly until i found i could block her from seeing me online. recently, i met someone else who is 2 years older than me and goes to the college at my school, Ryan. It's really working with him, i'm enjoying my time with him. But recently Gemma has started hanging around with his mate, which means she hangs around with Ryan. Yesterday ryan told me she'd been saying things about me behind my back, and this really bothers me as i am thin-skinned. What do i do? how do i not care about people not liking me? after all, i only deleted her due to the fact the things she did to me hurt, and she didn't understand. I don't want Ryan to hang around with her, talk to her, anything. He doesn't understand why i don't like her. What do i do? more

Open Question: How should I cope with this?

This is more of a rant than anything, please bare with me. I just broke up with my boyfriend. He said he was feeling like he needed to see other people to make sure I was the one. So, I let him go. I'm trying to be strong for him. He wouldn't break up with me because he thought I'd go suicidal crazy on him. The only thing that's getting me through right now is the phrase "If you love something let it go; If it comes back, it's yours forever, if not, it was never meant to be." I guess I'm kinda hopeful he won't find anyone better, but if you knew me you'd be kind of doubtful too. Thus, the end of my rant. Thanks for reading.Thanks so much everyone. Your answers are great, and helping a lot. And *Bear with me. :] more

Open Question: What happend to all the quality girls? What happend to society?

I look around and i cant seem to find ONE. I know you shouldnt judge a book by its cover but the majority of girls i come across are dumb. They seem to have no real interests, theyre boy crazy, unfaithful, party a lot, materialistic, media influence, etc etc. Back when i was in high school i had messed around with quite a few girls (not to boast). None of them were worth my time. I use to be chased around a lot. I use to dress like all the "cool kids".After i graduated i matured a lot and started to notice things. I no longer where immature "cool kid" clothing...i wear what i like...i act how i like. Ive noticed that back when i use to dress like every other "hot/cool guy" i got stares and comments by many girls. Now that im dressing more casual/more mature/MORE LIKE MYSELF i dont get shit (not like it matters...im just pointing out how SHALLOW people are). Im 19 and im still a virgin (ive managed to stay that way through motivation to be different and respect myself). If i want to lose my virginity to anyone it would have to be someone i cared about. Id rather be a virgin forever than lose it to some broad that isnt worth my time. What happend to society? Its not just girls, guys seem like douche bags too. It just seems like society is going to crap. People that know they're pretty/good looking are stuck up. I work in the mall and constantly see girls dressing inappropriately and acting immature. Its just unbelievable. Sometimes i wonder what kind of world i live in. I get a lot of customers that have children and my oh my i just cant believe the moms out there either. One of my main goals in life is to be a good father and have a good family. The problem is...society is filled with a bunch of dumb girls (guys too). Ive been told im attractive, but if im just going to be chased based on my looks and not for who i am then forget it! I just cant picture myself getting married anymore....not to those type of girls anyway. To end this plain and simple...I DONT WANT TO BE SOMEBODY IM NOT. I WANT TO BE WHO I AM AND BE LOVED FOR WHO I AM. more

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Open Question: How come I found it so easy to take care of my common frogs ? Many peoples normally just die ? I'm only young?

Well, I raised 4 tadpoles, I got 4 frogs... I kept these frogs for 3 months in the 2.3 gallon tank I raised them in! It had a little pot of water with 2 rocks in so they could easily hop in and out and gravel at the bottom. I also had a few peices of wood for them to climb on... Even though they wasn't tree frogs they still climbed on them! I fed them small spirders, crickets (I brought) small worms, flies and little bugs. I had a constant supply of food for them. They became really good hunters. But the day I relised them into the wild, I saw all the other little frogs, all their brothers and sisters (Its my mums friends natural pond, she gave us 4 tadpoles and put it loads into that natural pond.) They was all so much smaller, my little frogs were bigger and alot more fat. I was worried about them not being able to find food... How many frogs actually get to adulthood ? What is like the ratio like 1 in 8 baby frogs get to become a adult frog and breed ? Did I do good looking after them as frogs for 3 months in a 2 gallon tank ? I am getting some more tadpoles soon, just need to find them... When they turn into frogs, how long should I keep them for ? It was a simple little tank, no light or heat mat... Any other tips on looking after tadpoles ?I was only 11 back then... more

Open Question: How to get rid of crazy gay stalker.?

Ok, let me get to the point. I'm 100% straight. I am also homophobic. I am very afraid of gay people. There is a crazy person who I think is gay which keeps on talking about me and how I am trying to make advances on him when I really don't. In fact he is the one who makes advances on me. He also sends me messages on how he misses me. He also says the he keeps on dreaming about me which I find very disturbing. Whenever I talk about girls he tends to change the subject. I have also blocked him online because he has gone too far to talk about me on his facebook status. I have also sent him a message to f*ck off and to leave me alone or I will have to report to the authorities and that if I ever see his face again I will have to beat the shit out of him. He also keeps on making false stories about me which makes my blood boil. How He Is Crazy: He keeps on preaching about prophecies and how the end is near. He is also a very problematic person, whenever he has problems he tends to pass it on to other people by asking them if they are sad. Any advice on what to do? more

Open Question: I need some help with finding statistics for my travel and tourism homework?

I need to know who visited the UK the most in the last few years? Were did they visit and how long they stay etc. how many inbound tourists have come to the uk in the last few years? how many domestic tourists are elderly people? i have already looked on statistics websites and i cant seem to make sense of them please help x more

Open Question: How do you get your story ideas down on paper (into actual story format)?

I'm terrible at planning ahead-- in school when we wrote descriptive/expository essays, we were supposed to include an outline that most people made before they wrote the paper. I always did the outline afterwards because they were annoying to me. I'm terrible at condensing-- when I write, I need lots of paper. Lately I haven't been able to write at all. If I do it's only a couple paragraphs until I just get irritated and leave. It's not a lack of ideas--I actually have more than I usually do. I have a main story I'm writing online, I haven't wrote a chapter in two months. I found an old story idea in one of my notebooks, and it got me past my writer's block because it fit so well with my main story. My character is supposed to go after an organization, and the story idea had an organization in it that didn't have anything to revolve around. So it's perfect, they give meaning to each other's lives. XD But I keep trying to write and I can't. I have the idea, I just can't seem to put it into words. How do you get your ideas down on paper, into an actual, comprehensible story? more

Open Question: How do i deal with death? i don't think anything is really helping!?

So on june 23 2009, someone VERY VERY VERY close to me died. And i always thought that when someone died (and i had done this in the past with other peoples deaths) that you just suck it up and move on theres nothign you can do about it. but this time, idk it just i can't move on. i remember that day like im still living it. I remember getting up that morning knowing it was going to happen at 3:00pm. Knowing that i couldn't stop it no matter how hard i tried. I can't get over it. And honestly i've tried poetry, writing stuff, singing. and something i most recentaly wrote is "Tonight the day’s will end, The cold bloody truth comes to life. The blackened skies slit your throat, Red diamond drop-lets hit the ground, Hoping one day your body will be found." and honestly i think writing is supose to help, and it does, but only for a little while, until that feeling that i had that morning comes back. then it just gets worse everytime. I honestly dont know what to do. I'm 15 and I have this person for 12 years of my life. It's like walking outside and just knowing you'll NEVER see them again, knowing that they're gone forever. And personally, i dont believe in heaven.. so i can't just think that their in a better place. I have the thought of them rotting in the ground in my head for the rest of my life. How do i get over this?! more

Open Question: do you think she likes my, even thou she has a boyfriend? (10 points best answer)?

first of all i go to a government school in a county region with about six other schools in it. also in australia so it much diferent to american schools... okay well im a guy and shes a girl and we have known each other for about 3 and half years now but have only became really good frends in the past 6 months, epecially this year. We go to the same school and are in year 10, both 15. She has a boyfriend who is 19 and they have been seeing each other for about 10 months. i have never meet him but he is one of my friends big brother. We talk to each other every day at school about everything and anything, even personal stuff but she never talks about her boyfriend with me, not even mention his name. she tells me im her best friend and the other day she said im at the top of her list of people she likes the most. at lunch we sit in a big group up to 20 some day because its a pretty small school and we all get along really well in that group (the popular group) but lately she has been asking me to go for a walk with her, so i do we walk around or find a place to sit and just talk me and her. we sit next to each other in at least one class a day. a few of times she has been crying at school so i have gone to her to see if she is okay and she has said she is, three times, when she is not, i think its because of something to do with her boyfriend thats why she doesnt tell me (once she just said i hate boys, except you. and that was it). also the other day a little year 7 thought she was my girlfriend and one of our friends asked me if we were going out, she doesnt know about that. she is also going away for a week in the holidays with her boyfriends family. She has sat on my lap a couple of times without asking for a few minute (one time was in class the other day when the teacher asked her to get off but she just sat there and tried to ignore the teacher but eventually she got off before she got it troeble) and also in the library about two weeks ago i was sitting on the couch and she layed down on me and went to sleep...any way, i really like this girl and i was wanting to know if she might like me too? i want serious help from preferably girl but guy can answer to and some advice on how to win her overalso dont want to lose her as a good friend if she doent like me back more

Open Question: Strange Situation ..How to forget someone ?

I am married with 33 age with 3 kids.This issue happened to me. I work on computer for about 10 hrs per day alone in my office. i.e. no other anyone to help me.I am alone at my office which is abt half kms from home. I saw two girls(sisters) constantly wondering near about my office & looking at me.I noticed this thing,but as other people in area also know me I didn't talked to them.But what I did I put my phone no on door of my office so that those girls can call me & I can talk what's issue i.e. why they are wondering abt 6-7 times & staring at me. Finally I got call from them, That girls were sisters & before 10 years we were neighbours ( I didn't recognised them,as I was of 20-21 years & the girl who liks me was 10 years old. ).What she said me is ,she likes me a lot since her childhood as a dream boy. when we were separated i.e. I changed house,she tried to find me but as her was small in age,so nothing happened. Now i am married 3 kids,But she requested me to be her friend.I agreed because I don't have any close friends due to my work structure.She started to come to my office to fill songs in her mobile & else.Once what happened we were emotional & kissed each other.She is very hot & I was not able to control myself,but did not did sex.I requested for sex but she told me I shall keep sexual relations with you but not now.. may be later. I got emotional for her & started to call her to come to my office,But once she denied & I got angry.After that I didn't called her for 2 months. But again I felt guilty for rude behaviour & send her sms abt sorry. She called me but didn't talkd as before.Her voice was not so emotional.Once at night she sent me sms that she is in prob.I called her next day & she told me that she needs 1000 rs at urgent due to some fine in college due to lab instrument broken by her.I paid her,she came to my office & I tried to kiss her but she denied & told me I don;t want your money,if u wish to purchase me by giving 1000 rs.I am not that kind of person I told her.But she left office.Her behaviour is changed completly.I tried to call her,but she never responds.Don';t pickup my phones,or don't talk as like before.I am emotional & strong sexual feelings for her but don't know what to do . I tried to forget her,but my office is close to her house.My house is also 1 kms from her house.I love my family also but this girl made me crazy for her & her touches. more

Open Question: it's a complicated love relationship. need some advice yo?

well, im a complicated person haha. mmnn.. i come off as very intimidating and a little on the mean and cold side. But im not. I guess it's a defense mechanism because im really actually vernerable and helpless inside. I just came to the point where Im scared that people misunderstood me too much. The guy I love never really realized how much i truly loved him too. He's my world. But a huge mess happened between us. And now were caught in confusion. We broke up two years ago. Since then weve been going out with different people. Ive always been ok with it because I knew he never had any feelings for the girls he dated. We still talked in two years. Especially about what really happened between us, that was just a twist of fate and something we had no control over. That's actually the problem. I left him right at the momment when he was prepared to leave everything behind to be with me. I was innocent and scared. I was pregnant and I just left. I hoped that he wouldve known me enough to know that I really loved him and that there was a reason. But he believed the lie i put out for him. I told him that I was getting an abortion, because i was afraid that i was holding him back. i was also afraid that he wouldnt spend the rest of his life with me. i guess we both didnt believe in just how much we really loved each other. But our ending i guess wasnt really an ending that's why we both come back to each other. I miscarried and came back but then he was with another girl. He didnt love her though. For two years we try to be in a relationship with each other but were too angry and hurt and too inlove and too scared for it to be the same as it was before. The only thing that havent change is the want and the need for us to be together. No matter how long we spend not talking to each other, however much people we go out with, everytime we start just saying hi, were back where we started. Recently, he's involved with his bestfriend. And this time, he is deeply inlove with her. Im afraid. He loves her almost as much as he loved me before the mess between the two of us happened. He loves her so much, he is ok ignoring with me. I have no power over him. We still hang around each other. Sleep together (no sex of course because he doesnt want to cheat on his gf) but that's it. I actually stay around because i love him and just want to care for him. I dont want him to feel stressed with me anymore. But it's happening because his girlfriend hates my guts. It figures, she's been his bestfriend and she knows about all the stuff that happened between me and him. I wanna be friends with her. I dont want him to think that it's some scheme im planning. Til this day he believes i had an abortion no matter how much ive told him the truth over the years. Sure im happy when he and his girlfriend fight because she's mad when im around him. But that's coz i want him all to myself. I want him to be happy more though. and since we both cant stay away from each other, im bound to keep making this tension between him and his girlfriend unless i make friends with her. What should i do? should i tell him im going to make friends with his girlfriend? make friends with his girlfriend without telling him (even though he's going to find out the moment i go see her) or just leave it be. Me being the girl who almost seem like the secret lover/mistress that the guy doesnt love. well actually i dont know how he feels. more

Open Question: How are the lyrics to my song?

I just wrote this in a few minutes and i want to see different peoples opinion on the song. Yeah i know its probably crap but im only thirteen so not too much trolling please. Its called "Waking Up" 1, 2, 3, 4 who are you looking for? 5, 6, 7, 8, who do you choose to hate? Walking down the street…angry and scared. Thinking to yourself…life isn’t fair. Looking for the man who caused you much fear. Well guess what, he’s right over here. You think you found him, but guess what? You’re wrong. You never thought he’s been here all along. Doing you’re thing. To get fortune and fame. Things don’t go right, now who’s to blame? You try so hard but you can’t find a name… 1, 2, 3, 4 who are you looking for? 5, 6, 7, 8, who do you choose to hate? Things haven’t gone the way that you thought. Still looking for that name that you sought. Things in your head told you to halt. They keep telling you, it’s not your fault. You keep going on with all your pride. Deep inside you just want to hide. No need to cry no need to weep. Do you know why? Cause you’re still asleep. Doing you’re thing. To get fortune and fame. Things don’t go right, now who’s to blame? You try so hard but you can’t find a name… 1, 2, 3, 4 who are you looking for? 5, 6, 7, 8, who do you choose to hate? You just found it! That name that you want! Now it’s come back to haunt… Yep there it is, that name that you rue, just take a look. That name is you. more

Open Question: As much as I hate to ask... Can I get some help on connecting with people?

Okay, fine, it's mainly with women that I'm concerned about...but it definitely carries over into friends as well. I mean, sure, I'm able to make some work buddies. And sure, I can go out and get laid from time to time without a great deal of effort...however even getting laid doesn't mean as much anymore. Now don't get me wrong, I don't really care too much what anyone thinks... but I've noticed over the past couple of years that when I look around for a good friend to hang out with or a relationship, that neither are there. I spend most of my time alone, which is nice...but even when I want to change that, I have a harder and harder time putting myself out there. I mean, I'm not a raging jerk to anyone.. anymore (I quit drinking a little over a year ago). I don't have any racial or homophobic hangups on people... I'm pretty tolerant of anyone really. In fact, most seem to find me funny, a bit interesting, insightful, intelligent, etc.... but I never seem to make anyone's A list. It always seems a near miss with me and I can't figure it out. I used to love being a drunken man whore, and now that that's gone, the one thing I want most is an actual relationship...and there's the near miss again. What's worse is that I think I'm becoming increasingly sarcastic and closed off, and even when I see an opportunity, I feel needy for wanting to take it. I'm not sure exactly how this all happened, but I'm not sure I like it. I don't know, maybe being an agnostic, non bar or club loving, young lad who's biggest interest is politics and current events at times might leave me with less to relate to others. After all, highschool was eight years ago, I go to a college surrounded by 19 year olds, and am in a typical college town. I don't really like "parties" and actually expect people to have something interesting to say (unlike what I'm babbling on about) other than "Did you see what happened last night? Brad called Jennifer a whore, and she downed a whole cake in a shame spiral and then puked it up on Brad's brother's car!". Anyways, now that this has become a rambling vent-session, I have to ask: Any ideas out there?@Irony: you know, I'm usually told that it's suprising that I'm single...by really attractive women...that I've either already dated or tried to at one time. I mean, if you combine that with women who want to take a bus across Texas to stay with me when we've never met and...start a relationship? or, you know, give me blood...that could be considered a good thing, I suppose. @ James: a teenager giving me insightful and good advice while I complain about teenagers...good to see irony isn't wasted on me :) more

Open Question: How should I buy things online if I am not old enough to sign up for paypal?

How should i buy things on the internet without paypal? I'm 17 and already have a visa debit card. I'm scared that people can use my account info to buy things with my money if i just type it out whenever i'm buying.. I heard paypal keeps your bank account info secure but you need to be 18? what should i do? if i lie about my age on paypal and they somehow find out could they prohibit me from signing up for paypal ever again? more

Open Question: Guys... whats better? I mean, honestly?

My friend gets way more guys than me and it bothers me so much! I mean, guys like me, but I generally attract the nerdy or stalkerish guys... lucky me. Basically, hot guys dig her. I mean shes pretty and fun, but I just dont get it. Shes wild. Drinks, smokes pot, and drunkenly has sex. Shes not that nice. She had sex with this girl who is her "friend"s love interest to "piss her off", yeah she was definitely pissed. Then she told like ten people about what she did and expected people to feel sorry for her because rumors started going around and her dad found out and grounded her. Shes a drama queen. A lot of girls dont like her or call her a w#ore. Shes materialistic. Im laid back. I dont smoke or drink, except on occasions with family. Ive never done anything passed making out with a guy. Im almost brutally honest, especially when it comes to sex drugs or alcohol, but I feel its necessary seeing how corrupted our society is. Other than that Im generally nice to people, especially if theyre nice to me. I mean, I volunteer at a daycare! Little kids love me! Kids my own age just dont because I make a point of not agreeing with their immaturity. I dont think its looks, I mean id like to think that Im not ugly. Some people might not consider me attractive, I dont know, its all opinion, I think Im cute enough though. I mean its not that hot guys havent taken interest in me, they actually have. The last guy that I was "talking" to was really hot, girls love him, and he took interest in me and asked me for my number! Then when me and him and HER and another guy all started hanging out he decided he liked her better. Thats a shocker... Im generally considered a pretty classy girl compared to her who is considered a ho, no offense to her, shes my friend and I try to put up with her stuff but I guess Ive just been pushed too far over the edge. I dont know guys. What do you think?1. Ive stuck up for her and made a joke of myself to three fourths of the student body because I didnt want people saying she was a ho. 2. I support her more than any of her other friends do and Im the only person that tells her like it is, if she doesnt listen thats her problem. Telling her not to do drugs is not being a bad friend. 3. If you actually made an effort to earn respect like I do, then your friend who is a total ho had more guys going for her than you do, youd be pissed too. 4. I said she was pretty and fun and I said I was brutally honest and plain, how did I give all bad attributes of her and good ones of me? I compared everything bad she does to myself and I happen to not do as much bad stuff as she does, its not my problem that she makes bad decisions. 5. Im not shallow, if Im not attracted to a guy, Im not going to date him. I know what I want, sorry I have standards, BIABIAAAA. more

Open Question: how exactly does one obtain "gaydar"?

because i think mines broken or something :/ lol. i know like 5 gay and out people, and i honestly wouldn't know 3 of them were gay unless someone told me [which eithor they themselves told me, or someone else did. lmao] and if the statistics are right, i should know many gay people in my school, but i literally only know of 1 for sure bi person at my school [hes out] and according to statistics theres alot more....theres only 1 other person who i honestly think might be gay or bi [hes kinda feminine, and sort of has that stereotypical flamboyant accent]. i just really really want to figure out how to get my "gaydar" to work, cause the damn thing is like busted or something :/ lol. so basically, how do i find out more gay and bi people in my school without them coming out? because catholic school, gay/bi = social and [according to church] moral no-no.so its less likely to have people come out here than somewhere like a public school [[ btw i def do not believe in the church's view on gays, as i'm bi]] more

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