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Open Question: help - american women in relationship with man from southern iran?

It started with friendship and then something pretty much like a proposal, which i put everything else aside to take seriously including ending a vacation and work away early to come and live with him. while away there were some traits i was wondering about and when i enquired further ..and further i found some things i reacted to; maybe in the right or wrong. each time i enquired further with him i got; "everything is fine". i worry and try to uncover untruths a little too much and here - my faults were being encouraged by me not feeling secure with that answer or some other things making me feel alittle insecure.. i ended up getting the phone number of a girl from his phone and asked her as nicely as possible if they were together. basically she said she was waiting to see him soon but had not since 3 weeks; the time he and i were fully in a relationship. he said he wanted to do things slowly.. by me going into his phone and calling her- he turned from our "marital" bliss, trying to make a baby - to shutting me out completely for a week. for the next 2 months we were caught in a cycle of; me trying to understand, wanting to uncover and know what the truth really was,him needing space, not communicating, me confused and in fear of what was really going on; i saw true love yet maybe also a liar. i did find out later he did go and have "just sex" with others after this first incident. later we got back together feeling all the same things yet in the day time i was feeling id no ground; not communicated with, waiting or stood up, possibly still flirting at least with women, and if i was not available he seemed to retaliate.. hurting and feeling id allot to make up for. i finally did break out of this pattern and went back home for 10 days where i got back my strength and independence. afraid that leaving his side would be mean he would go to another - at the beginning of my trip i called a few times too much including once 3am his time, i know it was stupid, i was propelled by thinking id seen a clue that he was but was not. this furthered his feeling of me crowding him and un trust. after this we did not talk for 2 weeks and i got myself back together. when i came back to home ( id moved out to my own place) - i found out i am 1 month pregnant. he is willing to "try" things between us but his heart is also on reserve and wants to see me change ( i am open but want to be able to discern) or he cannot trust, i now feel distanced and hard to reroute back to him, we both still feel/ know there is strong love but just at the time when we both could use time - we don't have much time. i have to decide in 3 weeks tops of what to do.. i never wanted to abort (it was horrible 18 years ago) and i do not like the idea of being a single parent at all. we need to talk about practicalities but even email/ letters are possible overload. iv no idea what the set up would be like since iv only seen his very iranian life style of lots of people around at all times and lack of organisation or communication. iv no guarantee he'd change his mind later. more

Open Question: My parents want to take advantage of me, what should I do?

My parents want to take advantage of me, what should I do? This is a huge problem that I have with my parents. They want to take advantage of me financially. They supported my education, and they want their money back. However, in my country this is not legal, to ask a daughter or son to pay back what parents spent on education because under the law here it is their obligation to do so, even if the daughter or son is older than 21. So, under the law I am protected. I have not been living with them for 10 years. I only go to their house as a visitor. Now I am staying with them for a couple of months, not because I want to see them but because I have business in the city they live. I will travel abroad next year. When I was in another country they sent me an email threatening me saying that I should return the money with interests to them, otherwise they would take legal action against me. The letter really surprised me, it seemed to me that in thirty years I was just beginning to know them. No wonder why they have few friends. I am the only person they are doing this to. I have two older brothers and my parents do not ask them to pay back whatever they spent on them. Are they doing this because I am a woman? Are they doing it because I am single? I really don´t know why they targeted me. This problem started in 2008, when I got a great job offer. What I did when they threatened me I forwarded the email to other family members and they got upset, so they took their word back (apparently). However, I know their intentions over my money are still there. They always care about where I work, how much I am making, how much am I paying for rent. My father even asked me to give him my job contracts, so that later he could sue me or at least he thinks he could sue me. I don´t know what you could advice me to do, any ideas are welcome. I feel like disappearing and changing my name and never be found by them, since they are not letting me live my life. Am I dealing with mentally ill people, am I dealing with ambitious people? By the way my parents are not poor, they own 3 houses and receive their rent, they are retired. My impression is that they want to have me as a slave, like I am their private property. They have not seen one cent from me until now, because I said, although it may sound disrespectful, I did not ask to come to this world. To get my bachelor´s degree I got a scholarship that covered 80% of my studies. My mom told my dad that she needed the money to build our house, supposedly OUR house, now it is only THEIR house. So they built a house with my scholarship, if I wasn´t smart they would not have gotten the opportunity to do so, right? I was 20 years by then. After that, I got a scholarship to study abroad, my parents only covered the rent, which is the money that they are asking for. Now they want my salary or future salary to build more houses, yet I do not own any place to live?One of the persons who answered my post said I need to pay them for rent, how can a pay for rent in a house that I contributed to be built financially only because it is not registered on my name. Is this the price of being single, I felt I am single to the convenience of others. Would only having my own family discourage my parents from harrassing me? more

Open Question: my skype in number has been engaged for weeks, people have been trying to call me?

my skype in number has been engaged for weeks, people have been trying to call me they get about half a second of ring, followed by engaged tone I have tried using 3 different computers and my netgear skype phone I can log out of everything, makes no difference, incoming calls still go to engaged I have sent emails to skype on every email address I can find, most bounce back Yes I have spent hours looking at help files, not helpful I am a great fan of skype, but how do you fix my problemI don't even have to be on line to be permanantly engaged I can make outgoing calls on the same number more

Open Question: Are Jehovah's Witnesses following False Prophets?

Here a Jehovah’s Witness admits the Governing Body has made mistakes and he got thumbs up for it: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=An3Ii4uFKgVEHZmp_u9q8Jzty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100908084116AAW5k6o The Bible: Deu 18:20 But the prophet, which shall presume to speak a word in my name, which I have not commanded him to speak, or that shall speak in the name of other gods, even that prophet shall die. Deu 18:21 And if thou say in thine heart, How shall we know the word which the LORD hath not spoken? Deu 18:22 When a prophet speaketh in the name of the LORD, if the thing follow not, nor come to pass, that is the thing which the LORD hath not spoken, but the prophet hath spoken it presumptuously: thou shalt not be afraid of him. So if a prophet makes a prediction in God’s name or a 'thing' and it doesn't come to pass that makes him a false prophet. So giving a false prophecy makes you a false prophet it seems. Jehovah's Witnesses predicted the Armageddon many times, once in 1914, again in 1925, and then in 1975. Evidence of this can be found in the many documents from the watch tower society prior to the 1914 date. One can be found here: http://www.jwfacts.com/images/thy-kingdom-come-1911-p228.jpg. For more information or actual old Watchtower magazines from the 1800’s just ask and I will email them to you. For the 1925 predictions you can read Millions now will never die here: http://jehovah.net.au/books/Millions_Now_Living_Will_Never_Die.pdf For 1975 predictions I have some Awakes! available through emails, seemly request them and I will give you my email address. There are even more doctrinal changes some leading to the deaths of some people before New Light was casts on the doctrines. For instance vaccines, organ transplants, and full blood were all banned before but aren’t anymore, blood fractions are allowed. The watchtower on organ transplants: 1967 "When men of science conclude that this normal process will no longer work and they suggest removing the organ and replacing it directly with an organ from another human, this is simply a shortcut. Those who submit to such operations are thus living off the flesh of another human. That is cannibalistic. However, in allowing man to eat animal flesh Jehovah God did not grant permission for humans to try to perpetuate their lives by cannibalistically taking into their bodies human flesh, whether chewed or in the form of whole organs or body parts taken from others." (Watchtower, Questions from Readers, Nov. 15, 1967 p 702-704) I have nearly every Watchtower society book available because of the internet and thanks to my mom who is nearly 70 and a Jehovah’s Witness who keeps every book the watchtower made when she was alive. Why do false prophets exist? The bible answers that question too: 2 Pet 2:1 [NIV] But there were also false prophets among the people, just as there will be false teachers among you. They will secretly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the sovereign Lord who bought them--bringing swift destruction on themselves. 2 Pet 2:3 [NIV] In their greed these teachers will exploit you with stories they have made up. Their condemnation has long been hanging over them, and their destruction has not been sleeping. Mat 7:15 Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves. Mat 7:16 Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? Mat 7:17 Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. Mat 7:18 A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. Mat 7:19 Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire. Mat 7:20 Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them. Mat 7:21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven. Mat 7:22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? Mat 7:23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity [lawlessness]. more

Open Question: Espn Fantasy Football? How do I pick up my players I drafted offline?

Someone don't know how to set a league up so he is having everyone add who they drafted to there teams individually. Well someone from the league did it already and has his team set but what he told me don't match up and I have no clue how to add these players because its locked! The green plus sign to add a player is not lit up and I can't do anything??? here is what he said to do but I can't find Im tools and hes not responding to my email right away and this would help out a lot of other people in the league. okay when you are on the screen it says league my team and so on go to lm tools, from there all the way to the right to add player, once you go into that screen you have to act as league manager not team owner I am so lost!!! can some1 please tell step by step how to fix this. I am only use to yahoo which I think is way better than espn so far. more

Open Question: My boyfriend is too sensitive too insecure and gets angry very easily,what kind of personality disorder is he?

I'm trying to figure is going on with my sisters boyfriend? so I am writing this for her as if it were me. This is for my younger sister. She doesn't have a email account.No names will only address as he/him. He is highly sensitive and insecure and gets angry easily if you say the wrong things to him. Any business place he walk into as a regular customer and he notice that the person who is serving him doesn't say hello he gets angry. Some people don't always say hello. I explained this to him and he still gets upset cursing like crazy. You can say one negative thing to him otherwise he will get very upset and it will linger for days. If you tell him he put on a little weight he put on a little weight he will get very upset, and tries to find something to throw back at you. He wants to be acknowledge by everyone. Especially my family, he needs to be told first before my mother and family. He lives at home with his mother and gets upset with me if I want to go and visit my mom for a few days out of state. My sister was diagnosis with cancer stage 2 and I wanted to spend a weekend with my mom and sister. He has a car that runs great and would not offer me a ride knowing I needed to go and did not have a car to drive since my license was expired I couldn't rent a car until I got my license renew, anyway I got ride and when I told him two days before my leaving he still got upset with me, telling me that I told him the last minute.It was not the last minute since I was leaving Friday and it was Wednesday when I told him,I only told two people which was my brother who I had to call since he was giving me a ride back and I needed to confirm that he would be giving me that ride back home . He got so upset he did not want to talk and rudely hung up. Yet,he doesn't offer me a ride knowing my sister had major surgery the week before and for me to travel by bus or train with a dog and a cat is impossible I don't trust anyone with my pets only my mom. I can't carry my dog on my shoulder since I injured my back and shoulder. He knew my dilemma but still would offer. Anyway, On my departure he didn't say bye or have a safe trip to your mothers since she live 800 miles from NY. He always gets upset even when I don't say anything to him. He thinks that if I limit my conversation I'm hiding something. I try not to say too much because I never know what will upset him. He doesn't want to talk to me about anything and when I asked him before if anything is bothering him he gets upset and says no and why would I think something is bothering him, so he shuts me out. I am living on the edge. I am only thankful he wants to see me twice a week. That is why I put up with him 5 hours one day on the weekdays and 1 hour on the weekend. I have known him for 11 years and only visited his home three times. We don't celebrate the holidays together I have his home number and his mom number so I know he lives at home. His father pass away 9 years ago. It is hard for people to get along with him since he gets upset too easily and is too sensitive. I can figure out what is wrong with him. Does he have a personality disorder of some sort. more

Open Question: On Facebook, can I make my business page what people see first?

When I had my personal and biz page, it seemed like people could never find my biz page by typing in my email address. If I make a new biz page first and personal page second, will that be reversed? more

Resolved Question: did i deserve an xplanation for him hurting me like this?

ok so i was dating a man for over a year & a half & he asked me to move in (after only 1 month) & i turned him down. now the reason i did that bc i wanted to get to know him better & also bc i get sick a lot and i wanted to stay near my parents jic sumthn happnd & bc my two girls live with me. anyhoo, the relationship was going really good... (so i thought) when he got sick at work & fell out. he was waiting for a heart & i guess he was stressed bc of his line of work & it was too much for him. now since we had a bit of distance btween us, we stayed on the phone & was constantly emailing each other. he wanted my life to be easier bc of the illness & girls & i wanted to keep him form stressing so he offered me a share in an amusement park (in writing) that he was opening & i said ok. he also said i should handle the entertainers for whatever venue he had going on at the time. now at the time he was suppose to be hiring Prince & MJB but they found him a heart & we had to cancel. so after he had the operation his lawyer contacted me & said evrything went well & would send a car for me to come see him... it never went down tho bc he didnt want me to c him like that. & since i get sick a lot i knew how he felt. so a couple of weeks went by of him complaining about his partner stealing from him & people not giving a ish about him, i wanted to kill all those ppl who was hurtng him. i prayed for this man more than i did myself & didnt need it n return. i didnt want to b his trophy wife, i just wanted to continue to love him and his 5 kids & definately didnt want to hurt him the same way those other broads had, as his daughter told me. i started noticing the emails stop coming so i got worried. i called, emailed, & texd him all day long & didnt hear from him for weeks, until his lawyer called & said his body rejected the heart and they had to replace it... thank god! so time passed & still didnt hear from him, so now all i could do was assume was the worse. i cried sooo much.. i mean i baby cried bc i didnt know if he made it or not & all i could do was cry, pray, & email him to c if he was ok. i wud say 2 months went by & he answered one of my emails & told me he was ok but was pissed off that he had a nurse that was always there. now i didnt suspect nothing bc we talked like we would any other time & i wanted to just b there to help him, but he claimed that he didnt feel up to my standards & didnt want me to see him. i explained that i wanted him no matter how he thought i felt for him bc i lvd him. he followed w/o an answer but would request for my friendship on different sites... wtf? another 2 mos passed & i looked him up on facebook & sent a request. it took him a month to accept me & thats when i saw he had sum1 else & was using MY daily heartsong method i made up 4 him, on his new girl....? i didnt want to post nething on his wall (afraid i wud upset his woman) & sent him a message saying i was upset that all that time i thought he was dead, he was talking to another broad... sum1 who hurt him n the past? he sent me a message back saying "how dare u request me as a friend just to justify ur accusations!"... ? & that he didnt owe me an apology and hated the words that i had said... ? how dare i? my heart hurt so bad bc i asked him if he still loved me b4 & he said yes & asked me to stay with him. so i sent an email saying that i never said he owed me nething and that i never asked for nething. he threw his fame, money, yatch, & mansion at me and i never bit back. although i did want to do a few concerts, it was only to say that i have done it bc i had done everythng career wise i had ever wanted to do, & the music thing was the last one on my list. he made me feel lower than the dirt below my feet. we was fighting life together but now i was doing it alone. i know i only have a good 2-3 yrs left, & i am 33 now, but i didnt want to die alone like we both promised each other, but i lost hope after that. i know he is a good man, but he could hav said sumthn! i didnt know what i did or said, but i could only assume that it bothered him when i was constantly asking him if he was ok... idk. after i sent my last email apologizing for whatever i had done wrong i blocked him from sending me anything else & also from my friend lists. i guess it hurt me more to find out that he was ok but left me to worry more than nething. i knew i wasnt on his level but i didnt need his money, my dad paid all my bills, so he left me to wonder. i usually can move on quickly but it is fuqn wit me bc he did it like that. even tho im with sum1 else now it pops up every now and again bc i hear about him & c the porche he bought me evrywhere i go. can u tell me why i cant seem to let it go even tho it has been over 5 mos? and do u think i would feel better if i did hear him tell me fuq me? i dont evn care about the amusement park or my position n the company cuz i didnt hav it to bgin with.. i guess im just hurt, u know?if u think my story is too long... skip it. i just wanted to know if i should be hurting from this. oh and im sorry if my grammar sucks, its not something i had on my mind while i was writing this. more

Open Question: Are women really that shallow? (Online dating)?

So I tried online dating and made a seriously good profile. I even had a female friend help me pick out the best pictures of me and help me critique the profile. I filled out a BUNCH of questions (the site uses questions to match your personality up with other people.) and so I should be finding compatible people in my matches. Well I find some girl and read her profile and she sounds like an awesome person, I write her an email. A day or so later sometimes just a few hours later, she visits my profile and then that's the end of it. She never writes back, never winks, nothing. This has happened A LOT. I'm a little overweight but not obese, and I am losing weight. The pictures I have up are the best I have and I actually kind of liked them. Out of like 20 people only 2 have messaged me back ever and one of them was moving away like the next week and now she lives 60 miles away. This is a free site so I'm not losing money. I have made sure that I 1. dont come on too strong 2. I usually don't even mention her appearance or if I do it is a tasteful compliment. 3. I actually READ their profiles and write thought out emails to them based on things we have in common and what I liked about her. 4. I'm trying my best not to be boring and I keep messages short but have enough in there to start a conversation off of. And I never message anyone more than once until they message back. I thought girls didn't care that much about appearances? I'm no Brad Pitt by a long shot but I am not ugly. I'm 5'11" dark short brown hair, blue eyes and I'm 225 which is a little big but I am active and I am working hard on losing the weight. Are women seeing my picture and deciding not to write me back? I am considering trying other sites because I am running out of people to write here! I am not just writing to the "hot" girls either. I don't care much about looks as long as the girl isn't like heavier than me. But I don't mention looks, or anything that suggests I am some kind of shallow perv or anything. Are women just shallow? Should I write a second time since they checked out my profile? I don't want to look desperate but maybe I should be a tad more persistent? Thanks for any ideas or help!Also my pictures are recent ones of me except for one where I am wearing a tux, but it isn't the main picture. I have a full body pic of myself outdoors for the main one, a pic of me and some friends (guys) just standing somewhere, and a pic of me and another friend. (an attractive girl but she's just a friend of mine.) more

Open Question: I'm done with girls, seriously......?

I'm 23 and I've never been in a relationship...As dumb as this sounds...I haven't even kissed a girl =s Now I know what you guys are thinking you must be a loser and really ugly. To be honest, I have noticed alota girls kinda stare at me in a way, I've had attractive girls strip on camera for me, give me their email addies, passwords, deepest secrets, asking me to meet up with them and a lot more. Plus the fact that I stay in shape, I'm funny, I'm decent looking imo, I cook, I clean, I care about people, I'm not cheap with money and well pursuing my masters in business at the university of Chicago just tells you right there I am not a loser or some pushover desperate guy. My luck with girls has been extremely bad for over a decade now...I can't find the right one...Either their b.itchy, they already have a b/f, there immature...You name it. I don't want stupid answers on here telling me how I can pick up chicks or that I'm not confident...I am confident and I don't have high standards for girls. If a girl was 100pnds compared to 130 pnds I will not knit pick that because if I feel the need to love her I will. I'm placing a seed of doubt in my mind that I will ever get the chance of being with a proper girl. It's almost like waiting for a hurricane to pass through and let it do the damage because I can't take it anymore. Let me name you the "rules" you have to play by to get a girl...Seem interested but not that interested, be confident but not over confident, how am i suppose to know if I'm not some rebound guy the next girl that comes along, how do i know if it's just not some stupid summer fling, what if shes just using me to get someone jealous...The list goes on and on and on...I don't trust girls anymore. more

Open Question: Regarding life coaching. It seems to me that people could coach each other?

I'm looking for a site that connects people up based on their situations and goals where the people could coach each other and keep each other honest and on track by email, phone, internet meeting or some other method. Sort of be Tony Robbins to each other. I know there has to be such a group out there but I can't get past all the life coach adds and find it. Anybody know of such a group or have suggestions on how I might locate some people to form a group with? Thanks in advance. more

Resolved Question: I've decided that I'd do a lot better with business and life if I had a coach and it seems to me that people?

could coach each other. I'm looking for a site that connects people up based on their situations and goals where the people could coach each other and keep each other honest and on track by email, phone, internet meeting or some other method. Sort of be Tony Robbins to each other. I know there has to be such a group out there but I can't get past all the life coach adds and find it. Anybody know of such a group or have suggestions on how I might locate some people to form a group with? Thank in advance. more

Resolved Question: Mech Dedication Question: "Kno's rapping is borderline wack as usual"?

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlhY16SedGI_leAXEiK1utLsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100907041144AAYSRe1 So this is borderline wack? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zPdMmmOIOeg "Fumblin with a sweat on my fingers, something impetuous lingers Become infected with feeling so I'm electing this evenin To end my life without reason cus I'm indicted for treason Closin my eyes and I'm leakin, drag the knife til I'm bleedin Cus its light that I'm seeking, feels only right that I'm meetin With Jesus seeking redemption but he don't need my repentance For he who feels my intentions sees that my deepest depression Is feeding me to these demons that lurk and feed on my essence The pain is deep in my chest and I keep repeatin my blessins Ever since a meek adolescence that saw me beaten by freshmen Parents repeatedly sentenced, heroin needles on dressers They used to feed their infection, I can't repeat indescretions So I pause for reflection, long for honest affection And gettin lost in the music is only soothin for stretches Cus if you knew where my head is, when I'm doing these records You'd never listen to my music again, I can't let you see" or this? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=26GNjcQjh5Y "Walk up the rectangle steps, take a seat on the bus backpack, pack that sack meal for your lunch four cornered blackboard makes you act bored no use paying attention, now you facin suspension so its back on the block and they callin you square try to get the label off but youre glued to the cable box Closed Caption clothes and fashion, so attractive as you lay on a box spring and old mattress choices blocked off, childhood gone just future cubicles and retirement homes but you can't see it happenin, live savagely only thing you put passion in is Zig-Zag packaging swallow Oxycontins to find solace you need a fix so you hit some blockhead for his wallet but the gun jams and the cops come to take ya and now that bullet ain't the only thing thats caught up in a chamber" or even this? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fIZxemPgT3s "As the East vs. West winds blew, causing two Legends to Fall like maple leaves from escalated beef Assumed that the worst was over Til these cats started wearing shiny costumes like the 31st of October The weather's colder, but the word jacket/jack it Is what they did to people's styles, not what they covered they backs with Tactics of the skill impaired No Limit to what they'll do when the green is scarce Some be Thanksgiving for who they know, while others get jerked for loot Cause gettin signed ain't a turkey shoot No respect for the pilgrims who paved the way so you could rock that Just pop crap and Plymouth Rock-Rap Beyond gimmicks and fake plastic tits Outkast and Raekwon dropped fall classic discs Born to Roll, so I'm taking you back to school days of autumn Before the bottom dropped out in 2K" Sorry, I just find it inane to label Kno's rapping as "borderline wack", when he's truthfully a second coming of Mr. SOS in Cunninlynguists. Throughout their history, in my humble opinion, the members skill wise are: Deacon > Kno > Mr. SOS > Natti How in anyway is he whack? Also, Tunji from Inverse isn't better? I can understand the comments if it was only Thee Tom Hardy, but Tunji is one of the best new things to happen to underground rap as of lately. I'm just wanting to ask (since you don't check your email, and I really don't want to click on your blog) how is he wack? If you clicked on this, your opinion about Kno would be welcome. more

Open Question: PARENTS CONTROLING ME AS AN ADULT!!!!?

Im going to be 20 in about a week. and I thought when I turned 18 they would stop being annoying. But no. Am I asking them to hang out with my friends? *no* Am I asking them to let me have a boyfriend? *no* I never go out..I never do anything. One time I talked with my BEST friend on the phone for 1 hour and my mother started yelling *ARE YOU EVER GONNA GET OFF THE FUC*ING PHONE* so then I stopped using my phone. I never text anyone. I have no damn effing life. So I spend most of my time on the internet talking with friends, checking facebook, doing homework (ok not much of this), and drawing artsy stuff...which takes a heck of a load of time. So I was all excited becasue I rearranged my schedule!.. I decided that if I wanted piece and quiet at the computer without nagging and yelling I would do it at a time no one can bother me. So I decided...go to sleep at 8-9ish...then wake up super early so I can have time to check emails and chat and all, tthen I have all this time to get dressed, make up, etc..... and by then im off to class. I was doing this for about 3 weeks and it worked like a wonder! I had everything done, plus time for myself!. I was never tired, and was never frustrated or pissed because of people barging in my damn room. Until last night. My stepdad turned off the modem, and I went downstairs to turn it on and then he saw me....he started yelling and said I dont want you on the internet I told him I went to sleep early and he knows this, but no. He disconnected the phone line, the cable, the plug ...everything. Then I asked him what was the big deal...and he said *oh it wastes electricity* which was bullshit because I called comcast and it wastes near to nothing. Then he said it was because he wanted me to sleep...which is BS again because I slept my 8 hours. Then he said it was because hes 47 and he knows what people do on the internet.... Which is another load of bull crap because 1) Im an adult , I know what porn, and sex is...and if you want that you can find that any time of day. not just night. And its non of his beeswax if im talking to nuns or watching porn. So the one thing I finally fixed in my life ...my damn fucking schedule. Is ruined becauase *he* doesnt want the internet on...for whatever his fucking complex is.I really dont get it. How can I convince him to let me keep the internet without bullshit excuses? more

Open Question: How do I quickly go into adult entertainment?

I need money, we literally only have $14 left after paying rent and a $40 food stamp card for three people and our pets. I do a webcam thing but there's no internet at the house (can't afford it lol) and it's not like I can go to the coffee shop and use their wifi. So how do I go about doing legitimate videos and pics for some money? And yeah we've all tried to get jobs and we're not going to stop trying. We do call the places we apply to frequently and stay on top of things. It's just that no one is really hiring in the area and I don't have experience outside of volunteer jobs. So I need advice on how to get into the adult entertainment industry quickly. I don't care if it's sleazy, I need money. Go ahead and blast me with your moral babble if you feel the need to (heads up; you'll most likely get a nasty email in return), but the point is I don't mind it and I don't have a problem doing it if it puts food on the table and keeps the electric on till I can find a more decent job. I'm looking to do this the right way without getting screwed over or put in danger...so help me please, advise me. By the way, yes I am 18 and no I will NOT send test pics to you. more

Resolved Question: How can I get my ex-affair partner (webcam affair only) to apologize to me for using me?

Please let me know what you think. In a nutshell - me: from NYC, aged 30 Husband: dotes on me. Same age. We also work together Other man: 29, travelling musician His wife: Newly-arrived in the US from Europe, aged 28. I basically had a web-based affair with a travelling musician for a few months last year, 2009. I met him on Facebook and we swapped email addresses and before we knew it, we were having webcam-fun. We did this when my husband had gone to sleep, and the other guy was always travelling so he did not need to hide anything as was alone always. Mainly I would dance for him wearing lingerie on webcam. I know his wife would never do this kind of thing for him, and it was just fun. He used to respond by, well, showing me how pleased he was, on webcam. We did also talk about general stuff too, though. By summer 2009 he had cut me off wordlessly, and this infuriated me - so I had a friend in the UK send him revenge packages. I got his address from the White Pages and also from Twitter, as it shows people's locations. I had my friend send him suggestive photos of me (with my head not in the shot) to his wife so she'd know he was having an affair. No reaction. I never met up with this guy in person. All webcam. I then tried very, very hard to get him to break his silence, Fall 2009 - I sent hundreds of flirty texts, but he ignored each and every one. I then became obsessed with his Twitter account, and would watch to see what women he was talking to on them. There was one woman in particular, and I hacked into this guy's email account and then framed her for doing so. I finally confessed the web-fun to my husband while on holiday at Xmas. He was fine about it and supportive. In fact he told me he thought the guy sounded "very much in love" with me! I missed the web guy however.... and to my delight, received an email in December from him. I then contacted him on the back of this, but he told me it was simply an auto-email which sent to ALL his address book, and to "go away, Gina". This infuriated me so much that I called his wife there and then and told her all about the web fun. She chose to stay with him, and sighed and told me "he always does this!" which maddened me. I then became obsessed with showing her what her hubby is like, and had my friend send her more "naked packages". Looking at his Twitter recently, he still seems happily married. Maybe she realised it was me pulling a prank. Who knows. I then asked my friend to send him and his wife yet another anon sex package, and this time she refused and told me she'd grown up and moved on, and so I told her to never contact me again. I recently found a photo of him and his wife on Facebook last week and they looked so happy and I am livid! How dare he carry on happily with her when he's cut me off? I showed the photo to my husband who said to me "do not assume they are happy from a photo - of course he misses you!" Why is this man ignoring me and how can I get him to say sorry for cutting me off last year? Why does his wife stay?? more

Resolved Question: Who else has had trouble trying to "rehome" pets on Craigslist?

I had 2 stray cats come to my house and both had babies. I was trying to "rehome" them to the people on Craigslist who claim to be such avid animal lovers, but the only thing I got was a bunch of attitude and spam. Who else has had problems from trying to find new homes for their pets on CL? Was I being unreasonable to want to know what kind of home my kittens were going to? I thought I was beong responsible by not letting people come over and take them the day they emailed me, but to get to know what kind of home they would be going to first. But the "animal lovers" on there just seemed to want to take them and run basically. It really bothers me, and I'm never going to use CL again, esp not to rehome any animals, but I was just wondering if anyone else has problems w/ this.I said they "claim" to be such avid animal lovers. I definitely know that some people are on there for bad reasons and there is spam, I even said that I received spam mail. more

Resolved Question: This has seriously all happend to me at my past jobs, tell me if its me or if its the girls?

I ended up moving to North Dakota back in 2007, I ended up moving with my sister and her husband in grand forks north dakota, when i got situated the first job that i had was at bath n body works, the training was bad, didn't train my right but i was working with a bunch of girls, when i started working there i was being bullied about where to stand, about how i talk to people and made fun of my of my religion etc, I ended up walking out of the job bc the girl was baptist and was mocking that I was turning into becoming catholic. So, i walked out of that job and ended up finding another job at hugo's which was a grocery store that was local in grand forks North Dakota, when i worked there i was surrounded by a bunch of druggies, people who were local and i wasn't at all. Well, the Manager Sharon always nick picked on the way I dressed, lied about be having full time and started pushing me out bc I was helping one of the girls crying, she was pregnant and about to have a baby. I was compassionate to the associates and they didn't like that i was towards them at all, So I ended up quiting that job bc they lied about me having full time hrs and was working only part time status. I ended finding a job at old navy, the people that worked there new the people at hugos bc its a small town, when i worked at old navy they didn't wanna train me right on the register at all, always locked me up in the fitting room, never let me on the sales floor at all. My hrs were being cut bc I wasn't making any old navy cards but I was only working an hr shift and the people from manitoba canada would come down, the card never implied to them at all, they were bullying me at that job and making fun of my email address and finding reasons to be mean to me, i then was working at menards in the garden center and the girls, one specific name vonnie had a problem with me and would boss me around, harass me an try to get me fired. When i first started working there they didn't train me right or gave me my packet to start work and all the plants died bc I never got it until later down the season, the people never wanted to talk to me and found reasons to harass me for whatever it may be. I would get yelled at to do one thing, then get yelled at from another person to do another thing, but I'm only one person I can't do.. one thing and then get mad at me for doing something else. Anyways, i couldn't pay rent so I ended up moving back to minnesota an living with my parents, I think was jobless for about a yr and then.. applied at charlotte russe and I was the top sales associate working there during the holiday in a 4 hr shift, i then started getting cut from the girls i worked with, I wasnt included in that group, they would ask my stupid questions like.. what would you think if I wore this angela, would you judge me at all? I said no.. I don't care about how people dress, it's the personality that counts really. And they would just laugh at me for it bc I'm not superficial about how people dress or act as long as they treat me with respect, anyways.. I ended up having this job now at A & W and my manager is friends with the store manager at pac sun, they have been cutting my hrs and messing with me as well, the girls are just mean to me for no reason at all. I keep thinking to myself am I selfish, what am I doing wrong, am I not finishing what I'm suppose to do or maybe I'm just depressed and insecure of what to do bc people keep telling me to do one thing and then do another thing at a time. Can you give me advice, is it me or is it the girls?it's 2010 and I'm still having issues at work. more

Open Question: Threatning emails after filing lawsuit?

After a dispute over eBay with a fraudulent seller I filed a lawsuit to recover the money I spent. Now I'm getting threatening emails by the seller with his name on them to my gmail, my professional membership email account and to my office email account (obviously he has googled or used linkedin to find these information as I know for a fact I didn't provide the office & professional body email addresses). And it says "I know where you live, I have your house address and I'm going to deal with you unless you take the lawsuit off" under UK laws and regulations what are my rights? After searching about email threats on Internet I can see from peoples reviews and experiences that the UK police is not helpful - correct me if I'm wrong as I have based my opinion simply on what I have read online.Thank you all for the support and the information, I wish I could pick everyone of you as the best answer :) as most of you suggested I'm not going to respond to any of these emails, the deadline for the defendant to respond to the court is on the 16th of sep 2010 and I'm going to take all these evidence with me. And I do have a msg that was sent from this ebayer clearly indicating that he doesn't give a darn about the legislations that ate in place to protect consumer rights in UK (act of goods 1979) I'm sure after all the 50 pages of extortion, many evidence of breach of contract and now these threats I'm in a comfortable position to argue my case. I don't have a solicitor n as most of you said in US the law favors people in need faster than in UK. Here they consider many aspects of human rights and alot of paper work before enforcing a protective order. Again thanks everyone for all the answers :) more

Open Question: He doesn't trust me, is he right ?

hi everyone... as i am left with no option, i may find help in some people from this community... some background; i have been with my boyfriend for one year and some months, he was the first guy i've dated, and was honest with him all the way, i told him that in my past years i used to lie to people about my life, i was one of those people who stayed at home without going out only if it's necessary, i talked to a lot of people on-line, and never been honest in my life , after being with him i decided to be honest with him from the start. he trusted me, and so did i. But in a time, he logged to my emails, and checked through , and fond out about things ! some people i used to talk with, and lie to before knowing him, and about my previous boss who wanted to molest me i kept that boss part secret from him because i was afraid and disgusted with my own self , nothing happened, but only thinking that he tried make me wants to take a suicide... When my boyfriend discovered all those emails... He treated me of bitch, liar, filthy, and that i disgusted by me... I had a close friendly relationship with a guy, when he found out about this too, he became mad, and decided to break up, and told me that he doesn't have any feelings for me anymore... i begged him to let me a chance to explain, i don't know what to say to him now, he supposedly accepted to let me a chance, but keeps hurting me, as if i've slept with the whole world, he told me it will be hard for him to trust me again, but now what im looking for is a way to make him trust me again, i didn't do anything wrong , i was fully faithful to him, people from work wanted to make me fall for them , but i've never let them do it for the sake of my love for him. Guys, what should i do to make him trust me again? how can i make him love me again? those are the words of someone who is in love, that can't leave with the other part... thanks. more

Open Question: Overcoming an obsessive crush?

I have an unrequited crush on a girl that has recently crossed over into obsession. I check my email 30 times a day to see if she has sent me a message on Facebook. I think about her all the time. I even feel sick to my stomach in the evenings because I'm so heartsick for her. She has told me that she finds me very attractive but is only interested in friendship. So my chances of transforming things into romance are very low, although not non-existent. I hold onto this small hope which has made it difficult to move on. Does anyone know of any strategies for dealing with unrequited love? Do you know of any resources for people dealing with heartbreak? Have you ever been told by someone that they are only interested in friendship but finally have it turn into something more? more

Open Question: I lost my mother as a child (7 years old) - and I find myself incapable of relationships - is this common?

I lost my mother as a child at 7 years old (almost 8) and did not have any immediate or any real problems growing up but lots of problems have arisen as an adult. I get very impatient when I click with a friend very quickly and I don't get their full attention. I get really emotional and write them extremely mean emails and texts and voicemails, telling them to go eff themselves if they don't want to be my friend. Same with the romantic relationships I've attempted. After just a few dates (sometimes not even that!) - if I don't hear back from them after I feel that I've been so considerate and stayed in touch with them on a consistent basis, I get very, very hurt very easily and almost uncontrollably try to end it right then and there and curse them out to get a reaction from them and they say goodbye and I feel like committing suicide for having caused the end of what could have been a nice relationship or at least friend. Can anyone explain this? I was in therapy for 4 years and quit but I still can't get my head around this mentality. I also was bullied by my sister and I feel like people get jealous when I get praise and feel very uncomfortable when people do put the spotlight on me. more

Open Question: Should a lesbian date a rich, straight guy because she's lonely?

My friend keeps getting emails from this guy who's a lawyer and straight. He's 32 and she's 28. She isn't attracted to him, but he is very nice and seems to really like her. I cannot imagine he hasn't figured out she's lesbian yet. She is considered "butch" by a lot of people. Anyway, she said she can't do it (go out with him), but my other friend says she should consider it because she's broke, lonely and hasn't had any luck with women. The fact that she's lesbian shouldn't be an issue my friend says. Sex is sex. Love is nice, but if you can't find it, go with someone who is nice, caring and so on and love might grow. Sex with a guy isn't that different than sex with a woman my friend says. It's just a date anyway, not a marriage proposal at this stage. What do you all think? Should she go out with him? more

Open Question: My husband is battling his recent employer for unemployment, does his case have any merit or should he give up?

My husband was fired from GameStop for "misconduct" by violating a company policy involving managers and meal breaks. He didn't understand that a manager needed to be working on the payroll at all times, even during their lunch break. What he WAS doing was having managers clock out (even himself) for their lunch break and take a 30 minute unpaid break in the backroom while doing nothing except answering questions if the non-managerial people needed a question answered. But it's really ALOT more complicated than that.... Please don't answer until you digest it all. My husband worked for EBGames from 2003 to 2005 and they had their own meal policy; they just paid EVERYONE for their lunch In 2005 GameStop and EBGames merged. My husband was given a new district manager because the company territories were overlapped and his new boss didn't like my husband since had a lot of questions. As far as the company's documents to answer these questions, for the entire year of 2005 the policy manuals were being updated because they didn't know what the "new" company's policy would be so they went off whatever was in the store already. In 2006, they began to ship new policy and procedure manuals to stores but training modules and checklists were not implemented for current employees, only new ones. Also, my husband's boss appointed a "newly promoted area manager" to oversee my husband because he was getting on his boss's nerves. Shortly after him getting promoted, this new boss (which served as an unsupervised middleman for the district manager), trained my husband on how to have better time management and he introduced to my husband "unpaid meal breaks". He didn't give a lot of detail, perhaps because he thought it was the same at EBGames since he kept asking "I don't know if you did things the same with EB but _____" with other things. So he assumed that ALL employees, even managers and himself, were required to take unpaid lunches under the new policy. He showed his schedule to the area manager and asked if it looked correct but the area manager glanced at it and never mentioned that he was breaking the policy. Before the Xmas of 2008, his "area manager" was promoted to district manager and the boss that he didn't get along with became his direct boss again. The first thing she said to him was "I don't want any more emails, you're my highest paid manager and one of my longest tenured, you should know your job by now" but at this point, he only knew what the newly promoted Area Manager thought he didn't know already. Up to this point, he thought he was a great manager because he scored extremely high performance reviews and high pay increases. After the district manager took over, she made it a vendetta to get rid of my husband and wrote him up for everything she could. Possibly because he was making $21 per hour and most store managers made $14. In July of 2009, my husband hired an assistant manager who worked at Blockbuster as the Store Manager there. He asked a lot of questions and wasn't interested in following ANY of the rules. One day he questioned the meal break policy that my husband was enforcing because at Blockbuster they paid their managers during their lunch. My husband explained to this employee that he's been doing it this way for years and he just needed to abide by it. In March of 2010, this employee had been fighting my husband left and right about his job duties and was on the edge of getting terminated himself. Finally, after 8 months of doing his position, he opened the policy manual and started reading it extremely heavily. He found a policy in the handbook that said "Assistant Store Managers and Senior Game Advisors (management personnel) who are required to remain in the store during their meal period to provide supervisor coverage will be paid for their time and should not clock in or out for the meal period)". My husband had been doing it wrong all this time and the assistant manager wanted his money; so my husband ordered him to email the district manager and explain the situation since my husband knew the assistant manager was right and deserved this money. My husband knew that the district manager would fire him so he made no effort to try to talk to his boss about the matter because he knew, through previous experience, that once her mind is made, it's made. In April of 2010, he was terminated for violating this policy. He didn't even get a chance to say his side of the story, but from the sounds of things, it wouldn't of made a difference because he was with the combined companies for 8 years and everyone assumed he read the handbook since he was forced to sign saying he did. He's been claiming unemployment after he fought with the unemployment agency but GameStop took him to court and he lost his hHe's been claiming unemployment after he fought with the unemployment agency but GameStop took him to court and he lost his hearing. Now he's trying to request a re-hearing to provide all the details above. But what are the odds he will win the case???Even though it was just a complete misunderstand? There checks and balances in place. District managers and Area managers were required to sign off on the time sheets that had the hours worked on it including their meal breaks, shouldn't the upper management be held accountable for not catching it sooner?If you are a lawyer or attorney, please note that you are because so far it only looks like people with opinions. more

Open Question: Interested in investing in art? Please see my profile. Feel free to email me.?

I am a manager for an Art Gallery called Coastal Galleries (Coastalgalleries.co.uk) We have three large galleries based in Swansea and the South Wales area. I am an experienced dealer who offers detailed advice on various artists throughout the UK and Worldwide. I also offer specialised advice on those who wish to purchase art for the purpose of investment. With the property market being very unstable considering the current economic climate more and more people are investing in art. With the right guidance in purchasing the right art you will be guaranteed that your investment will increase year by year. All our art is authentic and sourced direct from a reputable publishing company and I can guarantee you will not find prices anywhere cheaper in the UK. OUR SERVICES ARE SECOND TO NONE! PLEASE FEEL FREE TO EMAIL ME AND I WILL BE GLAD TO HELP. I CAN THEN EMAIL YOU IN MORE DETAIL REGARDING MY SERVICES more

Open Question: I wrote this letter to my local industrial relations officer, but I have had no reply! Can anyone advise?

Dear whomever it may concern, My name is *************. You may recall that I recently had a meeting with your department regarding my treatment from the brewery over a ludicrous stock takers deficit involving lemonade/lime and various other obscure items. I was advised by Mr. ******* from your department to write a detailed letter to the companies managing director, which you will find attached with this email, this letter was responded two weeks after it was sent and that response was delayed further due to the m.d going on holiday, the brewery are still to resolve the situation regarding my final written warning and have said that they will come to a decision in two weeks time. The brewery have agreed that due to my partner having a child, and the living accomodation being too small (2 bedroom bed-sit housing myself, *****, and *****(9) and ****** (7) sharing) that it would be viable for The *** pub to be used as a "lock-up" pub, meaning opening and shutting whilst living of-site. However when I requested that my salary be adjusted due to rent requirements and general bills and overheads they said that an increase would be impossible and as quoted in my letter "it is not the companies fault that we are having a child", I currently earn £270 a week. My rent is £1000 a month. Due to a busy period last week I kept a constant "stop-start" clock to adjudge my performance against my wage and it worked out at £2.17 an hour. The company refuse to adjust this income but expect my continuance as manager of this busy outlet. May I please request further advice regarding this matter as my rent is now due for the start of our lease, the company have delayed my certainty of employment and refused to agree to a meeting regarding a reasonable figure to manage their outlet. The communication from the m.d has stalled and I am due to have another stock-take this Thursday(which i have requested be put back till after the disciplinary appeal has been finalised) meaning, if i was to have another "rogue" deficit I could be legitimately dissmissed. Further still regarding the "impossibility" of my salary adjustment, A manager of **** shops, which is co-owed by the company working 6 days a week and closing at 9pm (not 12am everyday!) recieves £398 a week. I have been made aware of this due to the companies lack of diligence in sending this persons salary details to my outlet amongs all of my staffs' pay-slips. I don't know what else I can do and I have endeavoured to contact all the relevant people within the breweries organisation, however response and correspondance has been sparce. I have all dates, sent and recieved. I have all payslips noting my meagre income. Any advice you may have would be of great help. Thank you for taking the time to read this, Best regards, (The attached letter is available if you have any ideas to assist me with any direction I can take this situation.) more

Resolved Question: Do most people that cheat and are left by their significant other; realize what they've lost and change?

Please do not judge me!! My EX and I met in 2006 and at the time he was in a relationship that was pretty much going through a lot of bad. We were just friends for about 3 months and then feelings started getting involved and one thing led to another. We started seeing each other on a different level despite of his gf AND I know I was wrong or we know we were wrong. Now after 2 years he left her and came with me; which didn’t last long because he just jumped from one relationship to another. He cheated on me with her so I left him. After months of him apologizing and saying he realized what a HUGE mistake he made, we agreed to try again; this was in August of 2008. We lived together for 2 years and it was always an issue of him lying about different girls; these were old friends but still, why lie?. Anyway after 2 years and so many incidents I didn’t trust and decided to go in his phone. Well I found some pictures and emails from him and a girl from face book that I felt like he was talking to. I asked him many times was he and of course he denied it. Well I decided to pack my things and take him and my son away from this mess. I was tired. We had been talking about marriage and all. He has 3 beautiful daughters and I love them the same as I love my son. In the mean time of me packing and looking for a place, my ex decided to cuss my son out for defending himself when his daughter hit him. Well that made my move a little quicker. I left a week ago and after a week of not talking to him and seeing him I realize how much I miss him. I got weak yesterday and went to see him and I know that was a big mistake. We had been going back in forth about me needing time to heal and also my son and that I didn’t want to be with him at this time. I am just wondering if God can change a person who has such a problem??? I want my family back. I miss them so much. But I know I must heal and not go in the same way I left and also that my son has to heal as well. I also know that we both must walk with God for a change to be done and stay that way if we want this to work, we both were raised Christians but have both backed away for different reasons; Any opinions??? *** Before I left my mom kept telling me that I would have to leave for him to change*** Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this before...I was thinking me leaving him after all these years will give him reason to change? more

Open Question: How to turn on real ID? (starcraft 2)?

I know it seems like it's obvious, but i can't find the option anywhere! And it's not letting me add people by putting in their email or through facebook, only their character code;everything but character code are grayed out more

Open Question: My boss made me feel terrible and I want to quit?

I've been working at my friend's donut trailer for 3 years and tonight my boss gave me a pep talk for half an hour about how I was giving 'death glares' when I was asked to clean and how I was just standing around waiting for someone to tell me something to do. It made me feel so bad I was balling my eyes out when I got through the front door and I don't think this is entirely fair. We work long hours (6-12 hours) and by the end of the day, everyone is grumpy because we haven't eaten much and we get told to clean everything and do stuff we don't want to do. I realize this is part of the job and I don't try to show how I feel, but I have a terrible poker face and I didn't realize I had been making such a face. I just try to do what I'm told. As for standing around, I try to find something to do, even the smallest things, and sometimes I can't find anything to do because it's already been done or there are enough people in the trailer already that it can be left. Why would he wait until today to tell me all of this? And he told me about some other girls, one who was apparently sitting around watching and not doing anything, and another who was extremely pissed off one day when she was asked to clean. So it's not just me right? Do you think my boss has told other girls I work with that they are doing this? I was going to quit after next week but now I want to email him and quit right now. But that would look like I just quit because he gave me criticism which is not what I intended. Since this is my first job, he is the only reference I can give from a past employer and would he tell them that I am not 100% reliable and that I don't try my hardest? I'm so lost as to what to do... Should I just bite my tongue and work this coming weekend and try to do my best and then quit?The season is almost over and I need a recommendation letter for my portfolio to graduate. I'm not going to smile at the end of the day when I'm too tired to care but I thought I was just giving a straight face.He hasn't asked me to quit, so I will try to work next weekend and stay as positive as I can when asked to do tasks and try to find stuff to do. If not, I'll talk to my boss and take it from there. more

Open Question: What do i do? I need some advice about a girl?

So im a freshmen in college, Just kinda started and for my first class i meet this wonderful girl named Natalie. I don't know what i have for her but i always think about her, everywhere i go, and even when im in class. She is just so nice and on top of that she is extremely cute. So the first time i actually started talking to her was when i saw her at the library by herself she said she had to do the class homework and i asked her hey do you want to work together on it and she said sure. When we found a room that was not taken and quite we go in. We start talking for awhile about everything, and what really gets me is that she says " she went to the college because she liked the diversity it has", i know even though she didn't say it she comes from a rich family. She is half German and i am hispanic. Eventually she leaves because she had to make a phone call to her mom and she tells me when we were talking that i should join choir and i told her i would think about it (eventually i went Lol). Then one day we had a test in class, i decided to make a study group not many came but she did. She sat next to me and she talked to all the people that came the same way she talked to me. Once we end the group study i tell her hey if you want to you can email me if you have any questions or anything, She says " Sure" a couple seconds later she asks " do i have your number?"... i give it to her and i text her but she doesnt answer. She is known for not answering her texts. But what i dont understand is, is she just being nice to me or is she interested in me?. i dont want to make a move knowing that she is not it will just turn out to be a disaster. The other day she answered to one of a my texts and i eventually said " i like it better when your smiling" she never responded back after that. more

Open Question: Megan Meier RIP She shouldn't had commit suicide over a teenage boy she never met on Myspace?

Hey guys I just find out about Megan Meier's suicide that happened in 2006, and I have been doing some research on it and I realized both parents are at fault: Mrs. Meier's fault: 1): She should have canceled her Myspace account no matter what her daughter wanted. If you found out your daughter was being cyberbullied and tells you that it happened on Myspace/Facebook you cancel the account the minute you find out about whether your daughter wanted it or not. Lori Drew's fault: If Lori found out that her daughter was being harassed by Megan and wanted to find out about it you ask Megan's mother or you ask Megan herself you don't impersonate a non existent teenager and ask Megan out. Just ask Megan or her mother. I feel sad for Megan and I know that she was young but she shouldn't had been on Myspace until she was 18 years old so she'd be able to handle the criticism and feedback. It's also stupid to commit suicide over a email on Myspace and over a person YOU'VE NEVER EVEN MET IN THE FIRST PLACE! If that teenager was bullying you online you cancel your account right away! So all three people are at fault. RIP Megan. Hope Heaven keeps you in safe. I don't condone what Lori Drew did but Megan Meier's mother should not had allowed this cyber bullying to continue on. more

Open Question: How could I contact the writer's of "Doctor Who"?

I have come up with an idea for a rather interesting episode of Doctor Who, and would like to send it to the writer's, specifically Steven Moffat or maybe Russel T. Davies as I believe it has potential. Does anybody have any Idea as to how I could do this? I tried Twitter, and that doesn't seem to work. I Googled many a' time, to no avail. I attempted to contact the BBC, but they have no real email address either. In the BBC's "Commission" section it seems that there is no actual way to submit, just read about submitting. Please, please, please answer ASAP, as I've been working at this for days, and have almost lost hope. Anyway, here's my episode idea. The Doctor and Amy are in the TARDIS when Amy expresses a desire to visit her family, as she is homesick. After a bit of banter, the Doctor complies. As he is attempting to go to Scotland (that is where she's from, right?) the TARDIS is thrown off course and crashes near Cardiff. The Doctor and Amy step out to notice an Italian looking area, with traditional Renaissance architecture and people dressed in Renaissance style clothing. Bewildered, the Doctor can't believe how far off course he's landed. They soon find out however that he got the year right, and they have simply crased in a Renaissance Faire. After enjoying themselves for a bit, they notice that some of the people seem to be taking the whole Renaissance Faire thing a little too seriously. They seem to be in a sort of flux. People are not responding to normal mannerisms, they don't answer to their real names, the people dressed as peasant's are acting like petty thieves, etc.However, they aren't always acting like this. They soon see a hanging taking place for the act of stealing a loaf of bread, which the Doctor interferes with, and then is chased off by an angry mob for. Shocked and confused, Amy and 11 soon encounter none other than Captain Jack Harkness, attending the Renissance Faire, has noticed these strange event's himself.Captain Jack and The Doctor come to the conclusion that the Cardiff Rift is the cause for these, and that time is getting confused, twisted, and mixed up. The remainder of the episode would consist of Amy, The Doctor, and Jack trying to patch up time, all the while having to deal with angry villagers. But near the end, Jack OR Amy (or maybe The Doctor) would start believing they were from the renaissance, just to add a nice sub-plot to the whole thing. The episode would end with a triumphant scene, thn Captain Jack saying goodbyes, returning to TorchWood, and The Doctor Amy returning to the Tardis. So, how can I get this to the writers? And be sure to leave feedback for this!!! more

Voting Question: how do you know when your marriage has no chance?

I am 26 my husband is 30,we have two kids 5 and 2,and over the years,we have had a good and bad relationship,we have been married for 3 years,and together for 8 years,3 years into our relationship,some lady by the name of monica sent text messages saying,"are you mad at me about something?what we did?"...so I assumed there was something up there so I called and she said her and him were together and had been having s**,he to this day denies,having any type of relationship like that,( this was while I was pregnant with our first child)and he was away in peurto rico and I was in fla. 3 MORE years later,he gets trashed and goes home with some chick from the bar and sleeps at her house til 5 am(this is while I am 8 months pregnant with the second child)....denies ever doing ANYTHING but smoking with her. Now,it is 2 years later and I found out he had been looking online for discrete s** from women in our area,he also denies ANYTHING ever happening with that besides just the emails,admittingly he says he did it and screwwed up,and has also admitted to taking his ring off at work while dealing with attractive women in furniture sales,and has admitted to flirting quite a bit with coworkers ect.... NOW I am here and I dont feel it anymore=(...I feel like there has been to much damage done to repair our relationship and our marriage=/ I have never in my life wanted to LOVE someone this bad,I find myself up through the night crying at times cause the only two people I am worried about through this all is my two boys.I know that if i decide this is it then my husband will go all the way to mich.far away from his boys,I dont know what to do,please give me some wellll needed advice here I have never felt this way before. thank you so much everyone....how am I suppose to believe he is a changed man? and how do I make myself Love him for my kids sake if anything? or should I just take the chance and move on? more

Voting Question: Received scam email, but thought that as long as I don't have to give bank details, they can't do anything.?

Can they do anything harmful with your personal details, I replied to the following form? Yahoo Awards Center From The Desk Of The Promotions Manager International Promotions/Yahoo Award Center 124 Stockport Road, Long sight, Manchester M60 2DB - United Kingdom This is to inform you that you have won a prize money of Four Hundred, Twenty Thousand Pounds(£420,000,00.) for the month of July/August 2010, Prize promotion which is organized by YAHOO AWARDS & WINDOWS LIVE.YAHOO/GMAIL collects all the email addresses of the people that are active online, among the millions that subscribed to Yahoo and Hotmail and few from other e-mail providers. Six people are selected monthly to benefit from this promotion and you are one of the Selected Winners. PAYMENT OF PRIZE AND CLAIM Winners shall be paid in accordance with his/her Settlement Centre. Yahoo Prize Award must be claimed no later than 15 days from date of Draw Notification. Any prize not claimed within this period will be forfeited.Stated below are your identification numbers: BATCH NUMBER: MFI/06/ASA-778658 REFERENCE NUMBER: 2009244533 PIN: 1291 These numbers fall within the England Location file, you are requested to contact our fiduciary agent in London and send your winning identification numbers to him; Below you will find a Documentation Form, requesting you're required Particulars. YAHOO ONLINE DOCUMENTATION FORM FULL NAMES:__________________________________ ADDRESS: _________________________________________________CITY:_________________________ STATE:__________________________________ ZIP: _____________________ PHONE:/FAX__________________________________ COUNTRY________________________________ SEX:_______________ AGE:__________________ MARITAL STATUS: _________________ OCCUPATION: ________________________ E-MAIL ADDRESS: _____________________________ NATIONALITY_________________________ You are required to fill and submit the above particulars to our Overseas Claims/United Kingdom Payment Unit with the below email address. Overseas Claims/Exchange Online Payment Unit Contact Person: Name: Peter Smith Email: petersmith116@hotmail.com CONGRATULATIONS!!! At your disposal, I remain. Yours in service, Dr. (Mrs.) Amanda Ford. ------------------------------------------------------------------- WARNING! Do not tell people about your Prize Award until your money is successful handed over to you to avoid disqualification that may arise from double claim. You may also receive similar e-mails from people portraying to be other Organizations or Yahoo Inc. This is solely to collect your personal information from you and lay claim over your winning. In event that you receive any e-mail similar to the notification letter that was sent to you, kindly delete it from your mail box and give no further correspondence to such person or body. Yahoo shall not be held responsible for any loss of fund arising from the above mentioned. more

Voting Question: chance of being pregnant? anyone else had this? advice please.?

for a few months, i've been ill and taken into hospital a few times, with being sick, on the toilet constantly, going all dizzy, not being able to eat, sleeping all day and night, and they'v never found out whats wrong with me. doctors thought i had expected appendicitus (can't spell it sorry) but there was no sign of it. but me and my mum personally think i've got plycystric ovaries, as i've had most signs, and another sign is miscarriage, i've also had that. i am on a fake account, for i don't want people knowing my real identity etc. but if there is someone who would like my email to chat to me on msn, feel free to ask and if i think you are a trusted person, i will accept you and deal with you're advice. i won't say my age, but i am young, i'm in a relationship, and i am ofc having sex like most teens these days, i have had unprotected sex and my boyfriend on several occasions have ejaculated in me, i do use condoms, but as i might have polycystric ovaries, which means theres a slight chance that you can get pregnant, i don't take much of a precaution when it comes to protection - silly i know. about 5 weeks ago, i was feeling sick for through out two weeks. i also lost my food appetite, i am a very good eater, always have been, and its not like me to loose my appetite unless i'm ill. but recently, i've been eating pickled onions out of the jar alot, bacon sandwhiches, and chips with lots of salt and vinegar. i've also had a strong scent, for the past two days, i've been able to smell wimpy burgers and the sweets fruitellas. along with all of this, my boyfriend and myself have realised my boobs have gotten bigger, i've realised they'v become much darker around the nipple area and really itchy! yes i've done a pregnancy test, it had two lines, which does mean positive even though the one line was very faint. i done another four, and they we're negative. my mum knows about this, so does my boyfriend, and a few friends who we're with me at the time when i done the test. my mum said i could be, but she can see me comming on my period soon, as i have been having pains asif i'm on my period, but i haven't come on, and i'd say i'm over a week late, the pains i am having, seem to be on the right side of my body, in my ovaries area, and they sometimes slowly circle up to my stomach, and at some point of the day, it does feel asif my stomach is getting pulled by an alastic band, on some accosions, the pains have been going to the left side of my body and down my inner legs. one of my friends said i could have a phantom pregnancy, is that possible? when i went to the toilet the other morning, i did realise a rather thick greenish looking discharge. can someone please reply to this! i need someone whos good with knowledge, or good with this kinda stuff. yes i am being serious. i'm not someone whos joking around. i'm not exactly sure how to use this site, so if i reply late, i'm sorry. but, is there a chance i could be pregnant? is there a chance this could just be a phantom pregnancy? is there point going to the doctors if my period dosen't come in the next few days? and has anyone else had this expierence before? please reply, i need someone elses opinion! thankyou xxx more

Open Question: Is there any chance this guy likes me or should I just move on?

I don't usually write questions like this, but I'm tired of bouncing it around in my head and could use some other girls' (or even guys') opinions to get some perspective. I know the following explanation will make me sound pathetic, but here goes.. So, I recently returned from studying abroad in Japan where I met this really cute, nice, funny (etc.) guy who I really enjoyed hanging out with. For the most part we were just friendly towards each other but there were things he said that made me start to have feelings for him and wonder if he at all felt the same. When we hung out it was always in the context of our group (club), but within that group we would sometimes get to have one-on-one conversations. For example, I once mentioned that there was a town I'd like to travel to and at first he tried to talk me out of it because it was so far, but then he kept asking me questions and basically said if I cared that much he would look into getting me there (whether he planned to go with me or not, I don't know). That was one of the first things we talked about but even months later he remembered it enough to bring it up and ask if I still wanted to go: it didn't end up working out but that was on my end, not his. Plus, we had so much in common and he just did lots of sweet things, like fanning me with his notebook when it got hot, grabbing my hand to pull me away from some people rushing by, directing me by putting his hands on my shoulders, telling me (on the train) that if I lost my balance I could fall into his shoulder, randomly asking me on the train platform (with our other friends around) if I'd like to dance with him, etc. Of course, as a romance-loving girl, I thought he was being so cute, but everything he did, especially the questions/statements directed towards me were said with a big, laughing smile. Plus, even though I'd like to think otherwise, he was a very social, goofy, talkative, out-going guy and I can't pretend like I didn't see him act this way towards other girls. When I saw him last he found out I hadn't tried X type of Japanese food and was like, "well, we'll have to fix that" and told me he'd text me later about going somewhere to eat. I was thrilled, but got a text a few days later (just days before I left) that there wasn't enough time to go eat since I was leaving so soon (he just assumed, didn't really ask) and apologized that we couldn't go. He said a lot of other nice things in the text and in a "note" he wrote before I left, but honestly they could have just as easily been said by someone who didn't have a crush on me, though I've already found every possible way of reading into everything he wrote :P He cried at my (our, there were a bunch of us) going-away party, but he could have been crying for all of us, or someone besides me, or just because he was eating something with onions in it for all I know. In any case, I hoped I'd be over him by now, but I can't help but still think about him. We're friends on Facebook and he is now studying abroad in China. Should I send him a message/email asking how he's doing, and see if he tries to keep the conversation going? Or should I realize that if he cared he would have contacted me already and that bugging him too much past this point will undermine the friendship that we had? Thanks for reading this, I know it's too long. Partly I just needed to vent :P more

Resolved Question: How can I get my ex-affair partner (webcam affair only) to apologize to me?

Please let me know what you think. In a nutshell - me: from NYC, aged 30 Husband: dotes on me. Same age. We also work together Other man: 29, travelling musician His wife: Newly-arrived in the US from Europe, aged 28. I basically had a web-based affair with this travelling musician for a few months last year, 2009. I met him on Facebook and we swapped email addresses and before we knew it, we were having webcam-fun. We did this when my husband had gone to sleep, and the other guy was always travelling so he did not need to hide anything as was alone always. Mainly I would dance for him wearing lingerie on webcam. I know his wife would never do this kind of thing for him, and it was just fun. He used to respond by, well, showing me how pleased he was, on webcam. By summer 2009 he had cut me off wordlessly, and this infuriated me - so I had a friend in the UK send him revenge packages. I got his address from the White Pages and also from Twitter, as it shows people's locations. I had my friend send him suggestive photos of me (with my head not in the shot) to his wife so she'd know he was having an affair. No reaction. I never met up with this guy in person. All webcam. I then tried very, very hard to get him to break his silence, Fall 2009 - I sent hundreds of flirty texts, but he ignored each and every one. I then became obsessed with his Twitter account, and would watch to see what women he was talking to on them. There was one woman in particular, and I hacked into this guy's email account and then framed her for doing so. I finally confessed the web-fun to my husband while on holiday at Xmas. He was fine about it and supportive. I missed the web guy however and to my delight, received an email in December from him. I then contacted him and he told me it was simply an auto-email which sent to ALL his address book, and to "go away, Gina". This infuriated me so much that I called his wife there and then and told her all about the web fun. She chose to stay with him, and told me "he always does this!" which maddened me. I then became obsessed with showing her what her hubby is like, and had my friend send her more "naked packages". Looking at his Twitter recently, he still seems happily married. Maybe she realised it was me pulling a prank. Who knows. I then asked my friend to send him and his wife yet another anon sex package, and this time she refused, and so I told her to never contact me again. I found a photo of him and his wife on Facebook last week and they looked so happy and I am livid! How dare he carry on happily with her when he's cut me off? I showed the photo to my husband who said to me "do not assume they are happy from a photo - of course he misses you!" Why is this man ignoring me and how can I get him to say sorry for cutting me off last year? Why does his wife stay?? more

Voting Question: Was it a good idea to end this friendship? We were only friends over shared bad experiences over men...?

We are both 30, she is married and I am single and we do not live in the same country. Basically, we both broke up with people at the same time last year (we did not know each other at this point, but we met on a "cheated on" forum, even though she was the cheat in her case). Yes, this means she was having an affair, and the guy she "lost" was some jerk who she briefly had "webcam fun" with, obviously behind her husband's back, and the guy I lost was someone I had dated seriously for 2 years. I did not judge her for having this web-affair as she seemed really remorseful. We became very close and our emails talked about everything under the sun. When we both started to feel better some 9 or 10 months on, she started suggesting to me that she avenge my ex, from where she lives. I asked why and she said it would be fun, and she'd love to bring down a cheating man like my ex. She did just that, on my "behalf". There is no proof I am involved, but she basically sent letters of accusation against him, to his work bosses, (eg that he drinks on the job) and made-up proof that he was using his job to pick up women. Nothing happened re his work, as I saw him (very fleetingly) in his uniform, near my office last week, so obviously he had not been sacked. Now, this week, she very abruptly decided she has no need for me in her life anymore - because I told her I was not willing to do the same for her - in return, she wanted me to send naked pics of some random girl she found on Google to her webcam partner's wife (yes he was married, as well as is she), and to write an accompanying saucy note to the poor wife, saying "thank your hubby for the hot time!" Her point was, I would be sending from another country and thus untraceable. But I was scared, and refused, and asked her to instead think about getting over him, as I thought she already was, but she obviously did not like this. She wrote me a very nasty email and then shut her email address. I do feel pretty much over my ex now, and this is, somehow, what she had issues with - she could not get over the guy she had the "affair" with, despite it only being literally a few weeks of webcam fun, and I was getting over my ex nicely, who had tried to return to me many times, and I know this was a sore point for her, as she had tried to contact her "ex" (so, not so sorry after all) and he told her she'd "never existed" to him, and was merely one "ho in a long line of many". I guess this was when she got really vengeful. On one hand, even though she cut ME off when I told her I was almost over my ex, I stil feel bad as she feels I was deserting her by being over my ex, which is really unfair of her. On the other hand, I know she was frustrated that she could not get over her guy, while I was doing well. She always acknowledged that she did not have a relationship with her guy, whereas I clearly did with mine, but I still feel bad about the whole thing. I guess my question is, will the fact we no longer talk (her choice) help me get over my ex even more? She and her emails were the only thing keeping my ex alive in my mind, even though I have only realised this since she cut me off this week.Thanks Willa but actually this is a different slant on when I last asked a similar (not the same) question about this. more

Resolved Question: So this guy I like may or may not be Christian? This is confusing... plz just read!!!?

I just began my second year of college... I was homeschooled and I actually began college when I was seventeen... and during that first year I didn't meet any guy that I really, you know... liked. (I'm quite picky when it comes to guys and I'm a good girl so I tend to ignore it when guys try to get my attention by being... stupid.) Anyway, two classes into this semester I met a cute, smart, funny, kind guy who I made small talk with in the hall and then he came and sat next to me in class and now he talks to me all the time and he asked me for my email address and I gave it to him and he's really nice and I know he'll ask me out soon but I'm a little confused about something... First of all, I found out that this guy was also homeschooled, which is cool, but here is where I'm confused... You see, I was homeschooled, but not for religious reasons (I believe in God AND evolution, if you care to know my personal viewpoint). But it does seem like most homeschooled kids are Christian... and I'm betting that this guy I like and who likes me is a Christian. It's not that I don't like Christians, but what would that mean if we started dating? Would he have marriage on his mind? No kissing until then? Will he not like me when I tell him that I'm not a Christian even though I love God? Is it weird of me to think he's almost being... too nice? I mean, I like nice people, but I'd like to see him mad or have him not say thank you for everything piece of paper or pencil I hand him. Does this make sense? And this part doesn't matter much, but the first few times I saw him he was dressed like a "normal guy," for lack of better words. But yesterday he was wearing an outdated, conservative shirt, shoes, and jeans that screamed ultra-Christian. Most people would've thought he was a super-nerd, but I've always said that I like nerds... I just never thought I'd consider one to date. I am not a shallow person, but I don't have a lot of experience with guys so I don't know what to make of any of this. Quite frankly, I'm a modern, college-driven, God-loving-but-not-committed-to-a-religi… intelligent, family-oriented, pretty, teenage girl. I might not be describing my question too well, but hopefully you can sense my confusion. Does anyone have some advice that is not cruel, biased, or insulting? Thanks!!! (I really do like the guy for himself and not his clothes, of course.) more

Resolved Question: Offline messages from strangers.?

My profile is hidden. My YIM chat is set to ignore unless on my contact list. Yet, sometimes when I'm checking my email on Yahoo, and I turn my chat status to available.. I'll find I had a number of Offline Messages that had been sent to me from people and groups I have never heard of. How can I prevent offlines from strangers to be sent to my ID.. and more importantly.. how are they getting access to me in the first place if I have taken all the security measures available by keeping my profile hidden and limiting contact by anyone other than those on my contact list? Thanks more

Resolved Question: How to change the name in gtalk ?

I am using gtalk for online chatting. But people doesn't able to know me as gtalk shows by email id as name. I have tried in gmail setting option for changing the name registered in google accounts but it is not changing gtalk name. For Ex- I am having a id wid a name - nikhilaf@gmail.com. gtalk is showing a name - " nikhilaf " not my name I have changed the name also but it is only for mails not for chats. Help me to find the way to change my name in gtalk. more

Resolved Question: I have a question about a guy (may or may not involve Christianity)?

I just began my second year of college... I was homeschooled and I actually began college when I was seventeen... and during that first year I didn't meet any guy that I really, you know... liked. (I'm quite picky when it comes to guys and I'm a good girl so I tend to ignore it when guys try to get my attention by being... stupid.) Anyway, two classes into this semester (a week and a half ago, actually) I met a cute, smart, funny, kind guy who I made small talk with in the hall and then he came and sat next to me in class and now he talks to me all the time and he asked me for my email address and I gave it to him and he's really nice and I know he'll ask me out soon but I'm a little confused about something... First of all, I found out that this guy was also homeschooled, which is cool, but here is where I'm confused... You see, I was homeschooled, but not for religious reasons (I believe in God AND evolution, if you care to know my personal viewpoint). But it does seem like most homeschooled kids are Christian... and I'm betting that this guy I like and who likes me is a Christian. It's not that I don't like Christians, but what would that mean if we started dating? Would he have marriage on his mind? No kissing until then? Will he not like me when I tell him that I'm not a Christian even though I love God? Is that why he's almost... too nice? And this part doesn't matter much, but the first few times I saw him he was dressed like a "normal guy," for lack of better words. But yesterday he was wearing an outdated, conservative shirt, shoes, and jeans that screamed ultra-Christian. Most people would've thought he was a super-nerd, but I've always said that I like nerds... I just never thought I'd consider one to date. I am not a shallow person, but I don't have a lot of experience with guys so I don't know what to make of any of this. Quite frankly, I'm a modern, college-driven, God-loving-but-not-committed-to-a-religion, intelligent, family-oriented, pretty, teenage girl. I might not be describing my question too well, but hopefully you can sense my confusion. Does anyone have some advice that is not cruel, biased, or insulting? Thanks!!! (I really do like the guy for himself and not his clothes, of course.) more

Resolved Question: what will the police do?

ok so i have finally got out of my 2 and a half year mentally abusive relationship. the last straw for me was when he locked me in his flat. it was about 3 weeks ago we broke up. and now he is sending me abusive and threatening emails. i started seeing another boy just as friends and i told someone and now it has got back to him and he is tellin people that me and this boy are sleeping together. not only that but he is threatenin me and the boy. now the other boy wont talk to me. the emails are getting worse and the one he sent today said when i find you i am going to hurt you. you probably think i wont lmao u wiat and see i will wait outside for hours. i will find you before the 18 september. i hope you and **** do get together because he will be eating through a tube. 1000% i am going to smash your teeth in. send me to jail i dont care anymore i am going to fuck you both up you dirty skett. you wait till i find you. i hope he was worth it. right i have blocked out the boys name for obv reasons. and i am also going to uni on 18th so thats what he meant by that. i want to go to the police about it but my parents think i should wait and see what happens coz he could be all talk and jus angry. but i am rather scared if im honest. my parents are woried involving the police could make the situation worse if they choose not to do anything major. so im asking does anyone know what the police would do in this situation? i have evidence of more emails and threatenin voicemails. thanksCarswood Thank you for your comment although i have to disagree. All i can say is god help us if you really are a police officer in the UK. more

Voting Question: Copyright Infringement - Software Piracy Questions?

Hey Guys, I have a few concerns and questions that I need answered. I have Googled the laws extensively but would like some human perspective. I have a friend who downloaded software from Vuze.com. The software is a language software and the torrent he downloaded contained files from a bunch of different languages offered by the company. My friend can burn the files onto a DVD and the DVD can be used on any computer. There is no installation required or anything like that. He has posted the software for sale or trade in various cities on Craigslist.com. Originally he was posting the listings and including the name of the software. Soon after he received a cease and desist letter from company demanding that he remove the listings and stop. After that, my friend decided to post the listings but this time not include the actual name of the company. In the postings he does not write the actual name of the software, but rather posts listings such as "language learning software for sale or trade". Since then he hasn't received anymore notices from the company. Once my friend receives emails from people who are interested he informs them of the name of the software and arranges to mail them the software. He later received payment via mail or PayPal. Like I said, I looked up all the technical legal punishments such as $250,000 fines, etc. I need your input on a few different questions. 1. Does the fact that the name of the software isn't publicly advertised matter at all? 2. How exactly are people usually caught? I've read that the FBI investigates these matters, but is that typical? Are they doing it on their own or are they asked to by the companies? 3. If caught, what is a realistic punishment? I have seen people sent to prison, but in the story I read the defendant had made millions off of the pirated software and had cars, etc. seized. Could you really go to prison? 4. If you are found guilty in civil court and are demanded to pay an astronomical figure in the hundreds of thousands, what do you do? Would you be forced to claim bankruptcy? Are you allowed to claim bankruptcy since theres no practical means for obtaining that kind of money? 5. Would you have any further warnings or would your house just get raided in an attempt to look for evidence? 6. What kind of lawyer would you need to defend yourself and how much would it cost? What could they do to help you? Obviously this is a serious matter and your advice is greatly appreciated. I am aware of the laws and have looked up as much as I can but I value your personal input and would like to hear opinions on what would happen realistically. Thank you for your time.I only reposted this to get some more insight and hopefully some more detailed answers. more

Resolved Question: Will he ever change? Does he care?

I left my boyfriend of 2 years because he attempted to cheat on me. This is after we broke up in early 08 because he did cheat on me. Then I left him but took him back after several months of him apologizing. Now this time I left (it took me 4 months) him I feel depressed and lost. I feel heart broken. This time I found some emails in pictures between him and this girl. The girl said she didn't understand why she was having a hard time deciding whether or not she wanted to sleep with him and he replied "Well what do you want to do?? As far as sex goes you'd have to initiate it. It's not a bad thing but if you want to you HAVE to let me know. I am tired of chasing you". He has been lying from April until yesterday about this email, telling me that he meant initiate them meeting. I told him a long time ago that I was no fool and we both knew what it meant. Out side of this he has lied about some girls he was talking to; putting guy names in his phone to cover it up. This one girl he was talking to which was his old friend, put I love you on his facebook page, so of course I asked him about it. He later went to her and said, “You know she had a problem with you saying I love you on, and the girl replied “we have a history tell her to get over it” and he says I know that what I told her; when he told me how he told her she was so wrong and it was disrespectful. He has taken his children’s mother to work in my car and lied. I was just trying to be nice and let him drive my car since he lost his. He had another inappropriate conversation with a girl. This girl asked him was he still real nasty and he replied “Of course, why what’s on ya mind”. He of course told me it’s not what you think as I told him you just gave her a sex invite. He tried to meet an old girlfriend on some site called tagged. Calling her love saying I’m tryna see you. I mean, really wtf is wrong with me for wanting to give him another chance. We were together 4 years; living together for 2 years. I left him last Friday (it took me 4 months to leave because I had to save money). But, people like him don’t change do they? He keeps texting and emailing saying he knows he ****** up and lost me over some bull **** but he wants to start fresh and I tell him that when I took him back after he cheated before was our lets work it out and start fresh and he messed it up. He sounds so sincere but I am scared as hell. Like if I leave him hanging how I will know but if I give him another chance and get hurt; all the pain is just too much to even think about. The only reason we’re still talking is because he owes me $538 and I need money to help me move outa my mother’s house. After he pays my on the 16th I am changing my number. he'll be paying by western union so I don't have to see him. I think my fear of him hurting me for a third time is too strong for me to try again; but I want to for some dumb reason. more

Resolved Question: Okay, I left him so why am I feeling this way? It's not supposed to be like this, is it?

I left my boyfriend of 2 years because he attempted to cheat on me. This is after we broke up in early 08 because he did cheat on me. Then I left him but took him back after several months of him apologizing. Now this time I left (it took me 4 months) him I feel depressed and lost. I feel heart broken. This time I found some emails in pictures between him and this girl. The girl said she didn't understand why she was having a hard time deciding whether or not she wanted to sleep with him and he replied "Well what do you want to do?? As far as sex goes you'd have to initiate it. It's not a bad thing but if you want to you HAVE to let me know. I am tired of chasing you". He has been lying from April until yesterday about this email, telling me that he meant initiate them meeting. I told him a long time ago that I was no fool and we both knew what it meant. Out side of this he has lied about some girls he was talking to; putting guy names in his phone to cover it up. This one girl he was talking to which was his old friend, put I love you on his facebook page, so of course I asked him about it. He later went to her and said, “You know she had a problem with you saying I love you on, and the girl replied “we have a history tell her to get over it” and he says I know that what I told her; when he told me how he told her she was so wrong and it was disrespectful. He has taken his children’s mother to work in my car and lied. I was just trying to be nice and let him drive my car since he lost his. He had another inappropriate conversation with a girl. This girl asked him was he still real nasty and he replied “Of course, why what’s on ya mind”. He of course told me it’s not what you think as I told him you just gave her a sex invite. He tried to meet an old girlfriend on some site called tagged. Calling her love saying I’m tryna see you. I mean, really wtf is wrong with me for wanting to give him another chance. We were together 4 years; living together for 2 years. I left him last Friday (it took me 4 months to leave because I had to save money). But, people like him don’t change do they? He keeps texting and emailing saying he knows he fucked up and lost me over some bull shit but he wants to start fresh and I tell him that when I took him back after he cheated before was our lets work it out and start fresh and he messed it up. He sounds so sincere but I am scared as hell. Like if I leave him hanging how I will know but if I give him another chance and get hurt; all the pain is just too much to even think about. The only reason we’re still talking is because he owes me $538 and I need money to help me move outa my mother’s house. After he pays my on the 16th I am changing my number. he'll be paying by western union so I don't have to see him. I think my fear of him hurting me for a third time is too strong for me to try again; but I want to for some dumb reason.My mother says she won't be surprised if I go back.... I don't need that I need somebody speaking positive to me. That kind of hurt when I built up enough courage to leave him more

Voting Question: All ladies, can you tell me why she didn't call me back?

Ok so I went out with this girl twice and had two really great dates with her. I find her extremely attractive, smart, fun, and down-to-earth. The first date we went out to dinner and talked for 3 and a half hours, but it felt like 10 minutes. I called her back 3 days later, made some general plans for the following weekend, then solidified them in an email another 3 days later. She had to cancel on me this past Saturday because she said she totally forgot about her brother's housewarming party after a long day of work, but rescheduled for the following night (note, she seems a bit absent minded sometimes which I don't know if it's in general or because of me). So we went out this past Sunday and again had a great time. Conversation flowed easily (she was telling me a lot about herself voluntarily), we were both laughing a lot, she even bought me a beer, etc. Towards the end of the date I leaned in and kissed her and she reciprocated a lot. We then made out again after I walked her back to her car. Again, she reciprocated a lot. So of course I came away from the date thinking I had hit a homerun - it couldn't have gone any better. So last night (Tuesday), after two days in between the second date I called her again. She didn't pick up so I didn't leave a message and figured I'd call later. So I went to dinner with some colleagues, came back at 9:30 (2 hours later) and called again. No answer. So I left a brief message seeing how she was doing and asking what she was up to Friday night. So she didn't call me back last night, and I'm wondering what's going on. I may be worrying a little bit too much about it - she could reasonably call tonight. But at the same time I would think if someone really likes you they would try to get back to you right away. So what's going on? How could two awesome dates ever be misinterpreted by me as actually not positive on her part? I think I'm a pretty good judge of people, but she is a bit of a mystery to me. more

Voting Question: I need GUY ADVICE? GIRLS too?

Around 4th of July, a friend added a guy I knew when I was 12. We saw each other about once a month, and he followed me around like a puppy back then. I sent him a friend request, “hey don’t know if you remember me but I remember you!“ He accepted and wrote me a private message. We’ve been writing back and forth all summer (we take WEEKS to reply). EVERY TIME he replies it’s PARAGRAPHS. He’s pretty cool guy. I’ve hit him up on chat a couple times. We discovered we’re both entering photography in the county fair. I saw him by accident at the movies last week (he didn’t see me). He’s actually turned out..Kinda cute. Sunday, he was online and I asked, “Did you get your entries in on time?“ We talked for a second, and then he said, “Im on the computer..at church.“ I felt stupid, “Bye! see you at the fair possibly!" He replied, “Yeah, definitely. I‘ll email about hanging out J“ I figured he was just being nice, and trying to get off the computer. I never figured he meant it. But then I logged in tonight and found this in my inbox: “So yeah I'm coming to the fair. Do you have a cell phone? My # is ____ you can text or call me so I can find you at the fair. I'm really bad at finding people so I have to talk to them as I'm looking for them haha.” DID HE JUST ASK FOR MY NUMBER? Does he sound..interested? So, what should I do? Should I text him (so he has my number)? Or just reply to his facebook message? Both? I don’t want to look stupid. We’re 19. Im thinking of just writing him, "Hey, its Allie. Now you have my cell number :)" is that good? more

Voting Question: I need GUY ADVICE? Girls too?

Resolved Question: Non-Christians: Do you really want an answer?

Or would you prefer to hold on to your own beliefs about Christians? I've been around Y/A for a while and find that there are many people who believe that all Christians are the same, share the same beliefs and believe that everyone who is not a Christian is going to hell. Yesterday I answered someone's question which suggested that all Christians believe everyone else is going to hell. I responded that I didn't actually believe in hell. He/she gave me Best Answer with the lowest rating possible and noted that I still believe in punishment for others. I was going to email this person and say that I don't believe in punishment as is traditionally taught by SOME Christan religions. This user won't allow email from other users. I'm sure that there are many Christians on this forum who are the same way - pose a question not to open a dialogue but to shove their beliefs down other people's throats. They don't really want to examine other possibilities. I guess I don't get the point of using Y/A for a personal soap box. Why don't some of the users here just write a blog instead? I don't get it.Thanks - you are correct. That should have been SOME Non-Christians. I'm sorry for the generalization.(though you may want to note that after the first sentence I wrote there are many people...) Demonkin: I'm sorry you thought I was telling you how you should believe - not only wasn't that my intention but I don't think I said You Should believe anything. BTW - I'm an ex-catholic as well. Aggy - I know what you mean - I've had several emails from Christians telling me I'm not a Christian. Other kinds too. I just block individuals who seem to have lost all sense of reality. more

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